should you trust your guy or not? (66)
well i dont trust nobody on internet only in really maybe not on computer makes you paranoia
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U know....latching on to someone on here and having a relationship are distinctly separate issues....and should not be one and the same...
I mean....how the hell do I really know who is on the other end?.....would only consider getting to know that person better if and only after we actually meet up and spend some time in each other's company....that's the only way one can really get to know the other person....face to face....
...there is such a thing called chemistry that can only really be understood if two people meet in person....in real life.....cyber space is cyber space.....anybody can be who they wish or imagine to be....which is not necessarily the real person behind the keyboard....
I mean....how the hell do I really know who is on the other end?.....would only consider getting to know that person better if and only after we actually meet up and spend some time in each other's company....that's the only way one can really get to know the other person....face to face....
...there is such a thing called chemistry that can only really be understood if two people meet in person....in real life.....cyber space is cyber space.....anybody can be who they wish or imagine to be....which is not necessarily the real person behind the keyboard....
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katrina_maex0x: so you met a guy online and decided to continue your relationship with him and you've been going on for 2 months. since you and him are on a long distance relationship, he emails, texts and skype you everyday. while you're thousand miles away from him, curiosity strikes and you went back to the dating site where u met and found out that he's been logging on to it everyday. even if he told you he's not on search, do you think your guy is doing something behind your back? the fact that while you are both skyping, he's still online on the dating site and if u ask him why he's on it he just say he has no idea about it...
should u believe him or not?
would you still trust your guy?
should u believe him or not?
would you still trust your guy?
Lots of players on here and think you need to meet in the real world not the virtual world to find out if there is anything there for you both to have a real relationship.
You say you have been chatting online , texts , and skype for few months now so should be making plans to meet up in near future , don't know if you mean it's you or you are just stating what if?? this happened to any of us ? I say if the person is making no attempt to make plans to meet then there is nothing going on or is likely to.
If he is still on line on the dating site everyday yep sounds like he's still looking and is def not genuine
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gozoman2: U know....latching on to someone on here and having a relationship are distinctly separate issues....and should not be one and the same...
I mean....how the hell do I really know who is on the other end?.....would only consider getting to know that person better if and only after we actually meet up and spend some time in each other's company....that's the only way one can really get to know the other person....face to face....
...there is such a thing called chemistry that can only really be understood if two people meet in person....in real life.....cyber space is cyber space.....anybody can be who they wish or imagine to be....which is not necessarily the real person behind the keyboard....
I mean....how the hell do I really know who is on the other end?.....would only consider getting to know that person better if and only after we actually meet up and spend some time in each other's company....that's the only way one can really get to know the other person....face to face....
...there is such a thing called chemistry that can only really be understood if two people meet in person....in real life.....cyber space is cyber space.....anybody can be who they wish or imagine to be....which is not necessarily the real person behind the keyboard....
actually these two people already have seen and been together for a month. then the woman went back to her country of origin after her visa expired so it has been a month of purely online communication.. and yea that's me:)
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curly28: Lots of players on here and think you need to meet in the real world not the virtual world to find out if there is anything there for you both to have a real relationship.
You say you have been chatting online , texts , and skype for few months now so should be making plans to meet up in near future , don't know if you mean it's you or you are just stating what if?? this happened to any of us ? I say if the person is making no attempt to make plans to meet then there is nothing going on or is likely to.
If he is still on line on the dating site everyday yep sounds like he's still looking and is def not genuine DELETE
You say you have been chatting online , texts , and skype for few months now so should be making plans to meet up in near future , don't know if you mean it's you or you are just stating what if?? this happened to any of us ? I say if the person is making no attempt to make plans to meet then there is nothing going on or is likely to.
If he is still on line on the dating site everyday yep sounds like he's still looking and is def not genuine DELETE
i would have to agree with you that there are heaps of players and weirdos in here..
so the woman i was pertaining to is me..actually we've seen and been together just for a month when i was still in NZ. now it has been a month of just skyping and texting.. and last week i went over this site again and saw him online while we were skyping. then he did it again, almost everyday.
i think he's upto something:(
thanks for the advice... i think i know what to do now.
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katrina_maex0x: actually these two people already have seen and been together for a month. then the woman went back to her country of origin after her visa expired so it has been a month of purely online communication.. and yea that's me:)
Ah!....well...that makes it a different situation altogether....
