Being a little tied up? (77)
Wear the librarian suit, a hair bun, red lipstick, and black rimmed glasses. (With black lingerie underneath.)
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lou460: OK a guy I've been dating a few weeks started kidding me about blindfolds and ropes... I punched him in the arm and excused myself to the ladies room! But I'm seeing him tomorrow night. What should I wear?
Leather, studded dog collar, ankle and wrist cuffs.
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marss: suggest you tie him up first then leave him that way as you close the dumpster lid on him...
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Wear a Geisha girl outfit.
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lou460: OK a guy I've been dating a few weeks started kidding me about blindfolds and ropes... I punched him in the arm and excused myself to the ladies room! But I'm seeing him tomorrow night. What should I wear?
A Fishnet Catsuit, elbow-length gloves (With Claws)...
Thigh-high boots and a Riding Crop!!
Watch him R U N..!!!
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Just dress like yourself darlin. Obviously hes attracted to you as you are. Ive always shopped for accoutrements WITH my lover. 
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I will check to see you get home safely 
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lou460: OK a guy I've been dating a few weeks started kidding me about blindfolds and ropes... I punched him in the arm and excused myself to the ladies room! But I'm seeing him tomorrow night. What should I wear?
Should things like ropes (for those into that sort of thing) not be kept for when real trust is established ... so you know you´ll be safe?
Is there not a difference between courting with danger and courting with surrender?
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EagleWoman: Should things like ropes (for those into that sort of thing) not be kept for when real trust is established ... so you know you´ll be safe?
Really! For the life of me I'll never understand why people choose rope when chain is much safer.
EagleWoman:
Is there not a difference between courting with danger and courting with surrender?
Is there not a difference between courting with danger and courting with surrender?
It's a puzzle wrapped up in an enigma, covered in ... wonder. Besides, once tied up, you're way past surrender. 
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BB_snickers: Really! For the life of me I'll never understand why people choose rope when chain is much safer.
It's a puzzle wrapped up in an enigma, covered in ... wonder. Besides, once tied up, you're way past surrender.
Shouldn´t that be an experience lived with someone you know and trust?
Or is the thrill or the unknown dangerous element, through not knowing the person well, part of the excitement?
I think those two would be two completely differente experiences.
The first experience could unfold within the energy of love.
The second smacks (hahaha) of lack of self-love and caring.
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Sorry BB second part of my post is for second part of your which I meant to quote but forgot.
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EagleWoman: Sorry BB second part of my post is for second part of your which I meant to quote but forgot.
Yep, you just forget everything when you're enjoying been a little tied up!
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EagleWoman:
Shouldn´t that be an experience lived with someone you know and trust?
Shouldn´t that be an experience lived with someone you know and trust?
Speaking for others isn't wise but my best answer would be ... For some people yes, for others no. There's a significant disparity me thinks in what you're calling trust when the more fitting word might be fear. What I call trust probably isn't what you would call trust.
In any event the real issue at hand is one of fear, not necessarily trust as you might define it.
EagleWoman:
Or is the thrill or the unknown dangerous element, through not knowing the person well, part of the excitement?
I think those two would be two completely differente experiences.
The first experience could unfold within the energy of love.
The second smacks (hahaha) of lack of self-love and caring.
Or is the thrill or the unknown dangerous element, through not knowing the person well, part of the excitement?
I think those two would be two completely differente experiences.
The first experience could unfold within the energy of love.
The second smacks (hahaha) of lack of self-love and caring.
you and I have completely different subjective and objective definitions of love. you're right two diff experiences but the results you propose are not necessarily so because of that different view of what love and trust are.
Thank george burns we're not all the same.
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EagleWoman: Sorry BB second part of my post is for second part of your which I meant to quote but forgot.
I no longer trust you to post mindfully
Or is it...
I fear you may not always be mindful?
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EagleWoman: Sorry BB second part of my post is for second part of your which I meant to quote but forgot.
I no longer trust you to post mindfully
Or is it...
I fear you may not always be mindful?
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uptall: Yep, you just forget everything when you're enjoying been a little tied up! .......................
Total surrender without "being a little tied up" enhances the feeling of total freedom
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BB_snickers: Speaking for others isn't wise but my best answer would be ... For some people yes, for others no. There's a significant disparity me thinks in what you're calling trust when the more fitting word might be fear. What I call trust probably isn't what you would call trust.
In any event the real issue at hand is one of fear, not necessarily trust as you might define it.
you and I have completely different subjective and objective definitions of love. you're right two diff experiences but the results you propose are not necessarily so because of that different view of what love and trust are.
Thank george burns we're not all the same.
In any event the real issue at hand is one of fear, not necessarily trust as you might define it.
you and I have completely different subjective and objective definitions of love. you're right two diff experiences but the results you propose are not necessarily so because of that different view of what love and trust are.
Thank george burns we're not all the same.
Your post makes total sense.
There´s a difference between fear and being aware there are nutters out there!!!
Being caring to oneself includes NOT putting one´s "wellbeing" in the hands of someone undeserving of it.
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EagleWoman: Total surrender without "being a little tied up" enhances the feeling of total freedom
That goes in my little book
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BB_snickers: I no longer trust you to post mindfully
Or is it...
I fear you may not always be mindful?
Or is it...
I fear you may not always be mindful?
I trust you feel very strongly about that!!??
Or is it....
I fear you may feel very strongly about that!!??
You posted it twice!!
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Well since you two are going out to dinner ...and probably some "fun" after, here are a few suggestions what to wear
Wonder woman or Princess Leia...under no circumstances dress like Wookie or Jabba the Hutt .