When you tried your best when you was in relationship , they destroyed it and was hurt you feeling.... When you walk away they trying to get you back? What they think they playing game???
Annelise101: When you tried your best when you was in relationship , they destroyed it and was hurt you feeling.... When you walk away they trying to get you back? What they think they playing game???
It's an old saying but true that sometimes people don't know what they have until it's gone ...
I think when a women walks away, men feel pain because their ego has been bruised, and because they feel pain, they think getting back together is the solution.
tomboygirl2: I think when a women walks away, men feel pain because their ego has been bruised, and because they feel pain, they think getting back together is the solution.
....I think both feel pain....because it was not meant to be......jmo.
Annelise101: When you tried your best when you was in relationship , they destroyed it and was hurt you feeling.... When you walk away they trying to get you back? What they think they playing game???
He may have genuinely screwed up. In any case, how does a child respond when you take its toys away?.. This is basically the same thing. Anything that gives pleasure, even when it's taken for granted, will be sorely missed once removed.
However true this is for men it is doubly true for women. A woman can desire a man she doesn't even objectively fancy just because she can't obtain him. Like how a cat will lie with the string at its paws in complete disinterest, but begin to pull this string away and what happens? The cat goes nuts with possessiveness and trys to claw the string back. There's a reason why cats are considered to be feminine.
Annelise101: When you tried your best when you was in relationship , they destroyed it and was hurt you feeling.... When you walk away they trying to get you back? What they think they playing game???
First I am concerned about your grammar in writing and choice of words. You wrote your question like someone with a 4th grade level from the Ghetto of Brooklyn NY. (My apologies for pointing that out.)
As for wanting to reconcile a broken relationship I tend to agree about the realization that one never sees the goodness in a relationship until it's gone. I suffer from that all the time. I'm sure women do as well. A rule to follow in the travels and matters of the heart and relationships. People come into our lives when we need them not when we want them. We come together for a time to learn a lesson of love and when they no longer can serve one another it's time to let go. If most people would see the value of any given relationship is measured by what they learned from it then not all is in vain or lost.
AFoolsDream: First I am concerned about your grammar in writing and choice of words. You wrote your question like someone with a 4th grade level from the Ghetto of Brooklyn NY. (My apologies for pointing that out.)
As for wanting to reconcile a broken relationship I tend to agree about the realization that one never sees the goodness in a relationship until it's gone. I suffer from that all the time. I'm sure women do as well. A rule to follow in the travels and matters of the heart and relationships. People come into our lives when we need them not when we want them. We come together for a time to learn a lesson of love and when they no longer can serve one another it's time to let go. If most people would see the value of any given relationship is measured by what they learned from it then not all is in vain or lost.
Is your command of Norwegian as good as her English? This is an international site and I applaud her English skills.
AFoolsDream: First I am concerned about your grammar in writing and choice of words. You wrote your question like someone with a 4th grade level from the Ghetto of Brooklyn NY. (My apologies for pointing that out.)
As for wanting to reconcile a broken relationship I tend to agree about the realization that one never sees the goodness in a relationship until it's gone. I suffer from that all the time. I'm sure women do as well. A rule to follow in the travels and matters of the heart and relationships. People come into our lives when we need them not when we want them. We come together for a time to learn a lesson of love and when they no longer can serve one another it's time to let go. If most people would see the value of any given relationship is measured by what they learned from it then not all is in vain or lost.
dumba**, the girl is from Norway, so why would she write perfect english? You are giving ignorant americans bad name here
Anyway, Im pretty sure her english is far better then your Norwegian
AFoolsDream: First I am concerned about your grammar in writing and choice of words. You wrote your question like someone with a 4th grade level from the Ghetto of Brooklyn NY. (My apologies for pointing that out.)
As for wanting to reconcile a broken relationship I tend to agree about the realization that one never sees the goodness in a relationship until it's gone. I suffer from that all the time. I'm sure women do as well. A rule to follow in the travels and matters of the heart and relationships. People come into our lives when we need them not when we want them. We come together for a time to learn a lesson of love and when they no longer can serve one another it's time to let go. If most people would see the value of any given relationship is measured by what they learned from it then not all is in vain or lost.
I think the OP has done a pretty good job with writing this thread topic.Give them a break already.
Obstinance_Works: He may have genuinely screwed up. In any case, how does a child respond when you take its toys away?.. This is basically the same thing. Anything that gives pleasure, even when it's taken for granted, will be sorely missed once removed.
However true this is for men it is doubly true for women. A woman can desire a man she doesn't even objectively fancy just because she can't obtain him. Like how a cat will lie with the string at its paws in complete disinterest, but begin to pull this string away and what happens? The cat goes nuts with possessiveness and trys to claw the string back. There's a reason why cats are considered to be feminine.
First I am concerned about your grammar in writing and choice of words. You wrote your question like someone with a 4th grade level from the Ghetto of Brooklyn NY. (My apologies for pointing that out.)
You wont be going to the Ghetto Of Brooklyn by any chance.
I think you have forgotten this is a international dating site and her use of english is ok. People understand the question.
Never mind if you were to reply in Norwegian i am sure your grammar would be questionable. JMO
tomboygirl2: I think when a women walks away, men feel pain because their ego has been bruised, and because they feel pain, they think getting back together is the solution.
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Annelise101: When you tried your best when you was in relationship , they destroyed it and was hurt you feeling.... When you walk away they trying to get you back? What they think they playing game???
Annelise101: When you tried your best when you was in relationship , they destroyed it and was hurt you feeling.... When you walk away they trying to get you back? What they think they playing game???
It's the dance of life. and not all relationships are like this and there are a million reasons why 2 people play this game.
However, it take 2 people to play this game - if you walk away it doesn't matter what they try - why would you entertain the idea of taking him back?
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