Honesty.... (27)

Nov 9, 2011 8:21 PM CST Honesty....
saoirse65
saoirse65saoirse65Ballyshannon, Donegal Ireland210 Threads 3,338 Posts
..Okay....Was listening to the radio on my way home from work this morning...Ray Darcy Show...Anyone hear it?
As usual (kinda like CS threads)blushing I just got the tail end of it....This Girl is friends with a guy but wants more...His friends have said that they think he likes her...
Some of the advice given was...well go out and have a few jars with him(the great Irish way lol)and then make a move on him...well not exactly that but give him more than a hug...
Other Advice
Talk to his friends and let him know that you are interested..
The presenter(Male) asked...why could she not ask him straight out?
The Co presenter...female said No Way...
What would you do?
I would have gone with the honesty...call a spade a spade
Nov 10, 2011 9:59 AM CST Honesty....
milankovic
milankovicmilankovicgalway, Galway Ireland34 Threads 296 Posts
saoirse65: ..Okay....Was listening to the radio on my way home from work this morning...Ray Darcy Show...Anyone hear it?
As usual (kinda like CS threads) I just got the tail end of it....This Girl is friends with a guy but wants more...His friends have said that they think he likes her...
Some of the advice given was...well go out and have a few jars with him(the great Irish way lol)and then make a move on him...well not exactly that but give him more than a hug...
Other Advice
Talk to his friends and let him know that you are interested..
The presenter(Male) asked...why could she not ask him straight out?
The Co presenter...female said No Way...
What would you do?
I would have gone with the honesty...call a spade a spade


I have learned that you cant make someone like/love you. All you can do is stalk them and hope they'll panic and give in.wave

I jest of course.. tell him straight, no point in beating about the bush.
Nov 10, 2011 12:01 PM CST Honesty....
sharina
sharinasharinadublin, Dublin Ireland38 Threads 2 Polls 3,166 Posts
if you dont ask you dont get...i reckon your right ...thumbs up darlin...teddybear fancy a drink..laugh
Nov 10, 2011 1:07 PM CST Honesty....
sexydivabella
sexydivabellasexydivabellaDrogheda, Dublin Ireland44 Threads 4 Polls 5,978 Posts
saoirse65: ..Okay....Was listening to the radio on my way home from work this morning...Ray Darcy Show...Anyone hear it?
As usual (kinda like CS threads) I just got the tail end of it....This Girl is friends with a guy but wants more...His friends have said that they think he likes her...
Some of the advice given was...well go out and have a few jars with him(the great Irish way lol)and then make a move on him...well not exactly that but give him more than a hug...
Other Advice
Talk to his friends and let him know that you are interested..
The presenter(Male) asked...why could she not ask him straight out?
The Co presenter...female said No Way...
What would you do?
I would have gone with the honesty...call a spade a spade


IMO there is a lot wrong with this story!
How can you be friends with someone you fancy and "want more" from?
That is a bit deceptive in my books....you could never relax and just be yourself....you would always be looking to impress the person or jump on them laugh

Then if she does make the move and he does not fancy her back, what happens to the friendship? (that is probably down the crapper!)
So he loses a friend. (even one who was only friends for ulteriour motives!)

Am all for honesty but would hesitate in making a complete fool of myself!

Sounds like this girl on the radio story is watching too many Hollywood chick flicks!
Nov 10, 2011 1:49 PM CST Honesty....
milankovic
milankovicmilankovicgalway, Galway Ireland34 Threads 296 Posts
I've always wanted to be the last woman on earth, just to see if any of those men were lying to me.very happy
Nov 10, 2011 2:37 PM CST Honesty....
IamJimmy
IamJimmyIamJimmyCastlebar, Mayo Ireland1 Threads 1 Polls 5 Posts
Ah go on - I am waiting - lol !
Nov 10, 2011 2:47 PM CST Honesty....
milankovic
milankovicmilankovicgalway, Galway Ireland34 Threads 296 Posts
IamJimmy: Ah go on - I am waiting - lol !


You have a really nice carapace.love
Nov 10, 2011 3:08 PM CST Honesty....
IamJimmy
IamJimmyIamJimmyCastlebar, Mayo Ireland1 Threads 1 Polls 5 Posts
milankovic: You have a really nice carapace.


Why thank you blushing
I would like to comment on yours but dont think you would show it ! grin devil
Nov 10, 2011 3:33 PM CST Honesty....
milankovic
milankovicmilankovicgalway, Galway Ireland34 Threads 296 Posts
IamJimmy: Why thank you
I would like to comment on yours but dont think you would show it !


No hard shell here. Im a big softie.
Nov 10, 2011 4:51 PM CST Honesty....
IamJimmy
IamJimmyIamJimmyCastlebar, Mayo Ireland1 Threads 1 Polls 5 Posts
milankovic: No hard shell here. Im a big softie.


