Should I give up on love are keep looking (78)
JohnB86Novi Sad, Vojvodina Serbia42 PostsI agree with this...You should not give up,keep looking. No one is 2 old for love,you think that now but when right woman come you will have another opinion,after all one woman left you,no big deal there is more woman's than mans on this world,just don't stay alone.
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venusenvy: You cant win if you dont roll the dice
and it helps if u buy a pair that's weighted......
just sayin....
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You're only 32, that's around the age I plan to start looking for love.
I know you've been with this woman you're entire adult life and new women probably seem quite daunting with having no dating experience, but you'll get there. Christ there are women in their 40's behaving like they're 26 so you have nothing to worry about.
Just jump in at the deep end, you'll get knocked back a lot, but if you want to have confidence you're going to need to smash your own ego and tolerate a lot of embarrassment first. And the internet is not going to help with this, you need the real world for real gains.
I know you've been with this woman you're entire adult life and new women probably seem quite daunting with having no dating experience, but you'll get there. Christ there are women in their 40's behaving like they're 26 so you have nothing to worry about.
Just jump in at the deep end, you'll get knocked back a lot, but if you want to have confidence you're going to need to smash your own ego and tolerate a lot of embarrassment first. And the internet is not going to help with this, you need the real world for real gains.
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Well you can say that 
But never cheated the one that i love. That's so lame 4 me :).
I tell this man what 2 do,i can do that easily but want somebody abroad,different nationality,culture :)
But never cheated the one that i love. That's so lame 4 me :).
I tell this man what 2 do,i can do that easily but want somebody abroad,different nationality,culture :)
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Rumple4skin: You're only 32, that's around the age I plan to start looking for love.
I know you've been with this woman you're entire adult life and new women probably seem quite daunting with having no dating experience, but you'll get there. Christ there are women in their 40's behaving like they're 26 so you have nothing to worry about.
Just jump in at the deep end, you'll get knocked back a lot, but if you want to have confidence you're going to need to smash your own ego and tolerate a lot of embarrassment first. And the internet is not going to help with this, you need the real world for real gains.
I know you've been with this woman you're entire adult life and new women probably seem quite daunting with having no dating experience, but you'll get there. Christ there are women in their 40's behaving like they're 26 so you have nothing to worry about.
Just jump in at the deep end, you'll get knocked back a lot, but if you want to have confidence you're going to need to smash your own ego and tolerate a lot of embarrassment first. And the internet is not going to help with this, you need the real world for real gains.
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Robbyjp: I bean in a relaship for 14yer and its over I bean thanking thear is no one out thear to make me happy am I date able
First of all, NO ONE, let me repeat NO ONE can make you happy...
I got divorced 1 yr ago from a 17 yr marriage...how long have you been divorced?
You need to just get out there and DATE, if your ready. But you can be happy alone.
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Robbyjp: I bean in a relaship for 14yer and its over I bean thanking thear is no one out thear to make me happy am I date able
The average time it takes a bloke to get over a break-up is 2 years, according to phychological studies. The average time it takes a woman to get over a break-up is 5 years, according to the same studies.
1.
Okay you've been in a long-term relationship. First thing is to figure out who you are. If you don't know, then that will be like waving a big "WARNING" sign in front of the ladies. They have ESP on this front. You have to know who you are, what you want, and what you can offer in a relationship.
Have you figured these things out yet? If not, then just look for friends for now. I was married for 10 years, and it has taken me 3 years to figure this stuff out.
2.
Nobody can make you happy. Happiness is something you become, it can be influenced by relationships, friends, circumstances, but it is not something that someone can make for you. If you need someone to make this for you, then you are not ready for a relationship. And the powers of the universe will ensure that some other woman does not fall into a trap that will be like a downward spiral on her emotions as you scramble on her giving to get your head above water again.
Learn to swim by yourself. At least get a good way there before starting to look for something more.....
3.
Pray to God about it. Religious or not religious, it works. I'm not religious and I know from personal experience. It works. God will help you to sort yourself out first, then when you have you sorted, it is amazing what comes along your way....
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Robbyjp: I bean in a relaship for 14yer and its over I bean thanking thear is no one out thear to make me happy am I date able
give up & forget about it.....that seems to yield the best results
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Robbyjp: I bean in a relaship for 14yer and its over I bean thanking thear is no one out thear to make me happy am I date able
Give up looking mate.
If she's out there she'll find you, just enjoy being you, your own space, you can lounge around naked if you wish. Who cares about a woman, learn how to cook and .. Be happy!
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felixis99: give up & forget about it.....that seems to yield the best results
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Robbyjp: I bean in a relaship for 14yer and its over I bean thanking thear is no one out thear to make me happy am I date able
Put a closure first before jumping into another journey.
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Find somebody,you realy like, to respect you,for who you are.And maybe love,might developed in the process.
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or Learn to be a Man women get Attracted & love to be with
Do you want to be that guy?
Do you want to be that guy?
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Stop looking and someone will just turn up one day ..... never give up on anything in life .. just enjoy your life while you have it and what ever happens happens
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Robbyjp: I bean in a relaship for 14yer and its over I bean thanking thear is no one out thear to make me happy am I date able
How many of these threads are you up to now OP? I've seen you post this same thing at least 3 times now.
I suppose it might be cheap entertainment.... so good on ya for being able to milk this same thread topic for so long on a number of occasions...
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Robbyjp: I bean in a relaship for 14yer and its over I bean thanking thear is no one out thear to make me happy am I date able
Just live your life, take up interests and hobbies, take a course in something you're interested in. Don't pursue love , it will come when you least expect it. Don't give up over a woman (no offence ladies) Two will come along in a minute
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tomcatwarne: Just live your life, take up interests and hobbies, take a course in something you're interested in. Don't pursue love , it will come when you least expect it. Don't give up over a woman (no offence ladies) Two will come along in a minute
agree with that i try to learn how to swim nowdays
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Robbyjp: I bean in a relaship for 14yer and its over I bean thanking thear is no one out thear to make me happy am I date able
Now hear this: You're right!
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I wouldn't give up on love, but I certainly don't like the pain it brings...
I'm just coming to terms with the fact that my boyfriend of some time has given me a whopping slap on the face... I got off this site to concentrate on my relationship with him, but, he has stayed on, (not that I asked him to quit... besides I know what his answer would be to that) but our relationship must be missing something if he is involved and building another relationship with other women, because in my mind, he is morally cheating, and he is even lying about the fact that he is on...like I really care, but at least he could admit that he is talking to his friends or whatever....
I'm just coming to terms with the fact that my boyfriend of some time has given me a whopping slap on the face... I got off this site to concentrate on my relationship with him, but, he has stayed on, (not that I asked him to quit... besides I know what his answer would be to that) but our relationship must be missing something if he is involved and building another relationship with other women, because in my mind, he is morally cheating, and he is even lying about the fact that he is on...like I really care, but at least he could admit that he is talking to his friends or whatever....
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DaytonaDude: Might help his spelling too, if he were to type right side up
He he he he -- you're bloody right Dayton ..
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