mmmmuntouchable: SO what do lads REALLY think of woman with young kids?? Does it turn them off? As a new-ish mum of 2 babies its all new to me. Not looking but just curious
it wouldnt bother me but im the type of fella who isnt bothered by a lot anyway but i do get why it would bother some people a mother or father has more responsibilities than someone without kids
Glengirl: I went on a date with a guy one time and his son, aged 12, was texting him asking how it was going
A few days later we were chatting on the phone and he put his daughter, aged 10, on to talk to me.....
Sounds like the kids were vetting you to see if you were substitute mother material! And he was checking to see if they like you, even before he got to know you himself!
Sunnydaze14: Sounds like the kids were vetting you to see if you were substitute mother material! And he was checking to see if they like you, even before he got to know you himself!
I don't know what it was all about, but I wasn't hanging around to find out
This is what showed me that I couldn't date a single dad, so maybe he did me a favour
it can be great too, i love playing with my girlfriends kid, i dont mind getting her things or paying for the odd thing, i always thought relationships were give and take, plus to see her face light up when you get her some cheap little doll, it makes my day
allAboutU: it can be great too, i love playing with my girlfriends kid, i dont mind getting her things or paying for the odd thing, i always thought relationships were give and take, plus to see her face light up when you get her some cheap little doll, it makes my day
well that is because you are obviously a very decent caring bloke what a lovely post....
In response to: SO what do lads REALLY think of woman with young kids?? Does it turn them off? As a new-ish mum of 2 babies its all new to me. Not looking but just curious
It never bothered nor stopped me. You can't help who you fall for, at least I can't.
allAboutU: it can be great too, i love playing with my girlfriends kid, i dont mind getting her things or paying for the odd thing, i always thought relationships were give and take, plus to see her face light up when you get her some cheap little doll, it makes my day
Would it be that she has you wrapped around her little finger and knows it??
In response to: SO what do lads REALLY think of woman with young kids?? Does it turn them off? As a new-ish mum of 2 babies its all new to me. Not looking but just curious
I never thought it would bother me, but from experience I have learned it is an absolute nightmare,, exes around the place,, kids with ,, "you're not my dad, you cant tell me what to do" attitude," is a bit of a sickener when you have paid to bring them on holiday.. No,, just doesnt work...
As a few others have said, I personally wouldn't date anyone with kids if I were still dating. Young or old it wouldn't matter. I'm not a big fan of kids and I've previously been in a situation dating someone who had kids - it was a nightmare I'd never do again.
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well I guess people just do what they think is right for them....
to GG.....jesus that guy must have been pretty smitten with ya