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Aug 13, 2013 6:41 AM CST When your partner gains weight.
lalasierra
lalasierralalasierralos angeles, California USA147 Threads 67 Polls 935 Posts
When your partner gains weight and it has gotten to the point where you are starting to get turned off by it, do you mention it to him/her?

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Would you want your partner to bring it to your attention that you've gained weight and it has become unattractive to him? Could you handle the truth?
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Aug 13, 2013 6:49 AM CST When your partner gains weight.
NotMissTaken
NotMissTakenNotMissTakenunknown, Ar Riyad Saudi Arabia267 Posts
I've just have one mailer told me that I looked like I haven't had exercise in 2 months! Well he was right. Anyway, I always want people around to be honest, blunt or otherwise. It's always better than pondering.
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Aug 13, 2013 6:53 AM CST When your partner gains weight.
im a fat boy at the moment
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Aug 13, 2013 6:55 AM CST When your partner gains weight.
lalasierra
lalasierralalasierralos angeles, California USA147 Threads 67 Polls 935 Posts
NotMissTaken: I've just have one mailer told me that I looked like I haven't had exercise in 2 months! Well he was right. Anyway, I always want people around to be honest, blunt or otherwise. It's always better than pondering.


So would you be honest and tell your partner he has gained?

I want to be honest but I also don't want to hurt him and make him feel poorly about himself. At the same time, I must remain true to myself because I may soon find out I am no longer interested.shock giggle I don't mean to be shallow but....
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Aug 13, 2013 6:57 AM CST When your partner gains weight.
Jack68
Jack68Jack68faisalabad, Punjab Pakistan72 Threads 30 Polls 2,605 Posts
If my parner started gaining weight its mean she is pregnant nowlaugh grin rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Aug 13, 2013 6:57 AM CST When your partner gains weight.
lalasierra
lalasierralalasierralos angeles, California USA147 Threads 67 Polls 935 Posts
pedro27: im a fat boy at the moment


I have nothing against "fat' people or skinny people. You may be attraccted or not attracted to either. To each their own.
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Aug 13, 2013 6:57 AM CST When your partner gains weight.
Jillll
JillllJillllRancho Cucamonga, California USA3 Threads 1 Polls 1,390 Posts
Do you think the partner who has gained wait is really unaware of the problem?
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Aug 13, 2013 6:58 AM CST When your partner gains weight.
lalasierra
lalasierralalasierralos angeles, California USA147 Threads 67 Polls 935 Posts
Jack68: If my parner started gaining weight its mean she is pregnant now


That's cute.bouquet
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Aug 13, 2013 6:59 AM CST When your partner gains weight.
lalasierra: When your partner gains weight and it has gotten to the point where you are starting to get turned off by it, do you mention it to him/her?

Yes and long before it gets to that point.

lalasierra:
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Would you want your partner to bring it to your attention that you've gained weight and it has become unattractive to him? Could you handle the truth?

I'd like to be told beforehand. And when I did gain weight I was told in no uncertain terms. laugh
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Aug 13, 2013 6:59 AM CST When your partner gains weight.
lalasierra: I have nothing against "fat' people or skinny people. You may be attraccted or not attracted to either. To each their own.


one day i will be a skinny boy
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Aug 13, 2013 6:59 AM CST When your partner gains weight.
lalasierra
lalasierralalasierralos angeles, California USA147 Threads 67 Polls 935 Posts
Jillll: Do you think the partner who has gained wait is really unaware of the problem?


I know I'm always FULLY AWARE of each pound!
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Aug 13, 2013 7:01 AM CST When your partner gains weight.
lalasierra
lalasierralalasierralos angeles, California USA147 Threads 67 Polls 935 Posts
pedro27: one day i will be a skinny boy


You look very handsome in your picture. That's not a pick-up, just for the record, a simple compliment.
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Aug 13, 2013 7:01 AM CST When your partner gains weight.
Jillll
JillllJillllRancho Cucamonga, California USA3 Threads 1 Polls 1,390 Posts
lalasierra: I know I'm always FULLY AWARE of each pound!



Me too.
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Aug 13, 2013 7:02 AM CST When your partner gains weight.
lalasierra
lalasierralalasierralos angeles, California USA147 Threads 67 Polls 935 Posts
MADDOG69: Yes and long before it gets to that point.I'd like to be told beforehand. And when I did gain weight I was told in no uncertain terms.


It's all in the presentation.
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Aug 13, 2013 7:04 AM CST When your partner gains weight.
emerald888
emerald888emerald888wicklow, Wicklow Ireland2 Threads 1,054 Posts
lalasierra: When your partner gains weight and it has gotten to the point where you are starting to get turned off by it, do you mention it to him/her?

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Would you want your partner to bring it to your attention that you've gained weight and it has become unattractive to him? Could you handle the truth?


oh I think I knew myself when I put on weight, it didn't need to be pointed out to me. A man that cares will make activity time more interesting giggle that was always the fun part.
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Aug 13, 2013 7:04 AM CST When your partner gains weight.
lalasierra: You look very handsome in your picture. That's not a pick-up, just for the record, a simple compliment.


well thank you very much, that has brighten up my daycheers wine
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Aug 13, 2013 7:06 AM CST When your partner gains weight.
lalasierra
lalasierralalasierralos angeles, California USA147 Threads 67 Polls 935 Posts
emerald888: oh I think I knew myself when I put on weight, it didn't need to be pointed out to me. A man that cares will make activity time more interesting that was always the fun part.


cheering laugh
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Aug 13, 2013 7:07 AM CST When your partner gains weight.
lalasierra
lalasierralalasierralos angeles, California USA147 Threads 67 Polls 935 Posts
pedro27: well thank you very much, that has brighten up my day


Good, I'm glad!hug
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Aug 13, 2013 7:09 AM CST When your partner gains weight.
Merriweather
MerriweatherMerriweatherAdelaide, South Australia Australia51 Threads 11,403 Posts
lalasierra: When your partner gains weight and it has gotten to the point where you are starting to get turned off by it, do you mention it to him/her?

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Would you want your partner to bring it to your attention that you've gained weight and it has become unattractive to him? Could you handle the truth?
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Aug 13, 2013 7:09 AM CST When your partner gains weight.
Merriweather
MerriweatherMerriweatherAdelaide, South Australia Australia51 Threads 11,403 Posts
lalasierra: When your partner gains weight and it has gotten to the point where you are starting to get turned off by it, do you mention it to him/her?

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Would you want your partner to bring it to your attention that you've gained weight and it has become unattractive to him? Could you handle the truth?
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