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Crespo84Santo Domingo, Distrito Nacional Dominican Republic6 Threads 14 PostsI met my Canadian ex BF here almost 1 year ago and I broke with him because he treated me very bad in Canada when I visited him, he ignored me, lived in bad conditions, now I feel lost...I loved him and I feel guilty about this vecause I did not hear your advices about him, he had many red flags and I continued the relationship and even went to his country and as soon as I came back to my country I stopped contacting him but he told me he really wanted to be with me, I think he is hurt. I do not think I will look for other man in many years anymore, Im devastated:-(
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Crespo84: I met my Canadian ex BF here almost 1 year ago and I broke with him because he treated me very bad in Canada when I visited him, he ignored me, lived in bad conditions, now I feel lost...I loved him and I feel guilty about this vecause I did not hear your advices about him, he had many red flags and I continued the relationship and even went to his country and as soon as I came back to my country I stopped contacting him but he told me he really wanted to be with me, I think he is hurt. I do not think I will look for other man in many years anymore, Im devastated:-(
I am truly sorry to hear what happened to you.
I wish you all the best ,and hope you will get over him very fast.
It is good to hear that you moved on and left him after all that he did to you, just keep your head up and don't give up, you never know when will you find someone worthy of you
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Crespo84: I met my Canadian ex BF here almost 1 year ago and I broke with him because he treated me very bad in Canada when I visited him, he ignored me, lived in bad conditions, now I feel lost...I loved him and I feel guilty about this vecause I did not hear your advices about him, he had many red flags and I continued the relationship and even went to his country and as soon as I came back to my country I stopped contacting him but he told me he really wanted to be with me, I think he is hurt. I do not think I will look for other man in many years anymore, Im devastated:-(
Oh dear, I'm so sorry for you and I hope that you feel better soon
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serene56: Oh dear, I'm so sorry for you and I hope that you feel better soon
So sorry for you Sweetie, i assume you've learned a rough lesson, the worse way .. that will make you stronger and wiser for sure !
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Crespo84: I met my Canadian ex BF here almost 1 year ago and I broke with him because he treated me very bad in Canada when I visited him, he ignored me, lived in bad conditions, now I feel lost...I loved him and I feel guilty about this vecause I did not hear your advices about him, he had many red flags and I continued the relationship and even went to his country and as soon as I came back to my country I stopped contacting him but he told me he really wanted to be with me, I think he is hurt. I do not think I will look for other man in many years anymore, Im devastated:-(
Jesus...
That truck needs a paint job asap
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If am not mistaken you have posted the same thread about your Canadian ex bf very recently.Is there any point coming back with the same topic.????
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love is a feeling, you're feelings are projected by you and from what you have posted, didn't actually fit with reality.
Perhaps you could try not to blame other, rather look inside your own mind, examine whether or not you're trying to find happiness outside of self instead within, might help to understand yourself and needs better without exposing your self to further like uncomfortable situation...
Perhaps nesting instincts or loneliness drove you into what was clearly unrealistic expectations, likely similar for the person in canada, happiness is within
Perhaps you could try not to blame other, rather look inside your own mind, examine whether or not you're trying to find happiness outside of self instead within, might help to understand yourself and needs better without exposing your self to further like uncomfortable situation...
Perhaps nesting instincts or loneliness drove you into what was clearly unrealistic expectations, likely similar for the person in canada, happiness is within
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chris27292729: If am not mistaken you have posted the same thread about your Canadian ex bf very recently.Is there any point coming back with the same topic.????
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Crespo84: I met my Canadian ex BF here almost 1 year ago and I broke with him because he treated me very bad in Canada when I visited him, he ignored me, lived in bad conditions, now I feel lost...I loved him and I feel guilty about this vecause I did not hear your advices about him, he had many red flags and I continued the relationship and even went to his country and as soon as I came back to my country I stopped contacting him but he told me he really wanted to be with me, I think he is hurt. I do not think I will look for other man in many years anymore, Im devastated:-(
I am going on three years. And before that I lost track now. All I know is I tried to do the right things and even when I was sure of myself I was confronted with things like being cheated on and large deception. I know exactly what you feel like. And I won't tell you that you are going to get over it today or anytime soon. I think in some ways we feel this was for awhile until it is more in the past. For me I always hope to meet someone one day that is honest, has patience, doesn't feel the need to always be flirted by everyone thy come in contact. And that even after a disagreement can talk it out. I mean with reason...not trying to talk it out why you get lied to again or how come someone elses' clothes are in the wash. I mean the things that are already hard enough to deal in life over time. You are young, you have a potentially long life and I hope the same goes for me within reason. My best advice is probably to see what is going on around your neighborhood. It didn't work for me but it did for a lot of others. And as far as meeting people, be careful, but remember there is always a chance you might meet the right person. Don't settle, but don't judge too quickly..people are very different in person than on the phone or on the web. All the best of luck.
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This is your 4th thread about your "boyfriend" which treated you badly.
You are either a troll or you need serious help.
You are either a troll or you need serious help.
