Please tell me why some men are afraid of being in a relationship?? (46)
rohaan: A couple of things are going on here. First, and please don't take this the wrong way, but aren't there any eligible single men in or near Batehaven? It looked like a nice sea coast town to me....Also, people, not just men, are a bit more jaded about relationships these days. There's good reason for this, so many damaged folks out there. This one doesn't sound like "the right one", and you know this already or you wouldn't need our input. Most people already know the answer before they ask others. And you and I both know that you already know the answers.
THANKS FOR YOUR ANSWER. THERE ARE NOT MANY SINGLE MEN IN BATEHAVEN... THERE ARE A LOTS OF MUCH OLDER MEN IN THIS TOWN....I AM SINGLE FOR 4 YEARS IN THIS TOWN AND NEVER MET HERE A SINGLE MAN INTERESTED IN ME....
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It sounds like fear of intimacy to me darlin...A lot of men talk a big game but when it comes to reality they run rather than face the fact they are legends in their own mind ...Move on dont waste time on this. Good luck finding someone sweetie 
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venusenvy: It sounds like fear of intimacy to me darlin...A lot of men talk a big game but when it comes to reality they run rather than face the fact they are legends in their own mind ...Move on dont waste time on this. Good luck finding someone sweetie
on the other hand , wimin r sooo perfect..most specially u
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eoprea: THANKS FOR YOUR ANSWER. THERE ARE NOT MANY SINGLE MEN IN BATEHAVEN... THERE ARE A LOTS OF MUCH OLDER MEN IN THIS TOWN....I AM SINGLE FOR 4 YEARS IN THIS TOWN AND NEVER MET HERE A SINGLE MAN INTERESTED IN ME....
O.K. You have a clear view of the possibilities. How about nearby communities? Perhaps there are some men who would be companionable, but they just don't know you may be interested, too. (Lots of men are kind of shy). You must have some BFF's around, or at least some really good friends, tell them and get a sort of "network" going. (From what you have written, I believe it is too chancy of you to seek a gentleman caller from another country. Stick to home. Join some card clubs or something. It is my sincere belief that what we are looking for is much, much closer than we realize. Give some of your locals, or at least as local as you can get to, a fair shake. I think you'll be pleasantly surprised.)------ This thread is Archived ------
rohaan: O.K. You have a clear view of the possibilities. How about nearby communities? Perhaps there are some men who would be companionable, but they just don't know you may be interested, too. (Lots of men are kind of shy). You must have some BFF's around, or at least some really good friends, tell them and get a sort of "network" going. (From what you have written, I believe it is too chancy of you to seek a gentleman caller from another country. Stick to home. Join some card clubs or something. It is my sincere belief that what we are looking for is much, much closer than we realize. Give some of your locals, or at least as local as you can get to, a fair shake. I think you'll be pleasantly surprised.)
I live in a town with 10 000 people of which over 60 percent are old retired people. .. The nearest big community is Canberra, 140 kms away....
Thanks ...
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Well.. after waiting for him to visit me.. I took the plain and visited him in Europe. He was nice and friendly but he did not show any intentions of being in relationship with me .. although he told me he likes me.
After a long time of silence he started talking to me again.. We chat for hours about all sorts of things but if I ask him about future plans together he is silent... Please help me understand?? Is he very afraid of a relationship..is this man just waisting time??? I appreciate your honest answers and opinions.. Many thanks Elena