should you trust your guy or not? (66)
almera03portsmouth, Hampshire, England UK11 Threads 3,913 Posts2intrigued: I see it the way Al...if I'm looking for a dress and I find one I love, I'll be damned if I'm gonna drool over other dresses on the way out of the mall.
Ah but! If you go to a football game with your partner, don't tell me you wont be checking out a few of their butts on the sly 
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2intrigued: I see it the way Al...if I'm looking for a dress and I find one I love, I'll be damned if I'm gonna drool over other dresses on the way out of the mall.
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i think the bigger issue, is about trust.
if trust was in place, i don't think the issue of window shopping would be there, football game or no....
if trust was in place, i don't think the issue of window shopping would be there, football game or no....
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almera03: Ah but! If you go to a football game with your partner, don't tell me you wont be checking out a few of their butts on the sly
actually not really - don't really do that it is diesrespectful to my date
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almera03: Ah but! If you go to a football game with your partner, don't tell me you wont be checking out a few of their butts on the sly
Whilst I have my hand in his and he gazes at low cut tops
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jono7: i think the bigger issue, is about trust.
if trust was in place, i don't think the issue of window shopping would be there, football game or no....
I have no problem if my partner admires someone who she feels is handsome or cute, or she checks out a butt,(eyes only) in my thinking its harmless and quite natural.if trust was in place, i don't think the issue of window shopping would be there, football game or no....
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jono7: i think the bigger issue, is about trust.
if trust was in place, i don't think the issue of window shopping would be there, football game or no....
if trust was in place, i don't think the issue of window shopping would be there, football game or no....
with her situation I see a place where she did trust him but then inadvertently found out something that made her question.....if he wants to rebuild her trust methinks he'd be skyping like crazy now trying to do so...then again we don't know for certain that he had done anything wrong
the hardest thing is to be mistrusted when you have done nothing wrong....or to stop trusting when you have trusted for so long
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felixis99: actually not really - don't really do that it is diesrespectful to my date
How will he see you, he'll be checking out the cheer leaders 
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2intrigued: Whilst I have my hand in his and he gazes at low cut tops
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almera03: I have no problem if my partner admires someone who she feels is handsome or cute, or she checks out a butt,(eyes only) in my thinking its harmless and quite natural.
I think the important thing here is that when establishing a new relationship with someone, the last thing someone should do is create doubt or mistrust. If this is evident at the outset, I can't imagine how it will be any better later on in the relationship. Scenario....you go out on a date, and all he or she does is gaze at others. Happened to me and it's a definite red flag.
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2intrigued: I think the important thing here is that when establishing a new relationship with someone, the last thing someone should do is create doubt or mistrust. If this is evident at the outset, I can't imagine how it will be any better later on in the relationship. Scenario....you go out on a date, and all he or she does is gaze at others. Happened to me and it's a definite red flag.
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almera03: How will he see you, he'll be checking out the cheer leaders
the kind of man that appeals to me prolly would not prefer the cheerleader type
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2intrigued: I think the important thing here is that when establishing a new relationship with someone, the last thing someone should do is create doubt or mistrust. If this is evident at the outset, I can't imagine how it will be any better later on in the relationship. Scenario....you go out on a date, and all he or she does is gaze at others. Happened to me and it's a definite red flag.
Of course when establishing a new relationship you shouldn't even be aware there is anyone else around, and no doubt a few waiters can testify that does happen 
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almera03: Of course when establishing a new relationship you shouldn't even be aware there is anyone else around, and no doubt a few waiters can testify that does happen
You're being silly now
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felixis99: the kind of man that appeals to me prolly would not prefer the cheerleader type
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2intrigued: You're being silly now
No not at all, when establishing a new relationship, passion, love, lust are at the forefront so it's not unheard of for two people to forget where they are. Or is it only me ------ This thread is Archived ------
almera03: Oh you look young enough to pass as a cheer leader felix, I can easily imagine you twirling some tassles
thanks but always an athlete and tassel free
guys who are into me are usually the types who like to talk and go camping - laid back and appreciate solid friendship and who like to go camp....ing....Cripes! what is it with camping????
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almera03: No not at all, when establishing a new relationship, passion, love, lust are at the forefront so it's not unheard of for two people to forget where they are. Or is it only me
soooo those times on vacation when I got lost and forgot my map .... I was in love???
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felixis99: thanks but always an athlete and tassel free
guys who are into me are usually the types who like to talk and go camping - laid back and appreciate solid friendship and who like to go camp....ing....Cripes! what is it with camping????
Counts me out, if the walls aren't made of wood or brick I'm not playing guys who are into me are usually the types who like to talk and go camping - laid back and appreciate solid friendship and who like to go camp....ing....Cripes! what is it with camping????
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almera03: No not at all, when establishing a new relationship, passion, love, lust are at the forefront so it's not unheard of for two people to forget where they are. Or is it only me
Oh, now I get it...sorry for the blond moment
Ahhh, those were the days eh? ------ This thread is Archived ------
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