FAULT FINDERS ( Archived) (55)

Apr 23, 2012 9:32 AM CST FAULT FINDERS
EagleWoman
EagleWomanEagleWomanMalaga, Andalusia Spain22 Threads 4,719 Posts
Carl96190: We are all imperfect beings and what may appeal to one may repel another.
If someone does not like you the way that you are, do not pretend to be someone or something that you are not. Keep looking for someone who wants what you have to offer.


Wow!!! We agree on something!!! laugh thumbs up
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Apr 23, 2012 9:40 AM CST FAULT FINDERS
patmac
patmacpatmacglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK730 Threads 6 Polls 9,662 Posts
EagleWoman: Wow!!! We agree on something!!!


Yep, but how many takers for the gentlemandunno


Few I suspect....grin cheers
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Apr 23, 2012 9:45 AM CST FAULT FINDERS
EagleWoman
EagleWomanEagleWomanMalaga, Andalusia Spain22 Threads 4,719 Posts
patmac: Yep, but how many takers for the gentleman Few I suspect....


How many "takers" do we each need Pat?

dunno
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Apr 23, 2012 9:52 AM CST FAULT FINDERS
patmac
patmacpatmacglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK730 Threads 6 Polls 9,662 Posts
EagleWoman: How many "takers" do we each need Pat?
Plenty....That would be a miracle.....Just one nice lady would do for me....grin cheers
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Apr 23, 2012 10:12 AM CST FAULT FINDERS
EagleWoman
EagleWomanEagleWomanMalaga, Andalusia Spain22 Threads 4,719 Posts
patmac: Plenty....That would be a miracle..... Just one nice lady would do for me....


Just ONE person who matches with who we are would do for most poeple, me thinks!! thumbs up

So the question of "many takers" is just ego talk!! mumbling Unless you´re aboutto set up a harem!! rolling on the floor laughing
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Apr 23, 2012 1:02 PM CST FAULT FINDERS
single4ever
single4eversingle4everCalgary, Alberta Canada1,109 Posts
Carl96190: We are all imperfect beings and what may appeal to one may repel another.
If someone does not like you the way that you are, do not pretend to be someone or something that you are not. Keep looking for someone who wants what you have to offer.


Perfectly said Carl. thumbs up
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Apr 25, 2012 4:35 PM CST FAULT FINDERS
myhome: Marss if you are looking for anything real this site is not the one.Everything else on here is good.


What a load of rubbish...........real is whatever you wish it to be. You wanna live in fantasy world............stay pushing ur point to an imaginary audience. When you find something worthwhile.........go for it!!!
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Apr 25, 2012 9:10 PM CST FAULT FINDERS
rivame
rivamerivamemelbourne, Victoria Australia54 Threads 3 Polls 4,601 Posts
myhome: Marss if you are looking for anything real this site is not the one.Everything else on here is good.


What do you mean by real???

just because not everyone finds what they are looking for here makes it very real.....the REAL world is a bit like that.... wine
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Apr 25, 2012 10:08 PM CST FAULT FINDERS
marss
marssmarssmorriston, Florida USA47 Threads 5 Polls 2,606 Posts
rivame: What do you mean by real???

just because not everyone finds what they are looking for here makes it very real.....the REAL world is a bit like that....
i agree its very real...read the book.....
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Apr 25, 2012 10:22 PM CST FAULT FINDERS
southmiami12
southmiami12southmiami12Tampa, Florida, Florida USA5 Threads 162 Posts
You are a good mnn; being a father that love his kids is a plus.
There will be someone that will find you and accept you as you are.
Balance yourself and you be fine...
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Apr 25, 2012 11:43 PM CST FAULT FINDERS
marss
marssmarssmorriston, Florida USA47 Threads 5 Polls 2,606 Posts
i thank you for the compliment miss and i value you opinion as well...thank you...i hope that you and your family are healthy and well...bouquet
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Apr 26, 2012 2:10 AM CST FAULT FINDERS
goldfish22
goldfish22goldfish22tauranga, Bay of Plenty New Zealand132 Posts
amahlala: Don't give up Marss...eventually we all find the person who accepts our weirdness when we accept their weirdness.....


thumbs up laugh
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Jul 5, 2012 7:21 PM CST FAULT FINDERS
texasgent222
texasgent222texasgent222Dallas, Texas USA1 Threads 255 Posts
Well possibly if EVERY girl you meet finds fault in you there might be something to it. Perhaps try a different approach to all things dating and improve upon yourself. You're never too old for a self improvement program. Empower yourself. And you're adopting the wrong attitude by thinking that it's all over for you by the age of 50. You still have some good decades in front of you most likely. Sounds as if you are just in a temporary rut. This too shall pass as all bad things are apt to do.
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Jul 5, 2012 7:32 PM CST FAULT FINDERS
marss: every girl i meet finds faults in me...i know i ain't perfect but damn do i gotta couple with someone less perfect?
it just leads me to believe my time for coupling has passed and living alone from 50 is what lies ahead for me....not complaining mind you i like me...but it makes me wonder if by leaving one night stands and superficial relations out of the picture is alone better?i wait for the wake up call but it isn't coming...if it wasn't for my kids..i would be done on this planet i think...
This is for you (Marss and Afternoon...) For some reason when I write this sort of thing, the thread gets pulled. Don't know why, but I'm going out on a limb and doing it again. Once more, with feeling...forget about finding someone on the internet. Go to where the women are--find a reading or writing circle, a folk gathering, a seniors or "over-forty" club. There are many, many choices. I really like the adage, "If the mountain won't come to Muhammed, then Muhammed will go to the mountain". Your experiences are not novel, and by your own description, you seem to come up empty-handed trying to find someone here. So, go to a real place, with real people (I mean nothing bad by this, I just think when people meet face to face it is a much different kind of "geography" then trying to figure it out online. JMO
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Jan 4, 2013 7:59 PM CST FAULT FINDERS
Lulibella
LulibellaLulibelladenham springs, Louisiana USA13 Threads 173 Posts
It happens to the best of us. I dated a guy and it was like no matter what I did, there was a fault to it. From removing a piece of bread from the loaf wrong to waking up with my hair a mess. Fault finders are mentally challenge junkies, in other words... Fault finders get a rush from feeding off  our weaknesses so they can eventually use them against us. It's nothing to do with you.. Honest! It's to do with them... They prey around until they find someone with a weakness, that's when the battle begins.. The battle they fighting isn't with you but within themselves. Keep your head up and never let them bring you down... :)
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