Dump him, I ment a man here in CS like that he didnt want to work, didnt do the chores in the house, was all the time sleeping and playing videogames, he had mental problems. I was so stupid planning to have a relationship with that lazy weirdo.
I have noticed that most of the men in CS are Scorpio or Gemini. I have read that both signs are the most unfaithful men and love to cheat on their wives. (My own experience with 5 scorpios in my family, the father of my children is Gemini 1 BF scorpio and 2 former BF as well)
I met my Canadian ex BF here almost 1 year ago and I broke with him because he treated me very bad in Canada when I visited him, he ignored me, lived in bad conditions, now I feel lost...I loved him and I feel guilty about this vecause I did not hear your advices about him, he had many red flags and I continued the relationship and even went to his country and as soon as I came back to my country I stopped contacting him but he told me he really wanted to be with me, I think he is hurt. I do not think I will look for other man in many years anymore, Im devastated:-(
Because I live in Dominican Republic which is in Latinamerica and I have travelled to other countries in Southamerica and Central America and unfortunately I know that here there are places of extreme poverty, but I never thought that in Canada there were people living even worse.
Im not shocked for that, but for the nasty house they have, it's shocking because I thought those houses you would never find them in Canada, but in Africa or Latinamerica.
We had almost no intimacy and he even asked me to stop it that he didn't want to hurt me, that he loved me but if I found someone in my country which could offer me more than him I had to go for it and not stop for him. We didn't plan anything about when we would see each other again, his arguments were that I was so immature, that the intimacy was not good enough, that he wanted me to do more things in bed and that the way I dressed and acted was like a teenager, he even refused to take pics with me together, like he was embarrassed for me, we only had a few pics together the first week there, even the day I flew back to my country he told me he wanted to leave his car 30 minutes away from the airport into a free parking lot to avoid paying the airport's parking lot because was too expensive and he had no money, then I paid him 30$ to take me to the airport. He was very serious with me all the time and when I arrived to my country he only wrote me a line telling me that he hoped everything was ok, and he didn't ask for my mom who is very sick and two weeks has gone since I returned to my country and only once we have chatted on skype and all was an argument, but he still has me on FB as his GF, he says he loves me and doesn't want to let me go, and all the time he is mentioning me how much money and time he had spent on me, when I ask him to find a job he gets very upset and asked me what is the problem if I work and he stays at home cooking and cleaning, I am really confused and stressed, because he drove me to many places, and if it weren't for him I would have never been to Canada, because the visa is very difficult to get if you don't have an invitation letter or alot of money to spend there and also he paid the gasoline the first week, cooked for me and has tons of pictures of me in his wall and his computer screen, smartphone, etc. I also wanted to live in Canada but not in those conditions with him, do you think I have the fault because I should have paid all my expenses since the first day and tried to talk to his family even so they looked so strange with me? In my country it is very rude if a man asks a woman to pay her expenses, above all if she is his girlfriend and is invited by him, but he says that in Canada is different and women and men have the same rights and that I was not a guest but his GF and I had to pay for everything. Should I stop contacting him or should I continue with him until I find another guy or until he changes? I doubt he will change.
Almost a year ago I met a Canadian guy through this site, I am from Dominican Republic. After 4 months of chatting through Skype with cam we both met in Puerto Rico and he was very excited and happy the first day but the second day he changed and was very distant with me, without any reason, he even didn't like to hold my hands because for him holding hands was for teenagers and we both are adults. I paid my expenses and he paid his, he only paid me one day of lunch and even the taxi was half and half, then we went to my country and he stayed in my house and there he started to pay me lunch and movies, but in my country everything is cheap and he was not paying any accomodation. He has no job since almost 3 years ago because he had a traumatic experience at work and now he has a phobia to work. He invited me to Canada and on August I went there for one month. The first 3 days were perfect, he was very happy, paid for everything, drove me from Toronto to his town which is about 10 hours by car, but we slept in his car two nights because he didn't want to pay for a hotel and when we arrived to his house I was shocked, he still lives with his parents, the house is a mess and dirty everywhere, I slept with his dog in a small bed and very smelly, besides the weather was so cold even in September, and he had no heater at home. I was freezing. His family didn't talk to me at all, above all his mother who always avoided contact with me and made me feel very uncomfortable. He also started to ignore me since then. Although he drove me to many places in Ontario and Quebec, but a few days after I bought a pair of shoes which costed 80 dollars and he got very upset and asked me to pay for my food, at least half of the food his family eats and the gasoline. That I was so rude that I did not offer to pay anything but I had the money to spend for clothes and expensive shoes and he mentioned everything he had spent on me in PR, my country and Canada. I felt so humilliated. Is not that I did not want to pay my things, but he had invited me to Canada and told me that I didn't need to spend any cent while I was there except for the things I wanted to buy. His answer was that I misunderstood what he had said and that he didn't believe that I had a little money when I was buying a 80$ pair of shoes. Since then I started paying everything and he continued to ignore me, at home he was playing videogames all the time and watching videos.
at the beginning he said he had no money to travel and after a few days he told me he got the money and bought the ticket but he doesn't want to show me the booking on cam, he says I don't respect his privacy and I don't trust him, that he is coming to my country, etc.
I'm wondering if some of you have ever met a guy/woman online who promised you that he/she would visit you and even told you that he/she had already bought the plane or bus ticket to visit you and when the day finally came he/she just cancelled the trip with an excuse or has left you in the airport/train or bus station waiting for him/her and he/she never came?
I see that most of the guys here in CS have no job, are unemployed but on their profile they are not sincere and they write that they work for XXX and they make a lot of money but when I chat with them they say they have no job for now or they will have a job soon or they were going to quit job or they were just being fired from job and bla, bla, bla... Why not to put on their profile that they are unemployed and make 0 dollars per year? and even so they pretend to have a long distance relationship, or do they pretend that women should make the first move and pay them money? I'm wondering if that kind of guys are looking for a woman who will works for them or what?? I'm not a selfish and I don't pretend that the man should work for me, I'm a person who think that both should work and should share house duties and expenses together. On the other hand, men that have a job are usually married and are playing here. So what's going on with men here?
Today I met a guy here, he seemed to be normal, he asked me about my facebook to chat and I added him, we started chatting and after a few minutes he started telling me that he loved me so much, and asked me to put that I was engaged with him. I had not seen him on cam yet. Silly me that I did what he asked and then I asked him to chat on skype and there I noticed he was another guy, he didn't look like the one in pictures, was a lot older and with features and a strong accent from the Middle East not like Irish as he claimed to be, we talked for about 30 minutes and I gave him my mobile phone and he gave me his (silly me), and he kept on saying that he loved me, that I was yours. After that I cut the chat and deleted him off FB and Skype because I felt uncomfortable and now he keeps on calling me and sending me sms furious, asking me why I did that to him. Seems that here there are alot of weirdos, scammers and players, no normal guys at all. Did I do the correct thing deleting him? Do you think he was really a serious desperated man looking for his soulmate? The weird thing is that his facebook was new, he had nothing on his wall and I was his only friend.
Maybe I am odd, but I really LOVE seeing a man crying, it excites me alot, I hate when men try to hide their emotions showing that they are super guys when they really aren't. I like emotional men, but of course, I don't like men who cry for silly things, I like when he cries for something really touching...
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RE: What do you think about a man who don't like to work hoping to be maintained by a woman?
Dump him, I ment a man here in CS like that he didnt want to work, didnt do the chores in the house, was all the time sleeping and playing videogames, he had mental problems. I was so stupid planning to have a relationship with that lazy weirdo.