Why don't women mean what they say? ( Archived) (31)

Aug 5, 2005 2:01 PM CST Why don't women mean what they say?
asingledad
asingledadasingledadBeaufort, South Carolina USA20 Threads 390 Posts
There is a thread askin "Why can't men say what they mean?"
My question is simular. Why when women say something, mean it?
Its seems to mean they say one thing and somehow think you will answer some underlying question they really have. Hope this makes sense.
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Aug 5, 2005 2:04 PM CST Why don't women mean what they say?
TabooN
TabooNTabooNClaremont, USA47 Threads 12,843 Posts
Hmm,
well there shouldn't be an underlying anything...If you think there is, then ask. You should get the truth.
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Aug 5, 2005 2:06 PM CST Why don't women mean what they say?
lakelady51
lakelady51lakelady51Alabaster, Alabama USA24 Threads 285 Posts
I believe there are some women who have been taught, from childhood, to say what they think you want to hear. Not a good thing, but a possible explanation to your question.
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Aug 5, 2005 2:18 PM CST Why don't women mean what they say?
mdcr71351
mdcr71351mdcr71351New Orleans, USA3 Threads 26 Posts
Women don't say what they mean, b/c its a lil game they play.... when YOUR suppose to know what they're thinking. In which case.... the oldest and wisest of men, NEVER know what a woman is thinking.
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Aug 5, 2005 3:15 PM CST Why don't women mean what they say?
RainbowSlider
RainbowSliderRainbowSliderYellville, USA171 Threads 7,174 Posts
Hope always makes sense. Love always makes sense. Charity always makes sense. The least thing that I have found that makes sense is people. :)
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Aug 5, 2005 3:22 PM CST Why don't women mean what they say?
TabooN
TabooNTabooNClaremont, USA47 Threads 12,843 Posts
If I'm thinkin' something, you'll know, there won't be any guessing lol. Too much wasted time doing the other, noone benefits...
However, (would be one, wouldn't there?) if you see a face in pain, sorrow...Just freakin' ask. If she does tell you, then don't worry about it.
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Aug 5, 2005 5:06 PM CST Why don't women mean what they say?
solitare
solitaresolitareBariloche, Rio Negro Argentina40 Threads 4,041 Posts
To be in love is like being in suspended animation, "To be in Love is merely to be in a state of perpetual anesthesia" as H.L. Menken put it; "Love is the triumph of imagination over intelligence...also from Menken; it is in all aspects the cessation of all your mental senses...:)
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Aug 5, 2005 5:25 PM CST Why don't women mean what they say?
TabooN
TabooNTabooNClaremont, USA47 Threads 12,843 Posts
so what are ya tryin' to say, Solitare? heh heh [-D
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Aug 5, 2005 5:59 PM CST Why don't women mean what they say?
RillyNiceGuy
RillyNiceGuyRillyNiceGuySoutheast, Arkansas USA839 Threads 13,003 Posts
I think that women can't tell time.

"I'll be back in a second." Takes 17.5 minutes.

"I will be ready in a minute." Takes 30 to 45 minutes.





Some men and women play with to many toys at the same time.

It calls for a lot of juggling. They forget what's is what.



Just SOME not all.
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Aug 5, 2005 6:07 PM CST Why don't women mean what they say?
TabooN
TabooNTabooNClaremont, USA47 Threads 12,843 Posts
ooooo, good save! lmaoooo
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Aug 5, 2005 7:23 PM CST Why don't women mean what they say?
RillyNiceGuy
RillyNiceGuyRillyNiceGuySoutheast, Arkansas USA839 Threads 13,003 Posts
Since women don't say what they mean. Just WHAT did you mean by THAT? LOL
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Aug 5, 2005 7:25 PM CST Why don't women mean what they say?
unluckysofar
unluckysofarunluckysofarmarket common, South Carolina USA43 Threads 378 Posts
ever listen?

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Aug 5, 2005 8:36 PM CST Why don't women mean what they say?
RillyNiceGuy
RillyNiceGuyRillyNiceGuySoutheast, Arkansas USA839 Threads 13,003 Posts
I always listen. Just picking at TabooN
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Aug 5, 2005 9:15 PM CST Why don't women mean what they say?
asingledad
asingledadasingledadBeaufort, South Carolina USA20 Threads 390 Posts
Communication should not be a guessing game. Say what is on your mind. Be honest and sincere. Then Love will find you. You may find some that take offence, but do you really want to spend time with someone that don't share your views. Or at least can understand them? Being honest and up front builds trust. Trust is one of the most basic building blocks of any relationship. "Take it how you want to, but thats the way I feel." ,is alot better than, "I realy meant is ......" Guessing games are for kids. I may be raising one, I don't need a relationship with one. ok..Thats enough .....
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Aug 6, 2005 4:55 AM CST Why don't women mean what they say?
TabooN
TabooNTabooNClaremont, USA47 Threads 12,843 Posts
Nice was picking on me...A joke, lol.
Gotta lighten up sometimes, huh?
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Aug 6, 2005 6:47 AM CST Why don't women mean what they say?
RillyNiceGuy
RillyNiceGuyRillyNiceGuySoutheast, Arkansas USA839 Threads 13,003 Posts
YUP!
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Aug 6, 2005 7:24 AM CST Why don't women mean what they say?
TabooN
TabooNTabooNClaremont, USA47 Threads 12,843 Posts
:)...
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Aug 6, 2005 7:28 AM CST Why don't women mean what they say?
cajunfroggy
cajunfroggycajunfroggyWaco, USA145 Threads 7,332 Posts
Some women are taught that they Have to say certain things to make their man happy. Not here I say whats on my mind wether you like it or not. Gonna say what I feel and mean what I say.
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Aug 6, 2005 7:34 AM CST Why don't women mean what they say?
TabooN
TabooNTabooNClaremont, USA47 Threads 12,843 Posts
Even to this day, girls are taught to behave and shut up early on...I'm all for being a lady at times...but, don't ever try to shut me up, lol. I want my daughter to be able to say no. Not sit back and take whatever is thrown at her...I'm no feminist,I have beliefs in how men and women are different, biologicly(sp?)...but, a woman can still be one and be up front...

like you say froggy, say it...
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Aug 6, 2005 8:28 AM CST Why don't women mean what they say?
cajunfroggy
cajunfroggycajunfroggyWaco, USA145 Threads 7,332 Posts
Well my best guy friend says I am feminist(SP?) I dont think I am. I was luckly to have my parent steach me that if you dont say whats on ur mind then how will you get anywhere in this world.
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