That would be premature attachment and would leave you with plenty of regret. If its possible to meet in person sooner, then do so to determine if its just someone with good writing skills, fake photo and zero personality. Always have no expectations.
The first date can be nerve wrecking and lets you know if you're compatible. You agree to a second date just to be sure and the chemistry is not quite there but you love their personality. If after the third date you have no urge to kiss them, do you let them know there is no spark or do you give it time if they meet all the other qualities you're looking for?
It could also be a selfish move, to screw up your chance of having a good man. He leaves you in a state of confusion with his fake promises of change and reverts to the cycle of hot and cold behavior. Its best to move on and never look back no matter how difficult it is at first.
The so called 'good boys' tend to profess their love after 2 dates, date below their league, have premature attachment and once women know they have an upper hand, they treat them like doormats. On the other hand, women with low self-esteem will pursue the jerk that treats them like crap because he does not try too hard and has many silly girls fighting for his attention. So hang in there, be yourself and let the jerk have a black book with phone numbers of insecure girls while you get the good woman who wants a gentleman.
Bars are full of single people hoping to meet someone. Some argue men don't go to bars looking for a wife but I know of happily married couples that met in a bar. I think it depends on the type of bar, state of mind and person. A happy hour at a decent bar before 9pm has potential for good matches. Anything after 10pm with a lot of alcohol involved is tricky. Share your thoughts.
Perhaps its time to expand your dating pool. I don't think being Asian or Indian has anything to do with it. Its the qualities you're looking for and what you can or cannot tolerate.
You are in denial honey. He will NEVER leave his wife for you and he has other lovers besides you. You deserve better, life is too short to be an option and not a priority.
It becomes my business when I have to take care of people dealing with this epidemic. If they don't change their lifestyle they come to us, medical professionals for complications that come as a result. Your ignorance is appalling and a major hindrance to the solution.
I feel sad when the individual is not making an effort to Change his or her lifestyle. It also affects their loved ones and not to mention very expensive given the cormobidity that comes with it.
French extremity is the term given to French filmmakers for making very explicit movies. I was asking if society is being hypocritical for making a big deal out of the movies. Do you watch French movies?
Obesity is one of the leading preventable causes of death worldwide. It saddens me when I see or meet people who are morbidly obese and do nothing to change their lifestyle. Being in the medical field, I encounter them a lot and sometimes it makes me angry, sad watching their bodies suffer the consequence of obesity. What comes to your mind when you meet obese people?
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RE: Relocating
Personally it would a very lengthy decision. So many factors to consider besides being in love.