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Now we are on dating site's like this hoping to find love again when we did not care enough to hold on to the last love we had???????? Why do we want to find love again if the next time round we will have a fight again about who's the one that feeds the cats or take out the trash????? If we find love again will we give more, try harder, love harder, share more, listen more, understand more??????????????? Will we say I love you more and most of all will we show how much we love??????
Do you ever wonder if the next time you will make it last forever. Will you still be that selfish person that just has to have it your way????? How many chances do we get to make it work?????
I think you assume a lot saying that everybody who is divorced was selfish.
I was anything but selfish. I stood by my alcoholic husband for 7 years of marriage and then another 6 years of friendship after the divorce pulling him out of bars and taking care of him.
That my dear wasn't selfish. It was friendship to the father of our daughter.