PERSONALITY OF LOVE (66)
jono7: hiya H
what if someone loves someone who is abusive?
what about domestic violence?
are you saying that they don't love the person if they leave?
what if someone loves someone who is abusive?
what about domestic violence?
are you saying that they don't love the person if they leave?
I'd say you answered your own question in post 15 of this thread.
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solitare: Or perhaps the other way around... Jono!
hi solitare
it's lovely seeing you posting again...thou i was gonna
compare continental to canadian bacon ...
not sure what you mean here by 'other way round'?
(i'm starting some new ptg in two weeks after 5 month
break...are you working on anything?)
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jono7: hi solitare
it's lovely seeing you posting again...thou i was gonna
compare continental to canadian bacon ...
not sure what you mean here by 'other way round'?
(i'm starting some new ptg in two weeks after 5 month
break...are you working on anything?)
it's lovely seeing you posting again...thou i was gonna
compare continental to canadian bacon ...
not sure what you mean here by 'other way round'?
(i'm starting some new ptg in two weeks after 5 month
break...are you working on anything?)
Actually, yes. I'm working on something totally insane. (Art wise)
I dare not say anything until the paintings are finished...
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solitare: Actually, yes. I'm working on something totally insane. (Art wise)
I dare not say anything until the paintings are finished...
I dare not say anything until the paintings are finished...
i'm the same (grin)
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purr4mance: I'd say you answered your own question in post 15 of this thread.
hiya purr4mance
yes...i think you're right. was trying to get a better
understanding of what H was saying.
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jono7: hiya purr4mance
yes...i think you're right. was trying to get a better
understanding of what H was saying.
yes...i think you're right. was trying to get a better
understanding of what H was saying.
I don't care much for being right anymore.
If there's one thing I've learned from my stay here at CS, it would be that happiness is where it's at.
But, happiness might just be an illusion.
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jono7: hiya H
what if someone loves someone who is abusive?
what about domestic violence?
are you saying that they don't love the person if they leave?
what if someone loves someone who is abusive?
what about domestic violence?
are you saying that they don't love the person if they leave?
I used to go to Solo Center (a singles socializing place) in Seattle, and one of the guys there said he used to be married when he was an alcoholic. He went through AA and became sober near the end of their marriage, but the wife said, "It's too late." She didn't love him any more.
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purr4mance: I don't care much for being right anymore.
If there's one thing I've learned from my stay here at CS, it would be that happiness is where it's at.
But, happiness might just be an illusion.
If there's one thing I've learned from my stay here at CS, it would be that happiness is where it's at.
But, happiness might just be an illusion.
....here we go.... already mentioned today how the concept ofillusion gives me holographic insomnia ...
if happiness can be a choice, then that suggests to me that it is
perhaps also an illusion. that it all depends on our perception...how we
frame things to ourselves. (which leads into why don't more folks choose it)
then into life as experience, as feeling...as being..
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HuggerMan4U: I used to go to Solo Center (a singles socializing place) in Seattle, and one of the guys there said he used to be married when he was an alcoholic. He went through AA and became sober near the end of their marriage, but the wife said, "It's too late." She didn't love him any more.
sad, yes, i've seen that happen. but i think that may happen as well if one partner makes any kind of drastic change in the relationship dynamic.------ This thread is Archived ------
jono7: hiya H
what if someone loves someone who is abusive?
what about domestic violence?
are you saying that they don't love the person if they leave?
what if someone loves someone who is abusive?
what about domestic violence?
are you saying that they don't love the person if they leave?
One of the most difficult things about negative relationships is that the abuser/controller/manipulator doesn't see their behavior as "wrong", therefore there is no real solution. In fact, I read recently something that is being further examined in controllers and manipulators (It's rather dark, actually...) and that is the abuser is NOT MOVED by the victim's sorrow. How eerie for both. 
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rohaan: One of the most difficult things about negative relationships is that the abuser/controller/manipulator doesn't see their behavior as "wrong", therefore there is no real solution. In fact, I read recently something that is being further examined in controllers and manipulators (It's rather dark, actually...) and that is the abuser is NOT MOVED by the victim's sorrow. How eerie for both.
hiya rohaan
it's really so very sad.
what are you reading?
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HuggerMan4U: I used to go to Solo Center (a singles socializing place) in Seattle, and one of the guys there said he used to be married when he was an alcoholic. He went through AA and became sober near the end of their marriage, but the wife said, "It's too late." She didn't love him any more.
Happens a lot. Many of those type of relationships are co-dependent. As soon as there is a change such sobriety, the other partner looses interest.
Co-dependency means that the non drinking partner is as dependent on the bottle as the alcoholic in his/her life.
Also many who become sober in AA become rather "programmed" and not easy to live with.
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According to you,maybe according to her,you are impossible too.-
tomcatwarne: Well I love someone, but sometimes she is impossible, well maybe you have had this experience as well, who said love should be easy???
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Dogs love the owner,cats love the house of the owner.
solitare: (and cats!)
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In response to: lOVING SOMEONE UNCONDITIONALLY DOES NOT MEAN STAYING WITH THEM, NO MATTER WHAT.
That old Queen of cliches "I love you but i'm not in love with you" springs to mind. You know, that pretend love that people use to purpotedly spare the other person's feelings, but in reality is just how a coward deals with guilt.
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tomcatwarne: Well I love someone, but sometimes she is impossible, well maybe you have had this experience as well, who said love should be easy???
If you can survive your worst moments together and still love each other, you got it made,,,
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jono7: hiya rohaan
it's really so very sad.
what are you reading?
Anita Anand--check her out. it's really so very sad.
what are you reading?
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Who decides,a "situation is untenable"????
rohaan: One does not have to tolerate untenable situations to be said to love unconditionally.
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Human characters is not like "oil change" in your car.-
jono7: sad, yes, i've seen that happen. but i think that may happen as well if one partner makes any kind of drastic change in the relationship dynamic.
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what if someone loves someone who is abusive?
what about domestic violence?
are you saying that they don't love the person if they leave?
Or perhaps the other way around...