I asked him whether his love for me was greater than he had with his ex wife and he said........ (32)
pogo07: ..........he could never love anyone they way he loved his ex wife?
As he got soooo burned he would never let himself love so deeply. Even though you're together over 3 years. You are his 1st long term relationship since his divorce (he had a couple of shorter terms before you) and he is your longest relationship in over 16 years.
Could you continue the relationship???? Would you???
As he got soooo burned he would never let himself love so deeply. Even though you're together over 3 years. You are his 1st long term relationship since his divorce (he had a couple of shorter terms before you) and he is your longest relationship in over 16 years.
Could you continue the relationship???? Would you???
Don't ask a question that you may not like the answer to! Why does it matter how much he loves you compared to other relationships? Surely the fact he loves you is enough?
I think the question was a childish one.
perfect9: I also read pogo07's profile and wondered the same..perhaps it was just a hypothetical question and not something she had experienced herself....or maybe a friend was going through it...
I have re-read the ladies profile and her postings on here and it is pretty clear she is seeking a relationship ................... i find that people who come on here and post a loaded question and then disappear
I am in no way insinuating that the lady is a fake, but something is no right here Perfect
pogo07: ..........he could never love anyone they way he loved his ex wife?
As he got soooo burned he would never let himself love so deeply. Even though you're together over 3 years. You are his 1st long term relationship since his divorce (he had a couple of shorter terms before you) and he is your longest relationship in over 16 years.
Could you continue the relationship???? Would you???
As he got soooo burned he would never let himself love so deeply. Even though you're together over 3 years. You are his 1st long term relationship since his divorce (he had a couple of shorter terms before you) and he is your longest relationship in over 16 years.
Could you continue the relationship???? Would you???
I'm curious as to why you're looking for a relationship when it seems you're still in one. Of course that is an assumption on my part because we don't know the whole story.
Did you ask him this question because he's said or done something to cause you to feel insecure.
I would never ask a question like that unless I felt that something in the relationship isn't quite right. 
2intrigued: I'm curious as to why you're looking for a relationship when it seems you're still in one
Becaus she's a woman and that's her choice!
royallee: You are asking a question .......... you got a lot of answers .................... now i have a question for you
Why are you on a dating site seeking someone to share a bottle of wine with ....................... if you are with a man and so wrapped up in him ?
Why are you on a dating site seeking someone to share a bottle of wine with ....................... if you are with a man and so wrapped up in him ?
Whoa....keep yeser hairs on!! Firstly, this isnt about me. Im not in a relationship, just got divorced in June! This issue came up in work the other day and there was nearly an argument with all the different opinions between the married/attached crowd and the single people sooooo I thought I'd throw it out as a thread to see would it have the same affect. I am slightly disappointed that there was more emphasis on the 'why ask' rather than the actual question.
Anyway, it appears that apparently, married/attached people WOULD dump them, whereas single people wouldnt ask, wouldnt want to know.
pogo07: Whoa....keep yeser hairs on!! Firstly, this isnt about me. Im not in a relationship, just got divorced in June! This issue came up in work the other day and there was nearly an argument with all the different opinions between the married/attached crowd and the single people sooooo I thought I'd throw it out as a thread to see would it have the same affect. I am slightly disappointed that there was more emphasis on the 'why ask' rather than the actual question.
Anyway, it appears that apparently, married/attached people WOULD dump them, whereas single people wouldnt ask, wouldnt want to know.
Anyway, it appears that apparently, married/attached people WOULD dump them, whereas single people wouldnt ask, wouldnt want to know.
i think if i felt the need or a reason to ask that question i wouldnt be happy...so id prob break free of it...for my happiness..not for the fact id be measuring love.
fifitheminx: i think if i felt the need or a reason to ask that question i wouldnt be happy...so id prob break free of it...for my happiness..not for the fact id be measuring love.
Women 'measure love' all the time. Ye can't help it. You'd be walking down the street with a woman and she'd point and ask, "do you think she's prettier than me"? What do you say? "Yes, she's a 20 year old brick otherwise you wouldn't have asked me if I thought she was prettier than you"? C'mon! Then there's the moment when you come home and she does a twirl and asks, "do you notice anything different"? You say, "Your hair? Of course it's something else, so you will pay for that later. I often want to take a women to the front of my motor, lift the bonnet and ask her, "notice anything different"? Just to see her face
Fraya: Some men react to goodlooking women with their d*ck, at least thats how it appears.
Women dressing for other women? "I'll wear this dress today for women" lol
My is still the same. How did you react to those who appeared to have made no effort and does it differ (your reaction) to those who did
Women dressing for other women? "I'll wear this dress today for women" lol
My is still the same. How did you react to those who appeared to have made no effort and does it differ (your reaction) to those who did
Fraya: Some men react to goodlooking women with their d*ck, at least thats how it appears.
Women dressing for other women? "I'll wear this dress today for women" lol
My is still the same. How did you react to those who appeared to have made no effort and does it differ (your reaction) to those who did
Women dressing for other women? "I'll wear this dress today for women" lol
My is still the same. How did you react to those who appeared to have made no effort and does it differ (your reaction) to those who did
jaysus my laptop is possessed
pogo07: Whoa....keep yeser hairs on!! Firstly, this isnt about me. Im not in a relationship, just got divorced in June! This issue came up in work the other day and there was nearly an argument with all the different opinions between the married/attached crowd and the single people sooooo I thought I'd throw it out as a thread to see would it have the same affect. I am slightly disappointed that there was more emphasis on the 'why ask' rather than the actual question.
Anyway, it appears that apparently, married/attached people WOULD dump them, whereas single people wouldnt ask, wouldnt want to know.
Anyway, it appears that apparently, married/attached people WOULD dump them, whereas single people wouldnt ask, wouldnt want to know.
Thanks for clarifying
facetowardsfront: Women 'measure love' all the time. Ye can't help it. You'd be walking down the street with a woman and she'd point and ask, "do you think she's prettier than me"? What do you say? "Yes, she's a 20 year old brick otherwise you wouldn't have asked me if I thought she was prettier than you"? C'mon! Then there's the moment when you come home and she does a twirl and asks, "do you notice anything different"? You say, "Your hair? Of course it's something else, so you will pay for that later. I often want to take a women to the front of my motor, lift the bonnet and ask her, "notice anything different"? Just to see her face
never asked questions like that ya know...whats the point..im bleedin deadly
im sure many do..but stereotyping doesnt exactly do ur intelligence or the women who might be a bit different any justice.
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I was never talking about the womans state of mind, i was never even talking about that woman because i don't even know her, i can only speak from my own experience and in them the women have been needy!! get it now??
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