Can a Man/Woman LOVE more than one person? ( Archived) (60)

Jun 2, 2013 12:30 PM CST Can a Man/Woman LOVE more than one person?
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
lifeisadream: It had taken me sometime to understand that life is not white and black Jac but I would not want to have something that I have not worked for.

For the attempt of kidney donation of yours I hope everything works well for the other person.

Yes, he got a cadaverous donation and has a new lease of life.

Thank you for asking.

If life is not black and white, perhaps 'working for something' does not have to be a direct exchange of 'value' between two parties? The recipient of a cadaverous organ has done nothing (hopefully!) to receive the gift directly from the donor, just as many people may give, or receive from the world, society, or their community in all manner of direct, or indirect exchanges.

Bear in mind, some people may receive in excess of their needs for a few hours business dealings a week, whilst many do not receive enough to meet their needs for 60 hours a week clearing up other people's excrement.
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Jun 2, 2013 2:15 PM CST Can a Man/Woman LOVE more than one person?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
I could only drive one man at a time crazy.laugh
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Jun 2, 2013 5:14 PM CST Can a Man/Woman LOVE more than one person?
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
BB_snickers: ...
I think wisdom can be genderless, though many mistake wisdom for knowledge.


Wisdom is genderless BB.


BB_snickers: ..Intelligent submissives are a breed above and that really has nothing to do with gender. it has to do with wisdom, genetics, traits, and self awareness within a relationship, among other things.


If intelligent submissiveness is a bredd above, does it include men, women, gays,..???

typing


BB_snickers: ...So, I think 'if' I were a woman, knowing what I know, then wisdom would have me carrying the banner, leading the parade to raise awareness. If you let me?


Only if you shave your legs!



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Jun 2, 2013 5:24 PM CST Can a Man/Woman LOVE more than one person?
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
jac379: Yes, he got a cadaverous donation and has a new lease of life.

Thank you for asking.



I am glad for him and the people around him!

cheering

jac379: ..If life is not black and white, perhaps 'working for something' does not have to be a direct exchange of 'value' between two parties? The recipient of a cadaverous organ has done nothing (hopefully!) to receive the gift directly from the donor, just as many people may give, or receive from the world, society, or their community in all manner of direct, or indirect exchanges.

Bear in mind, some people may receive in excess of their needs for a few hours business dealings a week, whilst many do not receive enough to meet their needs for 60 hours a week clearing up other people's excrement.


People rich or poor they are people, they do have feelings, they both struggle in one way or another.

"Bear in mind, some people may receive in excess of their needs for a few hours business dealings a week, whilst many do not receive enough to meet their needs for 60 hours a week clearing up other people's excrement."

Taking part to one side is to ignore the other.
And why is not the other way around?

If we exchange the people in the groups? they will continue being people.


bouquet
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Jun 2, 2013 5:28 PM CST Can a Man/Woman LOVE more than one person?
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
galrads: I'm a one woman man. Pretty simple life.


ok!

wine

Ccincy: I could only drive one man at a time, crazy.






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Jun 2, 2013 6:43 PM CST Can a Man/Woman LOVE more than one person?
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
I can't and I don't want to. wink
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Jun 2, 2013 7:11 PM CST Can a Man/Woman LOVE more than one person?
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
KNenagh: I can't and I don't want to.

Question aswered.


wine
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Jun 5, 2013 8:24 PM CST Can a Man/Woman LOVE more than one person?
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
lifeisadream:
People rich or poor they are people, they do have feelings, they both struggle in one way or another.

jac379: ….
Bear in mind, some people may receive in excess of their needs for a few hours business dealings a week, whilst many do not receive enough to meet their needs for 60 hours a week clearing up other people's excrement.


Taking part to one side is to ignore the other.
And why is not the other way around?

If we exchange the people in the groups? they will continue being people.



HiJacking my own thread

Many years ago we used to live in a rural town because it was convenient for our children; there they did attend a private Catholic school. In that school children from families that were wealthy, middle class and poor they did mix and got along just as any other population of children.

The children from poor families could attend that school on scholarships because it is required by law that private schools must offer scholarships to the 10 % of its students.

A particular wealthy family “X” had its children attending that private Catholic school, they were farmers and also did the agricultural commodities exchange on a local, regional and national level.

