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May 24, 2012 8:35 AM CST Can somebody explain this to me
AsianLady24
AsianLady24AsianLady24mint hill, North Carolina USA1 Threads 6 Posts
I came on here yesterday to see exactly what a friend was doing here and I don't get it. Why would a beautiful women who is intellegent come on a dating site to find a man. I have seen quite a few beautiful women here and I'm hoping they can explain this to me. Are there not enough men where you live? I'm not judging in any way just trying to understand.
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May 24, 2012 8:37 AM CST Can somebody explain this to me
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
AsianLady24: I came on here yesterday to see exactly what a friend was doing here and I don't get it. Why would a beautiful women who is intellegent come on a dating site to find a man. I have seen quite a few beautiful women here and I'm hoping they can explain this to me. Are there not enough men where you live? I'm not judging in any way just trying to understand.


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May 24, 2012 9:03 AM CST Can somebody explain this to me
EagleWoman
EagleWomanEagleWomanMalaga, Andalusia Spain22 Threads 4,719 Posts
AsianLady24: I came on here yesterday to see exactly what a friend was doing here and I don't get it. Why would a beautiful women who is intellegent come on a dating site to find a man. I have seen quite a few beautiful women here and I'm hoping they can explain this to me. Are there not enough men where you live? I'm not judging in any way just trying to understand.


See in real life unless you happen to bump into "the one" grin through ordinary activities like work, hobbies, friend´s house etc... when us beautiful women grin go out to parties or clubs or bars, we just get "hit on" by guys who´s libido has quicked in with the aid of a few glasses of booze. That means they´re usually after one thing and only, and it seldom is focussed on a future more distant than the next morning. There pickup line usually goes something like "I believe in living in the now" grin

OF course, sometimes, people do hit the jackpot that way...

Some of us beautiful women just have a different approach to those guys when it comes to living in the now grin

On the forums, with time, you can get to see what people are like a little ...

In my case, I stopped looking on this site, just join the forums when I feel like it,write with a few people ((few being the operative word)

I´m banking on the universe making sure I bump into "him" when I next go out to buy a pint of milk or toilet paper ... (Would save loads on airfares!!)

bouquet
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May 24, 2012 9:06 AM CST Can somebody explain this to me
AsianLady24
AsianLady24AsianLady24mint hill, North Carolina USA1 Threads 6 Posts
Thank you as well as I can see the point you are making.
EagleWoman: See in real life unless you happen to bump into "the one" through ordinary activities like work, hobbies, friend´s house etc... when us beautiful women go out to parties or clubs or bars, we just get "hit on" by guys who´s libido has quicked in with the aid of a few glasses of booze. That means they´re usually after one thing and only, and it seldom is focussed on a future more distant than the next morning. There pickup line usually goes something like "I believe in living in the now"

OF course, sometimes, people do hit the jackpot that way...

Some of us beautiful women just have a different approach to those guys when it comes to living in the now

On the forums, with time, you can get to see what people are like a little ...

In my case, I stopped looking on this site, just join the forums when I feel like it,write with a few people ((few being the operative word)

I´m banking on the universe making sure I bump into "him" when I next go out to buy a pint of milk or toilet paper ... (Would save loads on airfares!!)
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May 24, 2012 9:32 AM CST Can somebody explain this to me
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
AsianLady24: I came on here yesterday to see exactly what a friend was doing here and I don't get it. Why would a beautiful women who is intellegent come on a dating site to find a man. I have seen quite a few beautiful women here and I'm hoping they can explain this to me. Are there not enough men where you live? I'm not judging in any way just trying to understand.
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May 24, 2012 11:14 AM CST Can somebody explain this to me
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Wow! welcome to the 21st century its a blast! its all online Baby! wave
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May 24, 2012 11:31 AM CST Can somebody explain this to me
Nessa7
Nessa7Nessa7Vulpine's Heart, Cork Ireland8 Threads 1 Polls 1,934 Posts
AsianLady24: I came on here yesterday to see exactly what a friend was doing here and I don't get it. Why would a beautiful women who is intellegent come on a dating site to find a man. I have seen quite a few beautiful women here and I'm hoping they can explain this to me. Are there not enough men where you live? I'm not judging in any way just trying to understand.


hmmm Are you looking for a man or a WOMAN ?
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May 24, 2012 11:36 AM CST Can somebody explain this to me
Zebaztian
ZebaztianZebaztianOslo, Norway9 Threads 1 Polls 278 Posts
In response to: I came on here yesterday to see exactly what a friend was doing here and I don't get it. Why would a beautiful women who is intellegent come on a dating site to find a man. I have seen quite a few beautiful women here and I'm hoping they can explain this to me. Are there not enough men where you live? I'm not judging in any way just trying to understand.


Because if you exclude all scammers and fake personalities, internet dating sites is a good way to find people who actually thinks and reflect with their inner beauty (soul), as well as show who they are with their appearance.

