If I had a BoyFriend I would commit myself to an asylum. The real old ones where they use electrical shock therapy and talk very strange like they did in the 60's! LOL/Serious!
Okay, lets see lets say my girlfriend cheated on me if she slept with another guy ,that would be in a way devastating and yeah it would probably mean the end of our relationship, but if she s slept with a girl ..now thats something worth thinking of...
jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK12,293 posts
Boban1: Okay, lets see lets say my girlfriend cheated on me if she slept with another guy ,that would be in a way devastating and yeah it would probably mean the end of our relationship, but if she s slept with a girl ..now thats something worth thinking of...
a. Ever met a Dude who wouldn`t fall for two chicks making out ??? b . chances to end up with two women in the bedroom are rapidly increasing. c. from two evils I choose the lesser d.when you catch your girlfriend with another Women in bed, its much easier to beat up her lover ...
Keep in mind that when a man cheats it's more likely to be a "screw up". He's not necessarily turned his back on his love for her, although she may consider the betrayal to be unforgivable.
It's not like when a woman cheats on a man as she's almost certainly attempting to "trade up" and no longer has any love for the man she cheated on.
Furthermore, a strong argument could be made in the moral calculus that trading up is more evil than screwing up.
And besides, people do what they want to do and not what they should do. There's a difference. Even(especially?)the Feminist-hard will make excuses for the cheating caddish thug if that's what she wants. The hmaster, which is fluffier and stronger in the female, can rationalise near anything if it enables that person to get their own way/remain in their comfort zone/ignore reality.
Yes, in a heartbeat. I have and I will. My health and trust are of great importance to me. I will not continue placing my health and trust in the hands of someone who does not give them the same amount of importance.
if my boyfriend was pursuing a relationship outside of the We (which i think has to happen in order for ya both to have your clothes off together..) rather than finding solutions within the We, it would suggest to me that he was no longer committed. i would be disappointed that he did not have the respect for me, or the integrity to leave the relationship first, but would remind myself that we're all doing our best in every moment. but i'm not sure i would be able to trust him again...so..yes, i would leave.
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if your boyfriend slept with someone else would you break up with him???(Vote Below)