While living in that rural town I was working in Agricultural Research on one side and I did start a small adventure –with a few partners- for growing peaches on a commercial way. In doing so, a few times a week I had to get some workers and take them to the orchard before going to my research work at 8 am. Around 6 am I would be at the gas station and so were the children (middle school age) of that particular wealthy family before they went to school.

While my children were sleeping, the children of this wealthy family had to work – getting the diesel for the tractors in some barrels on their trucks- and going to one or two of their ranches before going to school (middle school). Yes, they had already a driver’s license in which it required to have their parents’ permission for driving.

After some years……

One of the children of the wealthy family got kidnapped.
The family paid the money and they got back their son.

Later on….
Two of the children of that particular wealthy family got kidnapped
Again, the family paid the money -once more big money-.

They got their children back....................but in bags.

What did you said about struggle?

sad flower
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Jun 6, 2013 2:40 AM CST Can a Man/Woman LOVE more than one person?
lalasierra
lalasierralalasierralos angeles, California USA147 Threads 67 Polls 935 Posts
lifeisadream: Can a Man/Woman love more than one person?
With the love than involves passion and love making!Any comments are welcome and please feel free to reply to any comment.


Personally, it's never happened to me thank goodness!doh
I do believe it is possible.

heart wings
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Jun 6, 2013 2:31 PM CST Can a Man/Woman LOVE more than one person?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Of course! I want to love BIG and many times! teddybear
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Jun 6, 2013 2:34 PM CST Can a Man/Woman LOVE more than one person?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Besides, thats subjective. I love so many people in so many different ways. My kids for example. I believe soul-mates come in many forms and we certainly encounter more than one. I also think people come into our lives for a reason, a season, or a lifetime and there are lessons to each. Its important to be open to it because love requires courage.

At the end of our lives, its the love we have created that matters most. heart wings
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Jun 6, 2013 3:42 PM CST Can a Man/Woman LOVE more than one person?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Bump grin
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Jun 6, 2013 3:54 PM CST Can a Man/Woman LOVE more than one person?
jasmine64
jasmine64jasmine64Itty Bitty, Nebraska USA2 Threads 30 Posts
galrads: I'm a one woman man. Pretty simple life.




thumbs up Loving one person in a relationship is all I need, besides myself of course wink
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Jun 6, 2013 3:56 PM CST Can a Man/Woman LOVE more than one person?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Life you always start the most interesting threads! thumbs up bouquet
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Jun 6, 2013 7:08 PM CST Can a Man/Woman LOVE more than one person?
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
Thanks to all for the replies




teddybear
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Jun 6, 2013 7:10 PM CST Can a Man/Woman LOVE more than one person?
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
venusenvy: Life you always start the most interesting threads!


Thank you Venusy!




hmmm


I should get paid for it!


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Jun 6, 2013 7:50 PM CST Can a Man/Woman LOVE more than one person?
janie1305
janie1305janie1305Southampton, Hampshire, England UK16 Threads 916 Posts
Yes I think it's possible for some people. We have to accept that there are no "norms" in relationships nowadays, however much the loving male and female union who go on to produce children has been drummed into us as the "ideal" relationship.
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Jun 6, 2013 7:55 PM CST Can a Man/Woman LOVE more than one person?
BB_snickers
BB_snickersBB_snickersNarnia, Ontario Canada56 Threads 3,755 Posts
janie1305: Yes I think it's possible for some people. We have to accept that there are no "norms" in relationships nowadays, however much the loving male and female union who go on to produce children has been drummed into us as the "ideal" relationship.


Could you love two drummers? peace
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Jun 6, 2013 8:03 PM CST Can a Man/Woman LOVE more than one person?
janie1305
janie1305janie1305Southampton, Hampshire, England UK16 Threads 916 Posts
BB_snickers: Could you love two drummers?



Hmmmmm interesting but on second thoughts no, too similar, could be boring, perhaps a drummer and a guitarist? I'm trying to think harmonious thoughts. laugh wave
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Jun 6, 2013 8:10 PM CST Can a Man/Woman LOVE more than one person?
BB_snickers
BB_snickersBB_snickersNarnia, Ontario Canada56 Threads 3,755 Posts
janie1305: Hmmmmm interesting but on second thoughts no, too similar, could be boring, perhaps a drummer and a guitarist? I'm trying to think harmonious thoughts.


Symphonic love? Everyone playing their part in bnatural. grin
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