We all love our children,but we cannot be subservient to them for the rest of our lives.We can only be sub servient to them,if medically required for the rest of their lives.
minnie50: widow..and the only relative my children have
janie1305: I don't think it would be wise at my age.
I want to add this, too: I really think that if one is able to move, then the one who just can't (like myself, for instance) for whatever reason, should be respected. In other words, if a man really fell in love with a woman (or man, if that's the case) and it was not problematic financially, etc...to make that move, then he should, if he really loves the other person. Otherwise, then I guess it's best to seek someone who can make the move, or someone near. Love's pretty strong, though, and sometimes people don't think they could possibly make a move, and they go ahead, and say later it was the best thing they've ever done. For instance, if I moved to Hawaii, I KNOW I'd be happy I did it, even though it seems like I don't want to move anywhere now. You never know until you try.
chris27292729: We all love our children,but we cannot be subservient to them for the rest of our lives.We can only be sub servient to them,if medically required for the rest of their lives.
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