should you trust your guy or not? (66)
almera03portsmouth, Hampshire, England UK11 Threads 3,913 Postsfelixis99: soooo those times on vacation when I got lost and forgot my map .... I was in love???
If you were with a new partner who says it wasn't lust and you only pretended to be lost 
------ This thread is Archived ------
2intrigued: Oh, now I get it...sorry for the blond moment Ahhh, those were the days eh?
never too old for those days, blonde or not 
------ This thread is Archived ------
almera03: Counts me out, if the walls aren't made of wood or brick I'm not playing
my campsite has the name Hilton in it
------ This thread is Archived ------
felixis99: my campsite has the name Hilton in it
Not exactly roughing it then ------ This thread is Archived ------
almera03: I have no problem if my partner admires someone who she feels is handsome or cute, or she checks out a butt,(eyes only) in my thinking its harmless and quite natural.
i hear ya..
but this is a new relationship as described by the
OP. and the trust is not there .
so different situation me thinks.
------ This thread is Archived ------
felixis99: my campsite has the name Hilton in it
love it!
------ This thread is Archived ------
jono7: i hear ya..
but this is a new relationship as described by the
OP. and the trust is not there .
so different situation me thinks.
Ok I admit, I didn't read the thread......... never said I was perfect...... and with these looks I dont need to be but this is a new relationship as described by the
OP. and the trust is not there .
so different situation me thinks.
he may not think they are a couple, though she may, until it is established he may still be "looking"
------ This thread is Archived ------
katrina_maex0x: so you met a guy online and decided to continue your relationship with him and you've been going on for 2 months. since you and him are on a long distance relationship, he emails, texts and skype you everyday. while you're thousand miles away from him, curiosity strikes and you went back to the dating site where u met and found out that he's been logging on to it everyday. even if he told you he's not on search, do you think your guy is doing something behind your back? the fact that while you are both skyping, he's still online on the dating site and if u ask him why he's on it he just say he has no idea about it...
should u believe him or not?
would you still trust your guy?
should u believe him or not?
would you still trust your guy?
Just an observation - shouldnt you be discussing this with him and telling him how you are feeling? and when you sign up to the site you can modify the settings so when your pc turns on you log into the site.
Who knows could be a geniune mistake - you say he is txting skypeing etc, and why were you snooping on him anyways?? there is doubt there to start with......
Bad start to a relationship JMO
Good luck
------ This thread is Archived ------
My advice to you on this is to ask him directly in a very diplomatic way as he might be checking on you too, depending on his answer then trust your gut, a womans gut/intuition hardly fails, we are intuitive creatures JMO 
------ This thread is Archived ------
almera03: Ok I admit, I didn't read the thread......... never said I was perfect...... and with these looks I dont need to be
he may not think they are a couple, though she may, until it is established he may still be "looking"
he may not think they are a couple, though she may, until it is established he may still be "looking"
aaah...yes...
good looks and charm...no need to read the thread...
------ This thread is Archived ------
rivame: So you went onto the site and saw him online...and have obviously been back every day to check...
Maybe just maybe he is seeing you online too and wondering wth is she doing online every day and is checking on you
My thoughts exactly!!Maybe just maybe he is seeing you online too and wondering wth is she doing online every day and is checking on you
------ This thread is Archived ------
hi everyone!
many thanks to all those who gave their advice..
actually i dont go online if i check him :). i just click on the ONLINE NOW tab of this site and yea i still see him logged in every morning before work and after work. i did ask him why he's still on it, he just said
" hey babe dont be all up me" ?? ha! oh well i guess he's getting bored since im too far away..
many thanks to all those who gave their advice..
actually i dont go online if i check him :). i just click on the ONLINE NOW tab of this site and yea i still see him logged in every morning before work and after work. i did ask him why he's still on it, he just said
" hey babe dont be all up me" ?? ha! oh well i guess he's getting bored since im too far away..
------ This thread is Archived ------
Depends on the site, if it was C.S, He may just want to browse the topics and spend some time bantering, I have never met anyone on -line and really, truthfully, I don't think I would. I would ask to meet up with them,
if they sent an e-mail (There is a few I'd like to meet on here )and if we hit it off, then we are open to use C.S as a chatting site, I have met some decent people on here but it doesn't mean I want to be with them ...lol and any way if you are both on line you can obvisouly see what each other are posting and commenting on
Cyber world is a far throw from the big bad real world,
Cya would't wanna be ya !!
if they sent an e-mail (There is a few I'd like to meet on here )and if we hit it off, then we are open to use C.S as a chatting site, I have met some decent people on here but it doesn't mean I want to be with them ...lol and any way if you are both on line you can obvisouly see what each other are posting and commenting on
Cyber world is a far throw from the big bad real world,
Cya would't wanna be ya !!
------ This thread is Archived ------
katrina_maex0x: so you met a guy online and decided to continue your relationship with him and you've been going on for 2 months. since you and him are on a long distance relationship, he emails, texts and skype you everyday. while you're thousand miles away from him, curiosity strikes and you went back to the dating site where u met and found out that he's been logging on to it everyday. even if he told you he's not on search, do you think your guy is doing something behind your back? the fact that while you are both skyping, he's still online on the dating site and if u ask him why he's on it he just say he has no idea about it...
should u believe him or not?
would you still trust your guy?
