When your partner gains weight. ( Archived) (143)

Aug 16, 2013 9:22 PM CST When your partner gains weight.
purr4mance
purr4mancepurr4manceCleveland, Ohio USA4,825 Posts
When your partner gains weight.



give them an ultimatum
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Aug 16, 2013 9:27 PM CST When your partner gains weight.
montemonte
montemontemontemonteunknown, New Jersey USA114 Threads 4 Polls 5,631 Posts
purr4mance: When your partner gains weight.
give them an ultimatum



And what would that ultimatum be?


Certain people don't do well with ultimatums.
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Aug 16, 2013 9:32 PM CST When your partner gains weight.
purr4mance
purr4mancepurr4manceCleveland, Ohio USA4,825 Posts
montemonte: And what would that ultimatum be?Certain people don't do well with ultimatums.



you're paying attention

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Aug 16, 2013 9:33 PM CST When your partner gains weight.
montemonte
montemontemontemonteunknown, New Jersey USA114 Threads 4 Polls 5,631 Posts
purr4mance: you're paying attention



No, I'm stalking you tongue
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Aug 16, 2013 9:34 PM CST When your partner gains weight.
purr4mance
purr4mancepurr4manceCleveland, Ohio USA4,825 Posts
montemonte: No, I'm stalking you



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Aug 18, 2013 12:10 AM CST When your partner gains weight.
lalasierra: When your partner gains weight and it has gotten to the point where you are starting to get turned off by it, do you mention it to him/her?

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Would you want your partner to bring it to your attention that you've gained weight and it has become unattractive to him? Could you handle the truth?

nice thread,nd some r there who just love hearts and nt looksgrin
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Aug 18, 2013 12:13 AM CST When your partner gains weight.
lalasierra
lalasierralalasierralos angeles, California USA147 Threads 67 Polls 935 Posts
Thank you.

I believe what you mentioned is called unconditional love. heart beating
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Aug 18, 2013 12:14 AM CST When your partner gains weight.
Jillll: Do you think the partner who has gained wait is really unaware of the problem?
cheers handshake
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Aug 18, 2013 12:15 AM CST When your partner gains weight.
lalasierra: Thank you.

I believe what you mentioned is called unconditional love.

love should be always be unconditionalprofessor
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Aug 18, 2013 12:18 AM CST When your partner gains weight.
Trade her in for a newer fitter model.
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Aug 18, 2013 12:18 AM CST When your partner gains weight.
lalasierra
lalasierralalasierralos angeles, California USA147 Threads 67 Polls 935 Posts
shubhrank: love should be always be unconditional


Yes, you are right but we are only human and we sometimes fail to be what we should. :(
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Aug 18, 2013 12:20 AM CST When your partner gains weight.
lalasierra
lalasierralalasierralos angeles, California USA147 Threads 67 Polls 935 Posts
MADDOG69: Trade her in for a newer fitter model.


wave

You are so bad!

doh

laugh
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Aug 18, 2013 12:20 AM CST When your partner gains weight.
lalasierra: You are so bad!
wave Terrible I am.
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Aug 18, 2013 12:25 AM CST When your partner gains weight.
lalasierra: Yes, you are right but we are only human and we sometimes fail to be what we should. :(

dear there r many examples near us ,which make sure that w r the same as others who hd nt failed in understanding nd r happy with the true unconditional love,one of my friend who live in jakarta meet a women who was 86kg at an age of 23 with a 5'2'',nd they r happy,nd everyday i watch them on street ,going for movies,coffee shop enjoying with each other..
thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up
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Aug 18, 2013 12:29 AM CST When your partner gains weight.
lalasierra
lalasierralalasierralos angeles, California USA147 Threads 67 Polls 935 Posts
shubhrank: dear there r many examples near us ,which make sure that w r the same as others who hd nt failed in understanding nd r happy with the true unconditional love,one of my friend who live in jakarta meet a women who was 86kg at an age of 23 with a 5'2'',nd they r happy,nd everyday i watch them on street ,going for movies,coffee shop enjoying with each other..


Good to hearthumbs up .
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Aug 18, 2013 12:34 AM CST When your partner gains weight.
shubhrank: dear there r many examples near us ,which make sure that w r the same as others who hd nt failed in understanding nd r happy with the true unconditional love,one of my friend who live in jakarta meet a women who was 86kg at an age of 23 with a 5'2'',nd they r happy,nd everyday i watch them on street ,going for movies,coffee shop enjoying with each other..

How did you know she was 86kg? Did he tell you? That's a big weight for that height.
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Aug 18, 2013 1:02 AM CST When your partner gains weight.
talphysics
talphysicstalphysicsQAWRA, Majjistral Malta1 Threads 11 Posts
That would mean a RED light in my books...I would firstly explain that FAT
is unhealthy...give her a chance t0 fix her problem...tell her again...
give her a second chance..allow months if needs be....then the third time
ask her to gather her stuff and leave hahahahahahaa!!!!!!!!!!
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Aug 18, 2013 1:09 AM CST When your partner gains weight.
lalasierra: Yes, you are right but we are only human and we sometimes fail to be what we should. :(


You mean fit or phat.. laugh


wine


"It is true that we are weak and sick and ugly and quarrelsome but if that is all we ever were, we would millenniums ago have disappeared from the face of the earth." ~John Steinbeck
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Aug 18, 2013 1:11 AM CST When your partner gains weight.
Katherine_in_Sg
Katherine_in_SgKatherine_in_SgSingapore, Central Singapore Singapore6 Threads 2 Polls 36 Posts
lalasierra: When your partner gains weight and it has gotten to the point where you are starting to get turned off by it, do you mention it to him/her?

AND

Would you want your partner to bring it to your attention that you've gained weight and it has become unattractive to him? Could you handle the truth?



Tell him/her the truth. Invite him/her to exercise/sports. Better u tell him thatn it comes from other people. As for myself, i gained so much weight here and family and friends were telling me im fat. Now I lost a total of 22lbs.
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Aug 18, 2013 1:11 AM CST When your partner gains weight.
lalasierra
lalasierralalasierralos angeles, California USA147 Threads 67 Polls 935 Posts
bohemianjack: You mean fit or phat.. "It is true that we are weak and sick and ugly and quarrelsome but if that is all we ever were, we would millenniums ago have disappeared from the face of the earth." ~John Steinbeck


doh
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