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I just looked because people are talking like she has made "so many" threads. The last one was "21" days ago. before that longer. This is a category of "Broken Hearts" why should she not post here if she is troubled. We spend enough time bashing different political figures and people arguing about the strangest things. Here is something that has to do with the very sad part of dating, (this actually is a dating site) just a reminder. So I guess that though she has made these threads, I bet there are many others that would but they are to scared. I was scared to post here at one time. I still shy away because people are so bloody critical. And then when I make a post like this all of a sudden people can say something like oh he is so mean.....or he is not following the design of the way the river flows. LOL> I think that one thread in 3 weeks is not obsessive, and yes, she is still hurting or searching or something. But I do not think she is a troll. The one that was or is on here making friends and telling me to die and she is not a troll but his one girl is???? I think no. Nie. Nem.
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Dragos, did you read the last blog in full, or the one before that?
Well, I did and this is my impression.
Well, I did and this is my impression.
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KNenagh: Dragos, did you read the last blog in full, or the one before that?
Well, I did and this is my impression.
Well, I did and this is my impression.
oh, I am not sure what your point is but though I did read your prior post, I did not quote you because I was making a general statement. if it was only you that had made the complaint I probably would not have posted. And I do not read blogs...not much anyways. but as far as threads I think my point was right on. Besides, Why do you care? You found someone, is this that annoying to see that someone is reaching out? Would it be better if it was some deep conspiracy about a bad politics?? LOL. no need to defend yourself from me, I am just hoping she feels better. And maybe I can relate to some of the things she conveys. Thanks though, I will have to go read the blog now. LOL/
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Learn from it, become stronger, and don't give in.
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Dragos1: I just looked because people are talking like she has made "so many" threads. The last one was "21" days ago. before that longer. This is a category of "Broken Hearts" why should she not post here if she is troubled. We spend enough time bashing different political figures and people arguing about the strangest things. Here is something that has to do with the very sad part of dating, (this actually is a dating site) just a reminder. So I guess that though she has made these threads, I bet there are many others that would but they are to scared. I was scared to post here at one time. I still shy away because people are so bloody critical. And then when I make a post like this all of a sudden people can say something like oh he is so mean.....or he is not following the design of the way the river flows. LOL> I think that one thread in 3 weeks is not obsessive, and yes, she is still hurting or searching or something. But I do not think she is a troll. The one that was or is on here making friends and telling me to die and she is not a troll but his one girl is???? I think no. Nie. Nem.
The topic is the same,no matter in which category she has placed it. Of course she has the right,placing the same topic in different categories, though repetition of the same topic is becaming very annoying.------ This thread is Archived ------
KNenagh: Dragos, did you read the last blog in full, or the one before that?
Well, I did and this is my impression.
Well, I did and this is my impression.
OMG, she has no blogs! LOL, but maybe she will make some.
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chris27292729: The topic is the same,no matter in which category she has placed it. Of course she has the right,placing the same topic in different categories, though repetition of the same topic is becaming very annoying.
3 weeks ago Chris, and even here she only posted once. so this is only at the top because people have replied. So, her problem annoys u? wow,
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Dragos1: I just looked because people are talking like she has made "so many" threads. The last one was "21" days ago. before that longer. This is a category of "Broken Hearts" why should she not post here if she is troubled. We spend enough time bashing different political figures and people arguing about the strangest things. Here is something that has to do with the very sad part of dating, (this actually is a dating site) just a reminder. So I guess that though she has made these threads, I bet there are many others that would but they are to scared. I was scared to post here at one time. I still shy away because people are so bloody critical. And then when I make a post like this all of a sudden people can say something like oh he is so mean.....or he is not following the design of the way the river flows. LOL> I think that one thread in 3 weeks is not obsessive, and yes, she is still hurting or searching or something. But I do not think she is a troll. The one that was or is on here making friends and telling me to die and she is not a troll but his one girl is???? I think no. Nie. Nem.
The same thread on ""Dating Experiences"",..."Should stop contacting him or the fault is mine??" Weel, no doubt the fault is yours.
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Dragos1: oh, I am not sure what your point is but though I did read your prior post, I did not quote you because I was making a general statement. if it was only you that had made the complaint I probably would not have posted. And I do not read blogs...not much anyways. but as far as threads I think my point was right on. Besides, Why do you care? You found someone, is this that annoying to see that someone is reaching out? Would it be better if it was some deep conspiracy about a bad politics?? LOL. no need to defend yourself from me, I am just hoping she feels better. And maybe I can relate to some of the things she conveys. Thanks though, I will have to go read the blog now. LOL/
I did perceive it as a general statement but well, I quoted you. If you read her threads then maybe you know what others who did comment are talking about.
If someone make threads for people to comment on, they will receive comments. If you perceive this thread as "reaching out", fair enough, I don't and then looking at reasons why to post stuff like this again and again...
I also don't see what this has to do with anyone's relationship status, but no need to defend yourself there.
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Her personal problem doesn't annoy me.-Posters have adviced her,correctly in my opinion 3 weeks ago.She ask for advice and was given to her.She is back with the same topic,either the result of not listening to the given advices,or not interested to listen to any advices. The NOT listening is annoying.
Dragos1: 3 weeks ago Chris, and even here she only posted once. so this is only at the top because people have replied. So, her problem annoys u? wow,
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