Why man always want your back, When you already made decision to walk away?? ( Archived) (60)

Aug 15, 2013 4:35 AM CST Why man always want your back, When you already made decision to walk away??
Annelise101
Annelise101Annelise101Oslo, Norway2 Threads 19 Posts
When you tried your best when you was in relationship , they destroyed it and was hurt you feeling.... When you walk away they trying to get you back? What they think they playing game???
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Aug 15, 2013 4:39 AM CST Why man always want your back, When you already made decision to walk away??
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,959 Posts
Annelise101: When you tried your best when you was in relationship , they destroyed it and was hurt you feeling.... When you walk away they trying to get you back? What they think they playing game???




It's an old saying but true that sometimes people don't know what they have until it's gone ...
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Aug 15, 2013 4:49 AM CST Why man always want your back, When you already made decision to walk away??
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
It's easier to stay with the familiar than to head out and have to do the whole "meeting someone" shebang for a lot of people. dunno

Applies to both genders IMO.
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Aug 15, 2013 4:52 AM CST Why man always want your back, When you already made decision to walk away??
Bogart_1960
Bogart_1960Bogart_1960Ask me !, Provence-Alpes-Cote d'Azur France36 Threads 1 Polls 10,012 Posts
sounds like acne scars...confused professor
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Aug 15, 2013 5:06 AM CST Why man always want your back, When you already made decision to walk away??
....look after number one.....I know..Serene...loves me.....so I have,nt got a problem..............grin rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing laugh
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Aug 15, 2013 5:08 AM CST Why man always want your back, When you already made decision to walk away??
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,959 Posts
truheart1941: ....look after number one.....I know..Serene...loves me.....so I have,nt got a problem..............






laugh hug
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Aug 15, 2013 5:11 AM CST Why man always want your back, When you already made decision to walk away??
james_31
james_31james_31Lisbon, Portugal2 Posts
a man is saying that so shameful , you must defend men
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Aug 15, 2013 5:12 AM CST Why man always want your back, When you already made decision to walk away??
tomboygirl2
tomboygirl2tomboygirl2Larnaca, Cyprus39 Posts
I think when a women walks away, men feel pain because their ego has been bruised, and because they feel pain, they think getting back together is the solution.
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Aug 15, 2013 5:16 AM CST Why man always want your back, When you already made decision to walk away??
tomboygirl2: I think when a women walks away, men feel pain because their ego has been bruised, and because they feel pain, they think getting back together is the solution.
....I think both feel pain....because it was not meant to be......jmo.
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Aug 15, 2013 5:56 AM CST Why man always want your back, When you already made decision to walk away??
Obstinance_Works
Obstinance_WorksObstinance_WorksManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 3,514 Posts
Annelise101: When you tried your best when you was in relationship , they destroyed it and was hurt you feeling.... When you walk away they trying to get you back? What they think they playing game???


He may have genuinely screwed up. In any case, how does a child respond when you take its toys away?.. This is basically the same thing. Anything that gives pleasure, even when it's taken for granted, will be sorely missed once removed.

However true this is for men it is doubly true for women. A woman can desire a man she doesn't even objectively fancy just because she can't obtain him. Like how a cat will lie with the string at its paws in complete disinterest, but begin to pull this string away and what happens? The cat goes nuts with possessiveness and trys to claw the string back. There's a reason why cats are considered to be feminine.
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Aug 15, 2013 5:59 AM CST Why man always want your back, When you already made decision to walk away??
AFoolsDream
AFoolsDreamAFoolsDreamHarleysville, Pennsylvania USA14 Posts
Annelise101: When you tried your best when you was in relationship , they destroyed it and was hurt you feeling.... When you walk away they trying to get you back? What they think they playing game???


First I am concerned about your grammar in writing and choice of words. You wrote your question like someone with a 4th grade level from the Ghetto of Brooklyn NY.
(My apologies for pointing that out.)

As for wanting to reconcile a broken relationship I tend to agree about the realization that one never sees the goodness in a relationship until it's gone. I suffer from that all the time.
I'm sure women do as well.
A rule to follow in the travels and matters of the heart and relationships. People come into our lives when we need them not when we want them. We come together for a time to learn a lesson of love and when they no longer can serve one another it's time to let go. If most people would see the value of any given relationship is measured by what they learned from it then not all is in vain or lost.
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Aug 15, 2013 6:14 AM CST Why man always want your back, When you already made decision to walk away??
AFoolsDream: First I am concerned about your grammar in writing and choice of words. You wrote your question like someone with a 4th grade level from the Ghetto of Brooklyn NY.
(My apologies for pointing that out.)

As for wanting to reconcile a broken relationship I tend to agree about the realization that one never sees the goodness in a relationship until it's gone. I suffer from that all the time.
I'm sure women do as well.
A rule to follow in the travels and matters of the heart and relationships. People come into our lives when we need them not when we want them. We come together for a time to learn a lesson of love and when they no longer can serve one another it's time to let go. If most people would see the value of any given relationship is measured by what they learned from it then not all is in vain or lost.