This reminds me of a true court case that happened in Manhatten. A woman took a man to court for invasion of privacy. He lived in a hi-rise penthouse across the park from her. She complained that he had been viewing her with binoculars. She had it logged, with dates and times. When the judge asked her for her evidence, it finally came out that she had caught him by using her telescope. The case was thrown out of court. (in short, you're logged on to. Games up, darls. Think twice before you try to hornswoggle people on here).should u believe him or not?
would you still trust your guy?
------ This thread is Archived ------
rohaan: This reminds me of a true court case that happened in Manhatten. A woman took a man to court for invasion of privacy. He lived in a hi-rise penthouse across the park from her. She complained that he had been viewing her with binoculars. She had it logged, with dates and times. When the judge asked her for her evidence, it finally came out that she had caught him by using her telescope. The case was thrown out of court. (in short, you're logged on to. Games up, darls. Think twice before you try to hornswoggle people on here).
OMG I spelled Manhattan wrong. My bad...
------ This thread is Archived ------
rockrabbit: Depends on the site, if it was C.S, He may just want to browse the topics and spend some time bantering, I have never met anyone on -line and really, truthfully, I don't think I would. I would ask to meet up with them,
if they sent an e-mail (There is a few I'd like to meet on here )and if we hit it off, then we are open to use C.S as a chatting site, I have met some decent people on here but it doesn't mean I want to be with them ...lol and any way if you are both on line you can obvisouly see what each other are posting and commenting on
Cyber world is a far throw from the big bad real world, Cya would't wanna be ya !!
if they sent an e-mail (There is a few I'd like to meet on here )and if we hit it off, then we are open to use C.S as a chatting site, I have met some decent people on here but it doesn't mean I want to be with them ...lol and any way if you are both on line you can obvisouly see what each other are posting and commenting on
Cyber world is a far throw from the big bad real world, Cya would't wanna be ya !!
Absolutely. Gee, do we have to do ALL the thinkin' around here? (Honestly....)------ This thread is Archived ------
katrina_maex0x: so you met a guy online and decided to continue your relationship with him and you've been going on for 2 months. since you and him are on a long distance relationship, he emails, texts and skype you everyday. while you're thousand miles away from him, curiosity strikes and you went back to the dating site where u met and found out that he's been logging on to it everyday. even if he told you he's not on search, do you think your guy is doing something behind your back? the fact that while you are both skyping, he's still online on the dating site and if u ask him why he's on it he just say he has no idea about it...
should u believe him or not?
would you still trust your guy?
should u believe him or not?
would you still trust your guy?
You want to make this more paranoid and convoluted.
------ This thread is Archived ------
katrina_maex0x: so you met a guy online and decided to continue your relationship with him and you've been going on for 2 months. since you and him are on a long distance relationship, he emails, texts and skype you everyday. while you're thousand miles away from him, curiosity strikes and you went back to the dating site where u met and found out that he's been logging on to it everyday. even if he told you he's not on search, do you think your guy is doing something behind your back? the fact that while you are both skyping, he's still online on the dating site and if u ask him why he's on it he just say he has no idea about it...
should u believe him or not?
would you still trust your guy?
should u believe him or not?
would you still trust your guy?
The fact that you ask yourself this, answers it if you ask me.
------ This thread is Archived ------
gozoman2: U know....latching on to someone on here and having a relationship are distinctly separate issues....and should not be one and the same...
I mean....how the hell do I really know who is on the other end?.....would only consider getting to know that person better if and only after we actually meet up and spend some time in each other's company....that's the only way one can really get to know the other person....face to face....
...there is such a thing called chemistry that can only really be understood if two people meet in person....in real life.....cyber space is cyber space.....anybody can be who they wish or imagine to be....which is not necessarily the real person behind the keyboard....
I mean....how the hell do I really know who is on the other end?.....would only consider getting to know that person better if and only after we actually meet up and spend some time in each other's company....that's the only way one can really get to know the other person....face to face....
...there is such a thing called chemistry that can only really be understood if two people meet in person....in real life.....cyber space is cyber space.....anybody can be who they wish or imagine to be....which is not necessarily the real person behind the keyboard....
Very true, i have a very good friend from overseas, who i talk to nearly every day. Skype is about as close as u can get to long distance . I think if two people are prepared to be friends for quite some time, then you can get to know them and trust them.
------ This thread is Archived ------
This Thread is Archived
This Thread is archived, so you will no longer be able to post to it. Threads get archived automatically when they are older than 3 months.
« Go back to All Threads
« Go back to All Threads
More Threads
everything is changing
Nature
Icebergs Still Around
1830's Music
Reality Check
Don Shits-In-Pants!!!
What I Lack In Vocabulary
How far is too far?
Salami, Salami, Baloney
rarotonga
More Threads
Report threads that break rules, are offensive, or contain fighting. Staff may not be aware of the forum abuse, and cannot do anything about it unless you tell us about it. click to report forum abuse »
If one of the comments is offensive, please report the comment instead (there is a link in each comment to report it).
If one of the comments is offensive, please report the comment instead (there is a link in each comment to report it).