He's Just That INTO you... (38)
sorry darlin....can't give away trade secrets now can i!?!?!
I wanna know too..... because sometimes I'm not really clear whether it is a sign or not.
I already know your "secret" sugar...
I'd like to hear from the men on this but in my humble opinion if a man has no interest in you getting to know his children, parents ,siblings any family or things like where he grew up....he's not that interested. Furthermore if he has no interest in the same things about you there is not much staying interest.
Well I am not a man so I am not 100% sure what they would say but I think that if someone is really that into you their actions and words will speak it and you will just sense it. Its hard to explain, at least for me...but I can just sense by the tone of voice and body language and I think also the consistancy of how much you both interact and talk.
And yes guys. Come on. Tell us your views please!
And yes guys. Come on. Tell us your views please!
Like you ladies...i'm muddling my way through this particular one too...
I know when I was younger...if a boy pulled my hair or pushed me down in the school yard...oh yeah!! he had it BAD for me...
In later years...if he asked me to dance "stairway to heaven" at the school dance....yep..that was a definite...
Now with men...who knows????
I know when I was younger...if a boy pulled my hair or pushed me down in the school yard...oh yeah!! he had it BAD for me...
In later years...if he asked me to dance "stairway to heaven" at the school dance....yep..that was a definite...
Now with men...who knows????
All you guys who lurk are a bunch of chicken's Come on guys no one can bite you thru a screen so be MANly
Guess i am going first...for me, i let a girl know i am really into her by a combination of my words and more so actions.
I am into a girl when i am communicating with phone calls, in person conversations, winking, sending flowers spontaneoulsy, notes at work or left behind (i have left some on a car before or on her pillow) doing outings and things together, touch/holding hands, kissing, playing-fun wrestling or massaging, sharing a tub or skinny dip, getaways - road trips, lots of suprises and yes the odd bum squeeze.
(And NO being into a girl is not about buying gifts but sometimes for me it is a way of showing my affection in addition and along with action....example..a teddy bear and chocolates followed by a long kiss and hugs)
I get a feeling inside when i really want to be with a girl...hard to describe but you just know it when its there. To sum it up in a sentence....always "wanting" to be with her.
Come on guys no one can bite you thru a screen so be MANlyGuess i am going first...for me, i let a girl know i am really into her by a combination of my words and more so actions.
I am into a girl when i am communicating with phone calls, in person conversations, winking, sending flowers spontaneoulsy, notes at work or left behind (i have left some on a car before or on her pillow) doing outings and things together, touch/holding hands, kissing, playing-fun wrestling or massaging, sharing a tub or skinny dip, getaways - road trips, lots of suprises and yes the odd bum squeeze.
(And NO being into a girl is not about buying gifts but sometimes for me it is a way of showing my affection in addition and along with action....example..a teddy bear and chocolates followed by a long kiss and hugs)I get a feeling inside when i really want to be with a girl...hard to describe but you just know it when its there. To sum it up in a sentence....always "wanting" to be with her.
When I am really into you you'll know it without a doubt.
AB we weren't talking about the "head banging into the headboard"...
Where are all our other regulars??? Come on guys, tell us!
I read the book. lol.. its my Bible now.
How do I know when a guy is not into me? When I have to ask HIM to call.. or I make the phone calls all the time.
When he talks to me constantly but tells me "he doesn't know what he wants". He wants to know he's wanted but he wants to explore all his options.. ya know? I'm there "in case".
When someone is into me, he'll call daily. I'll get emails from him. He'll make plans to do things.
Actions speak louder than words. It's an epiphany I had a few years ago that I now keeps as a sacred motto!.
How do I know when a guy is not into me? When I have to ask HIM to call.. or I make the phone calls all the time.
When he talks to me constantly but tells me "he doesn't know what he wants". He wants to know he's wanted but he wants to explore all his options.. ya know? I'm there "in case".
When someone is into me, he'll call daily. I'll get emails from him. He'll make plans to do things.
Actions speak louder than words. It's an epiphany I had a few years ago that I now keeps as a sacred motto!.
Show me a sign
When a guy is into a girl he lets her know he's thinking of her in many little ways,a call,an email,a look or a touch just to name a few.
If you don't know if a guy is into you, umm.. maybe you need a bigger guy.
Well, when I'm "Into" a woman, I try to show her by making sure she has first dibs on me before anyone else. Like, I will cancel plans with others if she wants to do something. As far as I am concerned, the woman I'm with comes before my friends, to a point. Like, if my buddies want to go out partying and my lady wants to do something else, well, "Sorry guys but I'm staying in with the lady tonight!". That kinda thing.
I agree with you Doug,it's a good way to be.
Well, I figure that I'm number one in my life and my lady is number two. Anyone after that isn't as important!
and that's why ur a sweetheart.
Well, I guess what I'm trying to get at is, your partner is your family and family is more important to me than friend!
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Now lets hear what your think are the signs when a guy is really into a girl...