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And ladies have mercy on me... I am just a man who does manly stuff.
I know exactly what you're getting at. When men (some) live alone, they don't always flush the toilet when they pee. They think they are saving on the water bill and that bad habit might continue when they start to live together. It's disgusting to go in the bathroom and find that there's pee in the toilet.
I met someone at work, always saw him in a suit and tie and when we dated he was always dressed nicely in casual clothes except for when we went fishing. I moved in with him and found out he liked to walk around the house in his undershorts which I didn't like and was as lazy as they come.
He also wasn't as respectful and didn't have much patience with having a female around all the time. His whole personality changed. There were intimacy problems too. I lived with him for six years and then one day said ENOUGH !!
Anybody who thinks it's going to be the way it was when you were dating is heading for a disappointment.
This relationship taught me....Expect nothing and you won't be disappointed.