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Nov 21, 2011 9:59 PM CST Women behind the men
olaix
olaixolaixValhalla, Nordland Norway52 Threads 6 Polls 1,119 Posts
Perhaps you are on to something - a weakness could in fact be a strength, turning a weakness into a strength, especially with the aid of a woman would sounds useful for the suggestion :)
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Nov 21, 2011 10:01 PM CST Women behind the men
ninamil
ninamilninamilGoiania, Goias Brazil31 Threads 1 Polls 696 Posts
olaix: Or, controlling, or rather, contributing to his strength?


Yes, she controls his weakness or complete him with what she thinks can help magnify him to an audience but in home things are very different. laugh
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Nov 21, 2011 10:08 PM CST Women behind the men
olaix
olaixolaixValhalla, Nordland Norway52 Threads 6 Polls 1,119 Posts
ninamil: Yes, she controls his weakness or complete him with what she thinks can help magnify him to an audience but in home things are very different.


Well, that could seem like a place to put the sacrifice and the generosity then. It could also mean how to deal with weakness, from both parts. I would have chosen some of the words better though, taken the meaning behind them, but I get what you mean.
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Nov 21, 2011 10:08 PM CST Women behind the men
ninamil
ninamilninamilGoiania, Goias Brazil31 Threads 1 Polls 696 Posts
olaix: Perhaps you are on to something - a weakness could in fact be a strength, turning a weakness into a strength, especially with the aid of a woman would sounds useful for the suggestion :)


Great is the man or woman who stands by him or herself. usually when a couple who depends on another to stand out when separate is a disaster
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Nov 21, 2011 10:17 PM CST Women behind the men
olaix
olaixolaixValhalla, Nordland Norway52 Threads 6 Polls 1,119 Posts
I question what weakness really is. To me, society got many things backwards in that regard.

In some circles, compassion, generosity, sacrifice, sorrow, a apology, admitting you were wrong, tolerance, even being peaceful are considered being weak. In some situations, surely they can be, but as virtue, they are not.
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Nov 21, 2011 10:20 PM CST Women behind the men
olaix
olaixolaixValhalla, Nordland Norway52 Threads 6 Polls 1,119 Posts
ninamil: Great is the man or woman who stands by him or herself. usually when a couple who depends on another to stand out when separate is a disaster


Definitely, there are two sayings;

I will take care of you if you take care of me,

and,

I will take care of me for you, and you will take care of you for me.

Surely, both are useful.
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Nov 22, 2011 12:26 AM CST Women behind the men
olaix
olaixolaixValhalla, Nordland Norway52 Threads 6 Polls 1,119 Posts
Talking about unhealthy coercion (we may discuss if coercion can ever be healthy), from what it see, it partly the result of compulsion. Many people are compulsive one way or the other, these days it seems like compulsion and coercion is a huge part of society. Sometimes we even call it negotiation laugh

If you know what you're doing you are able to remove, negate or reverse them. I did not say it would be easy for anyone, but hey laugh
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Nov 22, 2011 9:14 AM CST Women behind the men
horizonrizon
horizonrizonhorizonrizonAtlantis, Central Jutland Denmark19 Threads 2 Polls 171 Posts
olaix: Hi, you probably heard the expression; behind every great man, there is a woman.

Do you believe its true?
why?
why not?

if yes; how? what would make it, what would break it?

and if it is true - would it be possible for all to "participate", or just the special few?

and in case availability for everyone is correct, including you and I, what would be the price for engaging in such? and what would be the price to not?
define women and then define men ...and then define those in between ...I am referring to accepted liasons between man to man and than women to women ...does this thread continue to have any significance as of 2011 ...?
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Nov 22, 2011 11:04 AM CST Women behind the men
olaix
olaixolaixValhalla, Nordland Norway52 Threads 6 Polls 1,119 Posts
That's not really what we're trying to find out here.

It is a free world to explore all options, why don't you make a effort to see what you can understand of it, then throw a suggestion, and we'll have a look.

