Jealousy..... what is it? (28)

Aug 30, 2012 11:12 AM CST Jealousy..... what is it?
royallee
royalleeroyalleeMeath, Ireland46 Threads 5 Polls 865 Posts
Is it an illness or is it something that is in or out of our control.............?. Have you ever been in a relationship where jealousy in your partner tipped the scales in their otherwise balanced mind...........!

Have you any thoughts,experiences to share on this subject? teddybear
Aug 30, 2012 11:26 AM CST Jealousy..... what is it?
royallee: Is it an illness or is it something that is in or out of our control.............?. Have you ever been in a relationship where jealousy in your partner tipped the scales in their otherwise balanced mind...........!

Have you any thoughts,experiences to share on this subject?

I haven't been jealous in a very long time. And when I was, it was probably insecurity. Some of it merited, mind you, some of it not.
Aug 30, 2012 11:37 AM CST Jealousy..... what is it?
whitepaws
whitepawswhitepawsDock of the bay, Galway Ireland24 Threads 4 Polls 459 Posts
Driving a Ford and looking at someone in an Audi mumbling

Thats what Jealousy is crying
Aug 30, 2012 12:10 PM CST Jealousy..... what is it?
fifitheminx
fifitheminxfifitheminxDublin, Ireland35 Threads 4,039 Posts
ive a couple of views on jealousy...

its a lacking in the person feeling jealous..insecurity usually like maddog said, self esteem issues also in some people..

some people also like a jealous partner..purposely pick them then only to act very flirty and bring on situations that cause extreme jealousy cos it makes them feel wanted..

u take a relationship with both those personalities in play..uve a dangerous situation just waiting to happen.
Aug 30, 2012 12:47 PM CST Jealousy..... what is it?
MarsMan
MarsManMarsManBobbing along, Cork Ireland29 Threads 8 Polls 981 Posts
Never be jealous of your ex if you see them with someone else....
After all, your parents always taught you to give your USED toys to the less fortunate.
professor
Aug 30, 2012 12:55 PM CST Jealousy..... what is it?
MarsMan: Never be jealous of your ex if you see them with someone else....
After all, your parents always taught you to give your USED toys to the less fortunate.

I would never be envious of my sloppy seconds. laugh
Aug 30, 2012 1:05 PM CST Jealousy..... what is it?
Alienone
AlienoneAlienoneBetween n4 and n7, Kildare Ireland2 Threads 108 Posts
royallee: Is it an illness or is it something that is in or out of our control.............?. Have you ever been in a relationship where jealousy in your partner tipped the scales in their otherwise balanced mind...........!

Have you any thoughts,experiences to share on this subject?


Jealousy is connected directly to insecurity and issues around self worth and self esteem plain and simple

and the only way to sort it is for jealous person to explore with a good therapist what it is about and where it came from or when those feelings started professor
Aug 30, 2012 1:10 PM CST Jealousy..... what is it?
irish78eyes
irish78eyesirish78eyesMeath/Louth, Louth Ireland22 Threads 6,274 Posts
MADDOG69: I haven't been jealous in a very long time. And when I was, it was probably insecurity. Some of it merited, mind you, some of it not.


Insecuretongue .....Never...you?!rolling on the floor laughing
Aug 30, 2012 1:13 PM CST Jealousy..... what is it?
irish78eyes: Insecure .....Never...you?!

I was young once, you know and spend too much time with wenches before I realised my true worth.
Aug 30, 2012 1:15 PM CST Jealousy..... what is it?
irish78eyes
irish78eyesirish78eyesMeath/Louth, Louth Ireland22 Threads 6,274 Posts
MADDOG69: I was young once, you know and spend too much time with wenches before I realised my true worth.


thats more you alright lmaocomfort
Aug 30, 2012 1:29 PM CST Jealousy..... what is it?
irish78eyes: thats more you alright lmao
Do you ever get jealous? I'd say you're the type that wouldn't let a man out for an hour with his mates in case he looked left or right.

Christmas parties in my line of work were always some hassle when I had to bring the other along. doh
Aug 30, 2012 1:30 PM CST Jealousy..... what is it?
irish78eyes
irish78eyesirish78eyesMeath/Louth, Louth Ireland22 Threads 6,274 Posts
MADDOG69: Do you ever get jealous? I'd say you're the type that wouldn't let a man out for an hour with his mates in case he looked left or right.

Christmas parties in my line of work were always some hassle when I had to bring the other along.


What would I need to be jealous forflirty giggle
Aug 30, 2012 1:34 PM CST Jealousy..... what is it?
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
Love is in the air, do do de do de de do!dancing danceline


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Aug 30, 2012 1:39 PM CST Jealousy..... what is it?
irish78eyes
irish78eyesirish78eyesMeath/Louth, Louth Ireland22 Threads 6,274 Posts
kidatheart: Love is in the air, do do de do de de do!


this is a jealousy thread not a love threadtalk to hand
Aug 30, 2012 1:41 PM CST Jealousy..... what is it?
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
irish78eyes: this is a jealousy thread not a love thread


Isn't it all intertwined together in some weird way? giggle
Aug 30, 2012 2:53 PM CST Jealousy..... what is it?
MarsMan
MarsManMarsManBobbing along, Cork Ireland29 Threads 8 Polls 981 Posts
Alienone: well cme out of your bottle and lets have a look at you awesome


Trouble is I am SO awesome, I might blow your mind!! rolling on the floor laughing
Aug 30, 2012 2:58 PM CST Jealousy..... what is it?
fifitheminx
fifitheminxfifitheminxDublin, Ireland35 Threads 4,039 Posts
MarsMan: Trouble is I am SO awesome, I might blow your mind!!


if ur that awesome she might blow urs!! wink







sorry couldnt resist..
Aug 30, 2012 3:11 PM CST Jealousy..... what is it?
susiq
susiqsusiqKildare, Ireland9 Posts
My ex was very jealous when I spoke to any of his mates, who he insisted on meeting anytime we went out. If I spoke to their wives/partners he would ask me later what we were talking about. It got so bad, that I stopped going to the pub with him - only went out for meals or movies, or anywhere his mates were unlikely to be. That was the begining of the end. I suppose it was his jealousy that finished us, but I'm happier now than in 12 years of marriage. I can be myself when I go out and not be worrying if someone is getting jealous.
Aug 30, 2012 3:18 PM CST Jealousy..... what is it?
Fraya
FrayaFrayaCork, Ireland1 Threads 3,762 Posts
susiq: My ex was very jealous when I spoke to any of his mates, who he insisted on meeting anytime we went out. If I spoke to their wives/partners he would ask me later what we were talking about. It got so bad, that I stopped going to the pub with him - only went out for meals or movies, or anywhere his mates were unlikely to be. That was the begining of the end. I suppose it was his jealousy that finished us, but I'm happier now than in 12 years of marriage. I can be myself when I go out and not be worrying if someone is getting jealous.


Yep. Its psychotic behaviour that distorts the most normal of social interaction.
Aug 30, 2012 3:29 PM CST Jealousy..... what is it?
Alienone
AlienoneAlienoneBetween n4 and n7, Kildare Ireland2 Threads 108 Posts
fifitheminx: if ur that awesome she might blow urs!!

sorry couldnt resist..



UUUUUUUGH NO ONES THAT AWESOME tongue tongue
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