I do resent your terminology "MEN", as if all mewn lie. I invite you too look at my profile and tell me where I say anything about being rich or have a fantastic job. I am retired on Social Security. I am not broke, but live on a tight budget right now,
It has been stated on here more than once why men (and women) lie. Some makes sense. But believe it or not, I do not lie. I have nothing to hide. If you don't like who I am, then move on. If you don't like what I look like, move on. Simple as that. What I am is who I am. There is always room for improvement, and that can come with a loving partner in life. I won't be wasting my time or yours by lying, because the truth will come out eventually in time. Plus, the bottom line is, "The more you lie, the more you need to remember." I have enough things to (try) and remember
I think you are right but maybe that is not because women are gullible or stupid (though there must be some, as many as men I suppose) but because women tend to be more concentrated on having things settled within serious relationships. I think it is a matter of having a good heart and certainly women tend to have them better than men. This would be a good reason for us guys not to lie to our women but unfortunately we are not always as balanced as we wish we were... (this said in a personal tone)
"I have had women tell me that they are 35, svelt and single (20 year old photo furnished), when they are actually 55, rotund and unhappily married."
Bingo!! And I know several men who have told me the same thing. I've had men DO the same thing.
Now, what I can't figure out is WHY? Where do they think they're going with this "plan?"
Even if you never meet them, THEY know it's a lie, so ... ...I don't know. I'll never be able to figure out the motivations behind some people's actions.
They want to be salesman, bankers or politicians. If one learns how to lie good enough who knows they might be able to some day to become the president.
It is real easy. All you have to do is don't tell the truth. It takes practice but if you try real hard you can get good at it. You might slip once in a while because telling the truth sometimes is easier but nobody is perfect.
I will admit, I have lied when I was younger. Although I think most women can be big liars as well. Let's examine a few things here.
Contacts Pushup bras Implants Hair Dye Makeup High Heels Plastic Surgery
Just to name a few. It is this simple. Sometimes a guy is left with no options, after running into women who take no responsibility for the previous dates she has been on. One mistake is to compare "new people", to "old people". Second, is daydreaming. Men are guilty of this as well, but have found more women often think they will find someone "Perfect". By this, I mean impossible. Let me be mean to this guy, because somewhere over the rainbow, there is a man who is good looking, well endowed, very wealthy who doesn't mind if I sit on my butt all day, does what I say, pampers me, lets me go out, home all the time, is a good father, cooks and cleans, and the list goes on..... Now, not saying all women are like this, but generally you might ask, "What does this have to do with the topic?" Well, when you dream too long, one must live up the lie. I just say, be the example of the standards you set.
And yes, some of you probably don't like me already because I talk too much. I am sorry.
Nah, It takes a lot of work to be a good lier and typicaly one lie just leads to the next and before you know it you can't remember what you lied about before. Some things would be harder to lie about than other too I suppose. It seems like one of the easiest is the old "marriage on the rocks" bit.
This scenario always seems to include one Prince Charming and one woman who desperatly wants to believe his lies in the first place.
Apart from my general opinion that women can be more whole-hearted than men I know that many women are big liars, especially young ones. I have never understood their games well. I mean noone can go far with big lies (unless you only want a casual fling or satisfy your sick ego) What pisses me off most are those women saying "I never lie" Who says that is the biggest liar for sure...
I can understand that. I am much too lazy to ever make a good liar. Oh, I know. Remembering who one lied to last can give one a headache. It is not always easy to come clean in some things but it can make it easier on one's conscious.
Let your conscious be your guide. Jimney Cricket (Pinochio)
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