Have your online love promised to visit you in your country, but he never did? ( Archived) (13)

Feb 22, 2013 9:20 AM CST Have your online love promised to visit you in your country, but he never did?
Crespo84
Crespo84Crespo84Santo Domingo, Distrito Nacional Dominican Republic6 Threads 14 Posts
I'm wondering if some of you have ever met a guy/woman online who promised you that he/she would visit you and even told you that he/she had already bought the plane or bus ticket to visit you and when the day finally came he/she just cancelled the trip with an excuse or has left you in the airport/train or bus station waiting for him/her and he/she never came?

What are the signals that a person could do that?
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Feb 22, 2013 10:03 AM CST Have your online love promised to visit you in your country, but he never did?
myhome
myhomemyhomePinetop, Arizona USA64 Posts
What was the excuse he used?
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Feb 22, 2013 11:24 AM CST Have your online love promised to visit you in your country, but he never did?
Crespo84
Crespo84Crespo84Santo Domingo, Distrito Nacional Dominican Republic6 Threads 14 Posts
at the beginning he said he had no money to travel and after a few days he told me he got the money and bought the ticket but he doesn't want to show me the booking on cam, he says I don't respect his privacy and I don't trust him, that he is coming to my country, etc.
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Feb 22, 2013 11:25 AM CST Have your online love promised to visit you in your country, but he never did?
Balles
BallesBallesdubai, Dubai United Arab Emirates377 Posts
Oh Jesus rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing didn't read that right. laugh laugh nobody has, nobody will. If the person is a pro, there won't be any signal. To prevent yourself from being hurt, don't expect the person...until you see him.
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Feb 22, 2013 11:26 AM CST Have your online love promised to visit you in your country, but he never did?
mate22
mate22mate22derdy, Derbyshire, England UK10 Posts
hi this did happen to me last year she said she would like to come over and when the day was here for her to come she did not turn up her phone was off and i never heard from her againhandshake
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Feb 22, 2013 1:32 PM CST Have your online love promised to visit you in your country, but he never did?
michael63ca
michael63camichael63caVancouver, Alberta Canada50 Threads 2 Polls 784 Posts
Crespo84: I'm wondering if some of you have ever met a guy/woman online who promised you that he/she would visit you and even told you that he/she had already bought the plane or bus ticket to visit you and when the day finally came he/she just cancelled the trip with an excuse or has left you in the airport/train or bus station waiting for him/her and he/she never came?

What are the signals that a person could do that?

The guy is an IDIOT! I would come visit you!
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Feb 22, 2013 1:47 PM CST Have your online love promised to visit you in your country, but he never did?
Rogerzoekt
RogerzoektRogerzoektBrivezac, Nouvelle-Aquitaine France33 Threads 26 Polls 191 Posts
Tickets can be very expensive.
But than at least don't say that you ARE coming.

I can understand that in an enthousiastic mood you say you want to come, bit seeing how much its actually going to cost, the enthousiasme is quickly gone.

Paying a few 1000 € for tickets is no exception.

mumbling
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Feb 22, 2013 1:48 PM CST Have your online love promised to visit you in your country, but he never did?
shay28
shay28shay28Ha'il,, Saudi Arabia468 Posts
Don't believe until he is in front of you personally.
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Feb 22, 2013 1:53 PM CST Have your online love promised to visit you in your country, but he never did?
michael63ca
michael63camichael63caVancouver, Alberta Canada50 Threads 2 Polls 784 Posts
shay28: Don't believe until he is in front of you personally.

Good idea! Or at least shows you his plane ticket on the webcam! I went to Mexico to meet someone a few years ago. I was very nervous that she would not be there when I got there! She was, and we got along fine, sad that things didn't work for us in the end. She is now Married though and I am very happy for her!
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Feb 22, 2013 3:04 PM CST Have your online love promised to visit you in your country, but he never did?
Migsy
MigsyMigsycandelaria quezon, Calabarzon Philippines16 Threads 1,632 Posts
I will fetch him using my broomstick to make sure hes not making stories lol
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Feb 22, 2013 3:08 PM CST Have your online love promised to visit you in your country, but he never did?
shahidwardag
shahidwardagshahidwardagpeshawar, Khyber Pakhtunkhwa Pakistan24 Posts
Crespo84: at the beginning he said he had no money to travel and after a few days he told me he got the money and bought the ticket but he doesn't want to show me the booking on cam, he says I don't respect his privacy and I don't trust him, that he is coming to my country, etc.
hez a liar , mark my words.
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Feb 22, 2013 3:44 PM CST Have your online love promised to visit you in your country, but he never did?
Antoniacv
AntoniacvAntoniacvWien, Vienna Austria11 Threads 1,084 Posts
I would NEVER believe that crap.


Ever....


Good luck chica :)
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Feb 22, 2013 3:55 PM CST Have your online love promised to visit you in your country, but he never did?
Scubadiva
ScubadivaScubadivaNew Jersey, USA106 Threads 11 Polls 2,689 Posts
In response to: I'm wondering if some of you have ever met a guy/woman online who promised you that he/she would visit you and even told you that he/she had already bought the plane or bus ticket to visit you and when the day finally came he/she just cancelled the trip with an excuse or has left you in the airport/train or bus station waiting for him/her and he/she never came?

What are the signals that a person could do that?


One said he would come visit, but got cold feet and told me a couple of days before he was supposed to show up.

Personally, I don't believe anything unless I see the ticket on the camera with the dates, times, etc. laugh

To promise and then not show is cowardly. No respect for such people. There is no excuse for such bad behavior.
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