Is your command of Norwegian as good as her English? This is an international site and I applaud her English skills. thumbs up
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Aug 15, 2013 6:16 AM CST Why man always want your back, When you already made decision to walk away??
Adalstef
AdalstefAdalstefReykjavik, Northwest Iceland94 Threads 896 Posts
AFoolsDream: First I am concerned about your grammar in writing and choice of words. You wrote your question like someone with a 4th grade level from the Ghetto of Brooklyn NY.
(My apologies for pointing that out.)


As for wanting to reconcile a broken relationship I tend to agree about the realization that one never sees the goodness in a relationship until it's gone. I suffer from that all the time.
I'm sure women do as well.
A rule to follow in the travels and matters of the heart and relationships. People come into our lives when we need them not when we want them. We come together for a time to learn a lesson of love and when they no longer can serve one another it's time to let go. If most people would see the value of any given relationship is measured by what they learned from it then not all is in vain or lost.


dumba**, the girl is from Norway, so why would she write perfect english?
You are giving ignorant americans bad name here doh

Anyway, Im pretty sure her english is far better then your Norwegian
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Aug 15, 2013 6:27 AM CST Why man always want your back, When you already made decision to walk away??
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
AFoolsDream: First I am concerned about your grammar in writing and choice of words. You wrote your question like someone with a 4th grade level from the Ghetto of Brooklyn NY.
(My apologies for pointing that out.)

As for wanting to reconcile a broken relationship I tend to agree about the realization that one never sees the goodness in a relationship until it's gone. I suffer from that all the time.
I'm sure women do as well.
A rule to follow in the travels and matters of the heart and relationships. People come into our lives when we need them not when we want them. We come together for a time to learn a lesson of love and when they no longer can serve one another it's time to let go. If most people would see the value of any given relationship is measured by what they learned from it then not all is in vain or lost.




I think the OP has done a pretty good job with writing this thread topic.Give them a break already.
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Aug 15, 2013 6:33 AM CST Why man always want your back, When you already made decision to walk away??
lushguy4you
lushguy4youlushguy4youIstanbul, Marmara Turkey44 Threads 3,004 Posts
Obstinance_Works: He may have genuinely screwed up. In any case, how does a child respond when you take its toys away?.. This is basically the same thing. Anything that gives pleasure, even when it's taken for granted, will be sorely missed once removed.

However true this is for men it is doubly true for women. A woman can desire a man she doesn't even objectively fancy just because she can't obtain him. Like how a cat will lie with the string at its paws in complete disinterest, but begin to pull this string away and what happens? The cat goes nuts with possessiveness and trys to claw the string back. There's a reason why cats are considered to be feminine.


totally agree
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Aug 15, 2013 6:37 AM CST Why man always want your back, When you already made decision to walk away??
lushguy4you
lushguy4youlushguy4youIstanbul, Marmara Turkey44 Threads 3,004 Posts
First I am concerned about your grammar in writing and choice of words. You wrote your question like someone with a 4th grade level from the Ghetto of Brooklyn NY.
(My apologies for pointing that out.)

You wont be going to the Ghetto Of Brooklyn by any chance.

I think you have forgotten this is a international dating site and her use of english is ok. People understand the question.

Never mind if you were to reply in Norwegian i am sure your grammar would be questionable. JMO
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Aug 15, 2013 7:02 AM CST Why man always want your back, When you already made decision to walk away??
Annelise101
Annelise101Annelise101Oslo, Norway2 Threads 19 Posts
serene56: It's an old saying but true that sometimes people don't know what they have until it's gone ...


I agree... When we was together every times he not well , he always come to me...
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Aug 15, 2013 7:05 AM CST Why man always want your back, When you already made decision to walk away??
Annelise101
Annelise101Annelise101Oslo, Norway2 Threads 19 Posts
tomboygirl2: I think when a women walks away, men feel pain because their ego has been bruised, and because they feel pain, they think getting back together is the solution.


I think so as well...
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Aug 15, 2013 7:06 AM CST Why man always want your back, When you already made decision to walk away??
Dedovix
DedovixDedovixBig Place, Central Serbia Serbia12 Threads 1 Polls 5,492 Posts
Annelise101: When you tried your best when you was in relationship , they destroyed it and was hurt you feeling.... When you walk away they trying to get you back? What they think they playing game???

Maybe you havent washed the dishes
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Aug 15, 2013 7:07 AM CST Why man always want your back, When you already made decision to walk away??
Annelise101: When you tried your best when you was in relationship , they destroyed it and was hurt you feeling.... When you walk away they trying to get you back? What they think they playing game???


It's the dance of life. and not all relationships are like this and there are a million reasons why 2 people play this game.

However, it take 2 people to play this game - if you walk away it doesn't matter what they try - why would you entertain the idea of taking him back?
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