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Nov 25, 2012 10:09 AM CST dating
i have being seeing this girl that i really like, she is a nice girl and we get on very well when we do meet, she does not like replying to texts and might not hear from her for weeks, when i question her, she just says she has alot going on in her life at the moment. what do u all think? she does seam interested in me.
Nov 25, 2012 10:15 AM CST dating
buzzy111: i have being seeing this girl that i really like, she is a nice girl and we get on very well when we do meet, she does not like replying to texts and might not hear from her for weeks, when i question her, she just says she has alot going on in her life at the moment. what do u all think? she does seam interested in me.


sounds like she was already seeing somebody else when she met you..you're just be used whenever her urges get the better of herireland
Nov 25, 2012 10:21 AM CST dating
i dont think she is like that, she comes across as honest.
Nov 25, 2012 10:27 AM CST dating
TwinkleStar_70
TwinkleStar_70TwinkleStar_70Near carloe, Carlow Ireland14 Threads 2 Polls 1,230 Posts
Maybe she busy, working ect, men are the same. most i know. not keen on texting , try phoning handshake
Nov 25, 2012 10:29 AM CST dating
Matara
MataraMataraClare, Ireland12 Posts
Something sounds off to me, while she may not like texting if have been seeing her awhile it would be common curtesy to reply to your texts. I think the long absence thing is also a bit off. I feel that you are not happy with this am I correct.
Nov 25, 2012 10:36 AM CST dating
i find it very ignorant that she's not answering the text, which is strange because she does not come across as ignorant person, i would describe her a a kind caring person.
Nov 25, 2012 10:39 AM CST dating
TwinkleStar_70: Maybe she busy, working ect, men are the same. most i know. not keen on texting , try phoning


just think i would be over stepping the mark phoning her, might come accross to interested.
Nov 25, 2012 10:44 AM CST dating
luckycharmer
luckycharmerluckycharmerireland, Wicklow Ireland85 Threads 13 Polls 2,019 Posts
buzzy111: i have being seeing this girl that i really like, she is a nice girl and we get on very well when we do meet, she does not like replying to texts and might not hear from her for weeks, when i question her, she just says she has alot going on in her life at the moment. what do u all think? she does seam interested in me.
well if she cant send the odd text or phone call what is the point,even if she is busy
Nov 25, 2012 10:47 AM CST dating
Serenity4two
Serenity4twoSerenity4twoDonegal, Ireland22 Threads 4,645 Posts
buzzy111: i find it very ignorant that she's not answering the text, which is strange because she does not come across as ignorant person, i would describe her a a kind caring person.


Hello Buzzy --my take is this ,,,if you really like a person , communication comes very easily and naturally --infact ,if you care for that person , you can't wait to speak to them ,, can't wait to catch up on how each other is doing , and how each other's day has gone by .
You describe her as a nice caring person ,could you perhaps the next time you are speaking with her, discuss why she won't reply to your texts , or call more often ?
All of us lead busy lives now , especially in the current climate --so with respect , saying she is busy , is really no excuse .
You need to know where you stand --
Good luck --i hope you get clarity on the situation soon handshake
Nov 25, 2012 10:50 AM CST dating
luckycharmer: well if she cant send the odd text or phone call what is the point,even if she is busy

yes i agree with you to a point, but i really do like here, would love to make it work, if it can at all.
Nov 25, 2012 10:51 AM CST dating
is she a member here?
Nov 25, 2012 10:52 AM CST dating
salanky
salankysalankydublin, Dublin Ireland90 Threads 1 Polls 9,888 Posts
buzzy111: yes i agree with you to a point, but i really do like here, would love to make it work, if it can at all.
you know my thoughts on it already but id just ask her out straight, hard as it is at least you know where you stand
Nov 25, 2012 10:55 AM CST dating
WadeWilson: is she a member here?

yes she is, she hasent being on here for a long time
Nov 25, 2012 10:57 AM CST dating
salanky: you know my thoughts on it already but id just ask her out straight, hard as it is at least you know where you stand

thanks E, i know you right. trying to get in contact with he is driving me mad.
Nov 25, 2012 10:58 AM CST dating
luckycharmer
luckycharmerluckycharmerireland, Wicklow Ireland85 Threads 13 Polls 2,019 Posts
buzzy111: yes i agree with you to a point, but i really do like here, would love to make it work, if it can at all.
ask her why she wont make contact and if she thinks it going anywhere ,you don't get the answers you want , I would not waste me time thumbs up plent of women out therethumbs up
Nov 25, 2012 11:02 AM CST dating
70Libra
70Libra70LibraCounty, Waterford Ireland43 Threads 6,782 Posts
buzzy111: just think i would be over stepping the mark phoning her, might come accross to interested.

But you are interested... right?

"Faint heart never won fair lady"
Nov 25, 2012 11:09 AM CST dating
70Libra: But you are interested... right?

"Faint heart never won fair lady"

yes i am very interested, but i dont want to push things 2 far.
Nov 25, 2012 11:21 AM CST dating
70Libra
70Libra70LibraCounty, Waterford Ireland43 Threads 6,782 Posts
buzzy111: yes i am very interested, but i dont want to push things 2 far.

As opposed to what..... sitting there and hoping she makes the first move?

If it was me, I'd be losing interest on account of you doing just that, and not showing her that you are interested.
Nov 25, 2012 11:28 AM CST dating
HEAVENS
HEAVENSHEAVENSCo. Clare, Clare Ireland3 Threads 660 Posts
tough one but sounds a bit strange,,

The not replying to text if its during working hrs sound enough as she, might not be allowed phones at work depends on job,

But if she cant send quick text on break, or even lunch or while not working does not add up.. even if its only few lines... but weeks confused

Does she have pic on here? not saying she has to .. but that would lead me to wonder


Honesty is the besst policy, when you meet next chat in person about it...

wish you the best with it..

teddybear
Nov 25, 2012 11:31 AM CST dating
perfect9
perfect9perfect9Meath/Louth, Louth Ireland5 Threads 656 Posts
buzzy111: i find it very ignorant that she's not answering the text, which is strange because she does not come across as ignorant person, i would describe her a a kind caring person.



I think you have answered your own question,she likes you as a friend, and is letting you down gently ...move on I say...bouquet
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