lalasierra: When your partner gains weight and it has gotten to the point where you are starting to get turned off by it, do you mention it to him/her?
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Would you want your partner to bring it to your attention that you've gained weight and it has become unattractive to him? Could you handle the truth?
nice thread,nd some r there who just love hearts and nt looks
lalasierra: Yes, you are right but we are only human and we sometimes fail to be what we should. :(
dear there r many examples near us ,which make sure that w r the same as others who hd nt failed in understanding nd r happy with the true unconditional love,one of my friend who live in jakarta meet a women who was 86kg at an age of 23 with a 5'2'',nd they r happy,nd everyday i watch them on street ,going for movies,coffee shop enjoying with each other..
shubhrank: dear there r many examples near us ,which make sure that w r the same as others who hd nt failed in understanding nd r happy with the true unconditional love,one of my friend who live in jakarta meet a women who was 86kg at an age of 23 with a 5'2'',nd they r happy,nd everyday i watch them on street ,going for movies,coffee shop enjoying with each other..
shubhrank: dear there r many examples near us ,which make sure that w r the same as others who hd nt failed in understanding nd r happy with the true unconditional love,one of my friend who live in jakarta meet a women who was 86kg at an age of 23 with a 5'2'',nd they r happy,nd everyday i watch them on street ,going for movies,coffee shop enjoying with each other..
How did you know she was 86kg? Did he tell you? That's a big weight for that height.
That would mean a RED light in my books...I would firstly explain that FAT is unhealthy...give her a chance t0 fix her problem...tell her again... give her a second chance..allow months if needs be....then the third time ask her to gather her stuff and leave hahahahahahaa!!!!!!!!!!
lalasierra: Yes, you are right but we are only human and we sometimes fail to be what we should. :(
You mean fit or phat..
"It is true that we are weak and sick and ugly and quarrelsome but if that is all we ever were, we would millenniums ago have disappeared from the face of the earth." ~John Steinbeck
Katherine_in_SgSingapore, Central Singapore Singapore36 posts
lalasierra: When your partner gains weight and it has gotten to the point where you are starting to get turned off by it, do you mention it to him/her?
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Would you want your partner to bring it to your attention that you've gained weight and it has become unattractive to him? Could you handle the truth?
Tell him/her the truth. Invite him/her to exercise/sports. Better u tell him thatn it comes from other people. As for myself, i gained so much weight here and family and friends were telling me im fat. Now I lost a total of 22lbs.
bohemianjack: You mean fit or phat.. "It is true that we are weak and sick and ugly and quarrelsome but if that is all we ever were, we would millenniums ago have disappeared from the face of the earth." ~John Steinbeck
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give them an ultimatum