Can't say I am an expert on the issue....but sounds to me like someone who is dating someone and still goes down to the club on his own every night to check out the scene...
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I don't trust anyone online.
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dear , it did work out, plain and simple, i think you should go on with your life, God always have something better for you, be happy
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katrina_maex0x: i would have to agree with you that there are heaps of players and weirdos in here..
so the woman i was pertaining to is me..actually we've seen and been together just for a month when i was still in NZ. now it has been a month of just skyping and texting.. and last week i went over this site again and saw him online while we were skyping. then he did it again, almost everyday.
i think he's upto something:(
thanks for the advice... i think i know what to do now.
so the woman i was pertaining to is me..actually we've seen and been together just for a month when i was still in NZ. now it has been a month of just skyping and texting.. and last week i went over this site again and saw him online while we were skyping. then he did it again, almost everyday.
i think he's upto something:(
thanks for the advice... i think i know what to do now.
So you went onto the site and saw him online...and have obviously been back every day to check...
Maybe just maybe he is seeing you online too and wondering wth is she doing online every day and is checking on you
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i think it depends on the site.
i'm not looking, but i pop into cs all the time to banter, visit with old friends..
i'm a bit confused about the part where you ask him, and he doesn't seem realize he is on line?? hmmm....
but if he's on a site, and you think he's still looking, and you're not satisfied with his answer..
like VE has already said...trust yourself
"never make anyone a priority who only considers you an option"
i'm not looking, but i pop into cs all the time to banter, visit with old friends..
i'm a bit confused about the part where you ask him, and he doesn't seem realize he is on line?? hmmm....
but if he's on a site, and you think he's still looking, and you're not satisfied with his answer..
like VE has already said...trust yourself
"never make anyone a priority who only considers you an option"
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jono7: i think it depends on the site.
i'm not looking, but i pop into cs all the time to banter, visit with old friends..
i'm a bit confused about the part where you ask him, and he doesn't seem realize he is on line?? hmmm....
but if he's on a site, and you think he's still looking, and you're not satisfied with his answer..
like VE has already said...trust yourself
"never make anyone a priority who only considers you an option"
i'm not looking, but i pop into cs all the time to banter, visit with old friends..
i'm a bit confused about the part where you ask him, and he doesn't seem realize he is on line?? hmmm....
but if he's on a site, and you think he's still looking, and you're not satisfied with his answer..
like VE has already said...trust yourself
"never make anyone a priority who only considers you an option"
Well said Jo...my sentiments exactly
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2intrigued: Well said Jo...my sentiments exactly
hiya 2I
yah...i think if the guy's into you...he stops looking...
if he is continuing to look, probably best to call it a day me thinks..
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jono7: hiya 2I
yah...i think if the guy's into you...he stops looking...
if he is continuing to look, probably best to call it a day me thinks..
yah...i think if the guy's into you...he stops looking...
if he is continuing to look, probably best to call it a day me thinks..
Absolutely
No point getting involved with someone who is afflicted with the candy store syndrome eh? 
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There is no harm in window shopping, it's when you want to enter the shop it becomes an issue 
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2intrigued: Well said Jo...my sentiments exactly
I agree alsobut I also think it is important to consider that he may be logged in without realizing it - like he might be checking emails and staying logged in without actaully searching the site - or someone may have stolen his info (especially if he has not been there much)
sadly he might also be looking for someone who is closer
I'd talk with him about it again - find out why HE thinks he's showing up logged in but not knowing that he is....you might have incidentally tipped him off to an identity theft
or he might just be a player
you are the only one who can suss the truth of that
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Ccincy: I don't trust anyone online.
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jono7: hiya 2I
yah...i think if the guy's into you...he stops looking...
if he is continuing to look, probably best to call it a day me thinks..
yah...i think if the guy's into you...he stops looking...
if he is continuing to look, probably best to call it a day me thinks..
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almera03: There is no harm in window shopping, it's when you want to enter the shop it becomes an issue
I see it the way Al...if I'm looking for a dress and I find one I love, I'll be damned if I'm gonna drool over other dresses on the way out of the mall.
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2intrigued: I see it the way Al...if I'm looking for a dress and I find one I love, I'll be damned if I'm gonna drool over other dresses on the way out of the mall.
i'm with you on this one...
if i have found what it is i am looking for...i stop shopping.
i go home with the treasure...
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