If its valid or not? perhaps not for some, perhaps for others.
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Nov 22, 2011 11:51 AM CST Women behind the men
viva007
viva007viva007HYDERABAD, Telangana India41 Threads 8 Polls 7,447 Posts
Behind every successful man there is a women

And

Behind every unsuccessful man there are lots of womenrolling on the floor laughing
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Nov 22, 2011 1:34 PM CST Women behind the men
olaix
olaixolaixValhalla, Nordland Norway52 Threads 6 Polls 1,119 Posts
viva007: Behind every successful man there is a women

And

Behind every unsuccessful man there are lots of women


Haha! this thread just owned
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Nov 22, 2011 1:44 PM CST Women behind the men
If a man has a career, a good corporate wife can make or break his career. In the other direction, I don't know whether a husband could ruin a wife's career or not.
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Nov 22, 2011 6:43 PM CST Women behind the men
olaix
olaixolaixValhalla, Nordland Norway52 Threads 6 Polls 1,119 Posts
Would that mean truth because ...



Not only because the unsuccessful man waste his time with all the girls, even if he have them or not, but if the girl isn't the one, she is either no one, or one of the hundred

cheers
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Nov 22, 2011 6:59 PM CST Women behind the men
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
single4ever: Only when I am kicking him in the butt.



writing


laugh
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Nov 22, 2011 7:28 PM CST Women behind the men
olaix
olaixolaixValhalla, Nordland Norway52 Threads 6 Polls 1,119 Posts
I wonder if the girls are actually seeing the truth of this, not because it is my wish or opinion, but because how visible it is in society, even on this forum help "whaa he used me, I gave him the candy and now he is gone????", "Never gonna open the belt anymore!!!", "Going to find a safe and secure", "I may start speculate what it means to be, for a man, a woman".(not in the corporate or political world, there we're all massproduced from the production line)

A new book emerging, "Women's 5 choices, subconscious or not"

1. She gets screwed aka one of the hundred
2. Intimate isolation (random stands perhaps, though) in pursue of inner peace and love for self etc which negate the desire for a man
3. She gets a hubby
4. she is the one


Basically this seems inevitable to me. Fun to break things down roll eyes
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Nov 22, 2011 7:29 PM CST Women behind the men
olaix
olaixolaixValhalla, Nordland Norway52 Threads 6 Polls 1,119 Posts
I'll tell number 5 if the "riddle" gets solved
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Nov 22, 2011 7:39 PM CST Women behind the men
olaix
olaixolaixValhalla, Nordland Norway52 Threads 6 Polls 1,119 Posts
Natural chain of thought, following this path would be to just treat girls as if they are stupid, of course, while she thinks the opposite wink

I promise though, to not uh oh
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Nov 22, 2011 7:48 PM CST Women behind the men
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
olaix:

A new book emerging, "Women's 5 choices, subconscious or not"

ONLY 5 choices??? shock

1. She gets screwed aka one of the hundred
2. Intimate isolation (random stands perhaps, though) in pursue of inner peace and love for self etc which negate the desire for a man
3. She gets a hubby
4. she is the oneBasically this seems inevitable to me.

5. She gets a glass of red wine wine
( I do after a very busy day).

grin

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Nov 22, 2011 8:10 PM CST Women behind the men
olaix
olaixolaixValhalla, Nordland Norway52 Threads 6 Polls 1,119 Posts
Well, the 4 first choices will of course be developed and defined a little bit more careful and in details for the book, but if you are single and passive, you're ending up with choice 2.

I'm having a green tea right now, my day was busy too, does not give me a 6th choice wink

If you are single and active, you'll be choice 3, or choice 4, and you may go through various choice 1 on your way, which again may sound to "risky" and will put you back to choice 2.
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Nov 22, 2011 8:36 PM CST Women behind the men
olaix
olaixolaixValhalla, Nordland Norway52 Threads 6 Polls 1,119 Posts
I wonder how many guys does not recognize the "... must... resist... my biological.... nature... uh.." that is underlying all the conditioning by society when it comes to this - because without the transmutation from the one, that IS what is it is.

laugh
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