WHY????? (18)

Does that mean everybody there is bananas?

Why go to Moncton? We might as well just stay at CS... It is amazing what happens "behind" the scenes

Yes I agree. Honesty is the most important part of a relationship. But maybe he was hanging on to the other just to be sure. It is hard to trust when you have been hurt. Lying and cheating are just not acceptable behaviour. Sounds to me like this happens alot ... the guy I am sort of seeing right just got over a relationship with a real psycho. She lied to him about EVERYthing. She wanted him so bad and she got him, them hurt him in more ways then you could even begin to imagine. I hope all works out and just watch yourslef, there are alot of nasty people out there...kwim?

it is sad you feel this way. I would disagree that all men are freaking dishonest. I would suspect each side of our gender positions would have diametrically opposing origins for any discourse inevitable occurring within a relationship. I do agree with you that honesty is a necessary foundation for any relationship, followed closely by communication; and not the mind reading kind. At least he showed his true colors early off. Ask yourself ...Is he really worth the frustration, if he did this to her, he could have done the smae to you.

Cathy,

I'd caveat the post with "why couldn't THIS one individual tell you the truth about HIS personal situation? I am sure that you can also get some of my male compadres that will tell you a similar tale involving a dishonest female.

Not all men are like that. One bad apple in the basket doesn't mean the whole basket is rotten - you just weed out the bad apple out.

I'd say that most of us value the same things you do in a partner: honesty, loyalty and compassion. That would include that once you are dating, you are "exclusive".

To me, this means that I won't go after someone knowning that I am emotionally attached to someone (honesty) and that the subject of my attention is the only one I care for (loyalty).

I would think that the above would apply to anyone involved in a relashionship, regardless of gender.

I would also offer to you - if it is any consolation that it is that ONE individual's loss he missed out on someone like you


From snow-covered North Bay,

Sylvain sends

oh no you just didn't say that
tell me you just didn't say that


Why can't a freaking man just be honest???
that is like a man saying Why can't a freaking woman just be honest???


just because some man are dishonest and some woman is dishonest does not mean all of them are.you cannot judge one by what someone else does.it is not fair to the rest of us

boys relax...she was venting! and she did mention she did not mean to offend anyone...

I know Tracy and there was no harm intended... btw Tracy ever found out if it was just a prank a student made or something?

i agree with SleepingDragon. Not all men are dishonest.

i would never see more than one woman at a time.

dont give up on men in general. There are good ones but there are lots of players and users too. Just have to screen them and be patient. Good things come with time i believe.