I'm wondering if some of you have ever met a guy/woman online who promised you that he/she would visit you and even told you that he/she had already bought the plane or bus ticket to visit you and when the day finally came he/she just cancelled the trip with an excuse or has left you in the airport/train or bus station waiting for him/her and he/she never came?
at the beginning he said he had no money to travel and after a few days he told me he got the money and bought the ticket but he doesn't want to show me the booking on cam, he says I don't respect his privacy and I don't trust him, that he is coming to my country, etc.
Oh Jesus didn't read that right. nobody has, nobody will. If the person is a pro, there won't be any signal. To prevent yourself from being hurt, don't expect the person...until you see him.
hi this did happen to me last year she said she would like to come over and when the day was here for her to come she did not turn up her phone was off and i never heard from her again
Crespo84: I'm wondering if some of you have ever met a guy/woman online who promised you that he/she would visit you and even told you that he/she had already bought the plane or bus ticket to visit you and when the day finally came he/she just cancelled the trip with an excuse or has left you in the airport/train or bus station waiting for him/her and he/she never came?
Tickets can be very expensive. But than at least don't say that you ARE coming.
I can understand that in an enthousiastic mood you say you want to come, bit seeing how much its actually going to cost, the enthousiasme is quickly gone.
shay28: Don't believe until he is in front of you personally.
Good idea! Or at least shows you his plane ticket on the webcam! I went to Mexico to meet someone a few years ago. I was very nervous that she would not be there when I got there! She was, and we got along fine, sad that things didn't work for us in the end. She is now Married though and I am very happy for her!
Crespo84: at the beginning he said he had no money to travel and after a few days he told me he got the money and bought the ticket but he doesn't want to show me the booking on cam, he says I don't respect his privacy and I don't trust him, that he is coming to my country, etc.
In response to: I'm wondering if some of you have ever met a guy/woman online who promised you that he/she would visit you and even told you that he/she had already bought the plane or bus ticket to visit you and when the day finally came he/she just cancelled the trip with an excuse or has left you in the airport/train or bus station waiting for him/her and he/she never came?
What are the signals that a person could do that?
One said he would come visit, but got cold feet and told me a couple of days before he was supposed to show up.
Personally, I don't believe anything unless I see the ticket on the camera with the dates, times, etc.
To promise and then not show is cowardly. No respect for such people. There is no excuse for such bad behavior.
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What are the signals that a person could do that?