Well the only one I know on here says shes a crabby woman and all seem to be fairly though skinned - or at least the ones I know - and Galway girls are some of the toughest - they have broken many hearts - so you are the first softie - on here !

Well what you think of this thread - not much good - what was the author thinking????

frustrated Must be a real mad cow !! tongue
Nov 10, 2011 4:53 PM CST Honesty....
sexydivabella
sexydivabellasexydivabellaDrogheda, Dublin Ireland44 Threads 4 Polls 5,978 Posts
IamJimmy: Well the only one I know on here says shes a crabby woman and all seem to be fairly though skinned - or at least the ones I know - and Galway girls are some of the toughest - they have broken many hearts - so you are the first softie - on here !

Well what you think of this thread - not much good - what was the author thinking????

Must be a real mad cow !!


ah she is mad alright
but in the best way possible grin
Nov 10, 2011 4:59 PM CST Honesty....
salanky
salankysalankydublin, Dublin Ireland90 Threads 1 Polls 9,888 Posts
snowlynx: All women are mad. It's a well-known scientific fact.
nothing wrong with being mad, sure being normal is just boring grin
Nov 10, 2011 5:13 PM CST Honesty....
IamJimmy
IamJimmyIamJimmyCastlebar, Mayo Ireland1 Threads 1 Polls 5 Posts
In response to: ..Okay....Was listening to the radio on my way home from work this morning...Ray Darcy Show...Anyone hear it?
As usual (kinda like CS threads) I just got the tail end of it....This Girl is friends with a guy but wants more...His friends have said that they think he likes her...
Some of the advice given was...well go out and have a few jars with him(the great Irish way lol)and then make a move on him...well not exactly that but give him more than a hug...
Other Advice
Talk to his friends and let him know that you are interested..
The presenter(Male) asked...why could she not ask him straight out?
The Co presenter...female said No Way...
What would you do?
I would have gone with the honesty...call a spade a spade


Now thats just MAD - sure there are lots of girls friends with guys hoping that something will happen ! Thankfully we good lads are generally very self controlled and never give into those Mad women ! grin
Nov 10, 2011 5:19 PM CST Honesty....
sexydivabella
sexydivabellasexydivabellaDrogheda, Dublin Ireland44 Threads 4 Polls 5,978 Posts
saoirse65: Well Hello there
Now is there still money in my defence account or do I owe you for this??


ya owe me a beer sometime is all beer teddybear
Nov 10, 2011 5:29 PM CST Honesty....
womaniser
womaniserwomaniserblue balls, climax TY, Waterford Ireland8 Threads 152 Posts
fifitheminx: i know ur not arguing..i dont argue much myself..it has happened to me..and mutual..i suppose thats why i can understand it..its kinda well cool too when it does happen..
yes fifi
Nov 10, 2011 5:30 PM CST Honesty....
fifitheminx
fifitheminxfifitheminxDublin, Ireland35 Threads 4,039 Posts
womaniser: yes fifi


lol what u yes fifi'ing about young man?
Nov 10, 2011 5:32 PM CST Honesty....
womaniser
womaniserwomaniserblue balls, climax TY, Waterford Ireland8 Threads 152 Posts
fifitheminx: lol what u yes fifi'ing about young man?
stop, i couldnt be revealing that here devil
Nov 10, 2011 5:33 PM CST Honesty....
fifitheminx: lol what u yes fifi'ing about young man?


rolling on the floor laughing

I was wondering that myself.
Nov 10, 2011 5:34 PM CST Honesty....
sexydivabella
sexydivabellasexydivabellaDrogheda, Dublin Ireland44 Threads 4 Polls 5,978 Posts
fifitheminx: i know ur not arguing..i dont argue much myself..it has happened to me..and mutual..i suppose thats why i can understand it..its kinda well cool too when it does happen..


was it like Hollywood grin
seriously I can see how it would be brilliant....but my problem with it is how do you suddenly fancy someone or feel chemistry with them if it was not there in the first place?
I have a (female married) friend who knows me since we were 5, and we constantly argue this point...
for me I believe the attraction has to be immediate
for her it can build up over a long long time....
I just don't get it...probably because it never happened that way for me with someone.
I need the WOW factor or I don't give the person a chance...she reckons I am losing out on good relations (or relationships) by being....
em what's the phrase she calls me????

oh yeah

"emotionally immature" blues
Nov 10, 2011 5:34 PM CST Honesty....
fifitheminx
fifitheminxfifitheminxDublin, Ireland35 Threads 4,039 Posts
womaniser: stop, i couldnt be revealing that here


not like u..

ur usually nekkid running around revealing everything in here..

laugh
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