Love... (64)

Sep 17, 2012 7:23 AM CST Love...
Does it really matter?? do you need to love somebody to be in a relationship?? conversing and is wanting to be loved not a bit needy??

Let's say you were seeing somebody for about a year, yous got on great ad nothing to complain about but the only thing was that you weren't in love with them, would it be a case of keep going out with them in the hope that someday you'll fall for them?? or would it be finish with them, it's been a year now so it looks like you'll never feel that way about them...

Is love the be all and end all of every relationship?? dunno
Sep 17, 2012 7:25 AM CST Love...
mcattack: Does it really matter?? do you need to love somebody to be in a relationship?? and is wanting to be loved not a bit needy??

Let's say you were seeing somebody for about a year, yous got on great ad nothing to complain about but the only thing was that you weren't in love with them, would it be a case of keep going out with them in the hope that someday you'll fall for them?? or would it be finish with them, it's been a year now so it looks like you'll never feel that way about them...

Is love the be all and end all of every relationship??

The only problem is if one is in love and the other isn't. And both are honest with each other. Other than that... it only depends on what each one wants out of the relationship.
Sep 17, 2012 7:27 AM CST Love...
well i loved and hated my ex, all at the same time.
Sep 17, 2012 7:29 AM CST Love...
MADDOG69: The only problem is if one is in love and the other isn't. And both are honest with each other. Other than that... it only depends on what each one wants out of the relationship.


I don't see why it should matter though, yeah we all know being in love is great blah blah but i reckon it's the reason why a lot of people are single, they crave this feeling that once had for somebody and base their future happiness on it....

Just some hungover thoughts laugh
Sep 17, 2012 7:35 AM CST Love...
mcattack: I don't see why it should matter though, yeah we all know being in love is great blah blah but i reckon it's the reason why a lot of people are single, they crave this feeling that once had for somebody and base their future happiness on it....

Just some hungover thoughts

Well I bet there's tons of relationships out there that are a bit unequal in the love department. I know myself I dated a young wan.,.. it just didn't click in terms of love from my point of view. Nice girl and everything, but she was pissed 'cos her feelings were stronger than mine. I was grand.. didn't bother me much. Lasted on and off about a year or so. dunno
Sep 17, 2012 7:41 AM CST Love...
fifitheminx
fifitheminxfifitheminxDublin, Ireland35 Threads 4,039 Posts
mcattack: Does it really matter?? do you need to love somebody to be in a relationship?? and is wanting to be loved not a bit needy??

Let's say you were seeing somebody for about a year, yous got on great ad nothing to complain about but the only thing was that you weren't in love with them, would it be a case of keep going out with them in the hope that someday you'll fall for them?? or would it be finish with them, it's been a year now so it looks like you'll never feel that way about them...

Is love the be all and end all of every relationship??



interesting question..

personally, love has to be there for me, I love very deeply and passionately..just liking n wanting to get down n dirty with someone just doesnt cut it..theres places that people I love get to that just any aul person doesnt.

I dont think wanting to be loved is needy..its human nature.

think it all depends on what is acceptable for each individual really,
Sep 17, 2012 7:43 AM CST Love...
fifitheminx
fifitheminxfifitheminxDublin, Ireland35 Threads 4,039 Posts
mcattack: i reckon it's the reason why a lot of people are single, they crave this feeling that once had for somebody and base their future happiness on it....

Just some hungover thoughts


i agree with that..

they crave how someone elses love made them feel also...but each person and relationship makes u feel diff..IMO
Sep 17, 2012 7:44 AM CST Love...
fast_and_furious
fast_and_furiousfast_and_furiousTipp, Tipperary Ireland58 Threads 1 Polls 1,394 Posts
mcattack: Does it really matter?? do you need to love somebody to be in a relationship?? and is wanting to be loved not a bit needy??

Let's say you were seeing somebody for about a year, yous got on great ad nothing to complain about but the only thing was that you weren't in love with them, would it be a case of keep going out with them in the hope that someday you'll fall for them?? or would it be finish with them, it's been a year now so it looks like you'll never feel that way about them...

Is love the be all and end all of every relationship??
relationships can happen and go on without love! Love really is just a word :)
Sep 17, 2012 7:47 AM CST Love...
MADDOG69: Well I bet there's tons of relationships out there that are a bit unequal in the love department. I know myself I dated a young wan.,.. it just didn't click in terms of love from my point of view. Nice girl and everything, but she was pissed 'cos her feelings were stronger than mine. I was grand.. didn't bother me much. Lasted on and off about a year or so.