And for me who live in Oslo, of course there are a lot of women here. But the ones that I want to find shouldn't be hanging around in bars and discothèques.
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May 24, 2012 11:37 AM CST Can somebody explain this to me
Zebaztian
ZebaztianZebaztianOslo, Norway9 Threads 1 Polls 278 Posts
AsianLady24: I came on here yesterday to see exactly what a friend was doing here and I don't get it. Why would a beautiful women who is intellegent come on a dating site to find a man. I have seen quite a few beautiful women here and I'm hoping they can explain this to me. Are there not enough men where you live? I'm not judging in any way just trying to understand.



Because if you exclude all scammers and fake personalities, internet dating sites is a good way to find people who actually thinks and reflect with their inner beauty (soul), as well as show who they are with their appearance.

And for me who live in Oslo, of course there are a lot of women here. But the ones that I want to find shouldn't be hanging around in bars and discothèques.
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May 24, 2012 1:39 PM CST Can somebody explain this to me
rockrabbit
rockrabbitrockrabbitGibraltar, Gibraltar45 Threads 4 Polls 611 Posts
venusenvy: Wow! welcome to the 21st century its a blast! its all online Baby!


detective IS IT! banana
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May 24, 2012 1:44 PM CST Can somebody explain this to me
HealthyLiving
HealthyLivingHealthyLivingSomewhere In, Tennessee USA527 Threads 2 Polls 4,775 Posts
If you are single and you work and do not go to the bars etc. how would you ever expect to meet someone with similar interests? Especially if he does the same.

The internet is a great way to meet those with common interests.

I may have met my future mate here. We will meet in person for the first time, this Sunday!

HLyay smitten
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May 24, 2012 1:47 PM CST Can somebody explain this to me
EagleWoman
EagleWomanEagleWomanMalaga, Andalusia Spain22 Threads 4,719 Posts
HealthyLiving: If you are single and you work and do not go to the bars etc. how would you ever expect to meet someone with similar interests? Especially if he does the same.

The internet is a great way to meet those with common interests.

I may have met my future mate here. We will meet in person for the first time, this Sunday!

HL


Wooooooooooooooooooohooooooooooooooooooooooooo!!!! applause

Way to go HL!!!!!! bouquet

angel2
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May 24, 2012 1:49 PM CST Can somebody explain this to me
AsianLady24: I came on here yesterday to see exactly what a friend was doing here and I don't get it. Why would a beautiful women who is intellegent come on a dating site to find a man. I have seen quite a few beautiful women here and I'm hoping they can explain this to me. Are there not enough men where you live? I'm not judging in any way just trying to understand.


Cos finding someone in your direct environment has not come up trumps.
Many are called............but few are chosen. It´s hard work.....trying to make something work between two people. Nothing to do with quantity.........it´s quality that counts.........and that doesn´t equate equally for everyone.
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May 24, 2012 1:50 PM CST Can somebody explain this to me
rockrabbit
rockrabbitrockrabbitGibraltar, Gibraltar45 Threads 4 Polls 611 Posts
HealthyLiving: If you are single and you work and do not go to the bars etc. how would you ever expect to meet someone with similar interests? Especially if he does the same.

The internet is a great way to meet those with common interests.

I may have met my future mate here. We will meet in person for the first time, this Sunday!

HL


wave meeting some one with the same likes and dislikes is a couple heading for boredom and affairs.sigh

Meeting some one new and different is the way to sparkle and find a mutal like for somthing uz both love yay

So there you go i have made the pond bigger for you! Happy Fishingreunion
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May 24, 2012 1:52 PM CST Can somebody explain this to me
rohaan
rohaanrohaanCoos Bay, Oregon USA229 Threads 10,516 Posts
AsianLady24: I came on here yesterday to see exactly what a friend was doing here and I don't get it. Why would a beautiful women who is intellegent come on a dating site to find a man. I have seen quite a few beautiful women here and I'm hoping they can explain this to me. Are there not enough men where you live? I'm not judging in any way just trying to understand.
I'm an intelligent, college educated, kind and successful (and I'm told) very handsome man. Are you saying only ugly losers get to be on a dating site?
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May 24, 2012 1:53 PM CST Can somebody explain this to me
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
And none of us here offered a explenation to the Opening post..
oh and HL, congrats...bouquet
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May 24, 2012 1:58 PM CST Can somebody explain this to me
EagleWoman
EagleWomanEagleWomanMalaga, Andalusia Spain22 Threads 4,719 Posts
rohaan: I'm an intelligent, college educated, kind and successful (and I'm told) very handsome man. Are you saying only ugly losers get to be on a dating site?


OP already apologized earlier for it coming across that way

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May 24, 2012 2:02 PM CST Can somebody explain this to me
HealthyLiving: If you are single and you work and do not go to the bars etc. how would you ever expect to meet someone with similar interests? Especially if he does the same.

The internet is a great way to meet those with common interests.

I may have met my future mate here. We will meet in person for the first time, this Sunday!

HL



Quite agree.......good luck!!
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May 24, 2012 2:03 PM CST Can somebody explain this to me
almera03
almera03almera03portsmouth, Hampshire, England UK11 Threads 3,913 Posts
I keep hearing about pretty women on this sight.....



can someone please point them out hole
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May 24, 2012 2:04 PM CST Can somebody explain this to me
Boban1: And none of us here offered a explenation to the Opening post..
oh and HL, congrats...



oh yes we did.
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