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My "ex" has offered to give me everything if I will let him have primary custody of the girls...(13 and 10)
I will be the first to admit that he has always been an excellent father, I could not have chosen better for my children...His whole world revolves around those children...as a matter of fact...I believe that is where the breakdown of our marriage started...he just wanted to be a "daddy"...not a "husband" anymore...there was never any time for "me" after I had the kids...
He was raised by just his father alone, and he is an only child, so when he does everything for the kids, its because its what he knows, what he saw his father do for him...so i don't think it was intentional that he somehow "squeezed" me out of that "family circle"
However, one of the reasons he can do all the things he does with the children is because i'm in the "background" taking care of all the other details so that there is money, time, arrangements made, so that he can do all that...
I love my children too...I may have made alot of mistakes in my past, but those two girls are the best thing i've ever done with my life...and i know they love me too...
Anyone have any "words of wisdom" for me???