But does it have to be equal to work?? is it not a bit needy??

The same happened to me with a girl and she told me last night that she could never be with me because she knows i'll never love her like she loved me...i was fairly shocked because i never knew she felt like that in the first place, not that i wanted to be with her again or anything, just a conversation we had last night in the boozer...
Sep 17, 2012 7:53 AM CST Love...
fast_and_furious
fast_and_furiousfast_and_furiousTipp, Tipperary Ireland58 Threads 1 Polls 1,394 Posts
mcattack: But does it have to be equal to work?? is it not a bit needy??

The same happened to me with a girl and she told me last night that she could never be with me because she knows i'll never love her like she loved me...i was fairly shocked because i never knew she felt like that in the first place, not that i wanted to be with her again or anything, just a conversation we had last night in the boozer...
laugh Go way ya lier you were contemplating going back to her banana
Sep 17, 2012 8:08 AM CST Love...
fast_and_furious: Go way ya lier you were contemplating going back to her


To be honest i thought we were gonna end up hopping off each other again last night but then she dropped that bombshell on me....ruined it!! doh
Sep 17, 2012 8:10 AM CST Love...
fast_and_furious
fast_and_furiousfast_and_furiousTipp, Tipperary Ireland58 Threads 1 Polls 1,394 Posts
mcattack: To be honest i thought we were gonna end up hopping off each other again last night but then she dropped that bombshell on me....ruined it!!
That put a spanner in the works laugh If she just had to keep her gob shut u woulda got ur hole last night grin
Sep 17, 2012 8:14 AM CST Love...
fast_and_furious: That put a spanner in the works If she just had to keep her gob shut u woulda got ur hole last night


laugh i never said i didn't get "me hole"
Sep 17, 2012 8:16 AM CST Love...
fast_and_furious
fast_and_furiousfast_and_furiousTipp, Tipperary Ireland58 Threads 1 Polls 1,394 Posts
mcattack: i never said i didn't get "me hole"
Lol unlike those poor women of cs who were inactive indoors all weekend, they got nothing laugh
Sep 17, 2012 8:34 AM CST Love...
fifitheminx
fifitheminxfifitheminxDublin, Ireland35 Threads 4,039 Posts
fast_and_furious: Lol unlike those poor women of cs who were inactive indoors all weekend, they got nothing


lmao why??..

does living at home with mammy mean u only get action outdoors?rolling on the floor laughing
Sep 17, 2012 10:31 AM CST Love...
fifitheminx
fifitheminxfifitheminxDublin, Ireland35 Threads 4,039 Posts
course ya are kiss
Sep 17, 2012 10:40 AM CST Love...
sofarsogood74
sofarsogood74sofarsogood74Dublin, Ireland40 Threads 4 Polls 2,711 Posts
mcattack: Does it really matter?? do you need to love somebody to be in a relationship?? and is wanting to be loved not a bit needy??

Let's say you were seeing somebody for about a year, yous got on great ad nothing to complain about but the only thing was that you weren't in love with them, would it be a case of keep going out with them in the hope that someday you'll fall for them?? or would it be finish with them, it's been a year now so it looks like you'll never feel that way about them...

Is love the be all and end all of every relationship??


I personally would be bored silly if I was with someone a year but didn't love them. I couldn't last that long with someone if there was no love there no matter what they look like.

There is a saying "For every stunning woman you see there is some man sick of riding her out there"!laugh
Sep 17, 2012 12:02 PM CST Love...
ohwiseone
ohwiseoneohwiseoneDerry, Donegal Ireland5 Threads 2 Polls 1,631 Posts
fifitheminx: .. and love is the thing that stops u from murdering them when ur not banging them.


But why would you spend time with them if you’re not umm physically attached (literally), dunno (banging sounded sooo emotionally detached) laugh
Sep 17, 2012 12:05 PM CST Love...
fifitheminx
fifitheminxfifitheminxDublin, Ireland35 Threads 4,039 Posts
ohwiseone: But why would you spend time with them if you’re not umm physically attached (literally), (banging sounded sooo emotionally detached)


cos ye get thirsty...someones gotta make the tea..

and theres room for banging in every great relationship laugh
Sep 17, 2012 12:09 PM CST Love...
ohwiseone
ohwiseoneohwiseoneDerry, Donegal Ireland5 Threads 2 Polls 1,631 Posts
fifitheminx: cos ye get thirsty...someones gotta make the tea..

Nothing but constant banging is what makes a great relationship



thumbs up fair play to you, wink
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