money ( Archived) (56)

Dec 14, 2013 2:41 PM CST money
skippyguy
skippyguyskippyguyAshburton, Canterbury New Zealand26 Threads 3,825 Posts
LadyDiz: I love it when my partner or date insist on paying. Not because I can't pay for myself, because trust me, I can, but because it means they wish to show their appreciation and respect for me. And I will enjoy spoiling them in other ways, like little gifts for no special reason or buying him that tool kit he's been eyeing out. It's all give and take in a relationship...at least that's how it should be.


It should always be give and take ! :), i like to pay when im out...though i get alot of vibes these days ..with independent woman...
that they wish to pay their own, which is ok, just leaves a guy caught
in the future as to who does, and who doesn't want to pay...i had a lady once who went to the counter before date had even started ahead of me and ordered and said straight away,..can i pay now, i offered but was like no..no.., but its good to see some stil appreciate :)
------ This thread is Archived ------
Dec 14, 2013 2:42 PM CST money
LoriJames20: It's a known fact that at this time and age most men and women are equals financially but at times men should be men and women should be women..........just saying!
.....a good comment.....Lori.........thumbs up thumbs up
------ This thread is Archived ------
Dec 14, 2013 3:33 PM CST money
LadyDiz
LadyDizLadyDizJohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa1,320 Posts
skippyguy: It should always be give and take ! :), i like to pay when im out...though i get alot of vibes these days ..with independent woman...
that they wish to pay their own, which is ok, just leaves a guy caught
in the future as to who does, and who doesn't want to pay...i had a lady once who went to the counter before date had even started ahead of me and ordered and said straight away,..can i pay now, i offered but was like no..no.., but its good to see some stil appreciate :)


It is confusing for both. If on a date with someone for the first or second time, I wait for him to take the bill then I'll offer to pay my share - cos nowadays some men do expect the woman to pay her half - and wait for his reaction. Sadly 9 out of 10 times they accept my money. In fact the last date I went on I landed up paying the entire bill as he felt that having driven some distance to meet me was enough of an expense already! mumbling
------ This thread is Archived ------
Dec 14, 2013 3:39 PM CST money
skippyguy
skippyguyskippyguyAshburton, Canterbury New Zealand26 Threads 3,825 Posts
LadyDiz: It is confusing for both. If on a date with someone for the first or second time, I wait for him to take the bill then I'll offer to pay my share - cos nowadays some men do expect the woman to pay her half - and wait for his reaction. Sadly 9 out of 10 times they accept my money. In fact the last date I went on I landed up paying the entire bill as he felt that having driven some distance to meet me was enough of an expense already!


wow wow doh ..Really ! i met a woman halfway once at a Coffee shop, we only had coffee, so wasn't a biggie, but i would not have minded paying, ME as a guy just gets alittle confused , as woman seem to
have alot of dif views on that...some based on commitment, or commitment to a second date even..lol
------ This thread is Archived ------
Dec 14, 2013 3:54 PM CST money
rebel2
rebel2rebel2Alicante, Valencia Spain8 Threads 6,354 Posts
There is no way i would expect my date to pay for anything.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Dec 14, 2013 3:56 PM CST money
LadyDiz
LadyDizLadyDizJohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa1,320 Posts
rebel2: There is no way i would expect my date to pay for anything.


You have no idea how rare you are these days. bouquet
------ This thread is Archived ------
Dec 14, 2013 3:57 PM CST money
rebel2
rebel2rebel2Alicante, Valencia Spain8 Threads 6,354 Posts
LadyDiz: You have no idea how rare you are these days.
blushing teddybear
------ This thread is Archived ------
Dec 14, 2013 6:32 PM CST money
sean187
sean187sean187mcon, Georgia USA1 Threads 3 Posts
It seems there more women on these sites that rather brag about their career and tell guys not to talk to them if they dont meet their picky standards.sad but true.im out of work but that's not going to stop me from trying to make friends,ect.good luck my friend.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Dec 14, 2013 8:55 PM CST money
Jack68
Jack68Jack68faisalabad, Punjab Pakistan72 Threads 30 Polls 2,605 Posts
rodneybeck: Why do woman on datimg sites say that they want.a long term relationship and then before u know it is all they want is money and my answer to that would be get a dam job
For such scammers the right job is bl.w joblaugh rolling on the floor laughing head banger
------ This thread is Archived ------
Dec 15, 2013 8:46 AM CST money
Happygolucky4u
Happygolucky4uHappygolucky4uTreasure Coast, Florida USA25 Threads 4 Polls 6,241 Posts
rodneybeck: Why do woman on datimg sites say that they want.a long term relationship and then before u know it is all they want is money and my answer to that would be get a dam job
Why would you ever think all they want is money?
------ This thread is Archived ------
Dec 15, 2013 9:30 AM CST money
equiya
equiyaequiyaunknown, Ontario Canada2 Threads 4,055 Posts
rodneybeck: Why do woman on datimg sites say that they want.a long term relationship and then before u know it is all they want is money and my answer to that would be get a dam job



...... or go play the lottery .......
------ This thread is Archived ------
Dec 17, 2013 10:36 PM CST money
KauriMan
KauriManKauriManChristchurch, Canterbury New Zealand8 Threads 1 Polls 815 Posts
rebel2: Buy



Is it your shout Reb? cheers rolling on the floor laughing
------ This thread is Archived ------
Dec 17, 2013 10:42 PM CST money
search2014
search2014search2014Turin, Piedmont Italy9 Threads 4 Polls 83 Posts
rodneybeck: Why do woman on datimg sites say that they want.a long term relationship and then before u know it is all they want is money and my answer to that would be get a dam job


I heard people has stopped living in caves and women wants to be sure, that the man doesn't depend only on hunting rolling on the floor laughing tongue grin
------ This thread is Archived ------
Dec 17, 2013 10:52 PM CST money
abcWOMAN
abcWOMANabcWOMANLuleå, Norrbotten Sweden20 Threads 2 Polls 1,583 Posts
Delatude: Your profile is very interesting.

What long term? Looking for: Intimate Encounter

You must attract the scammers like a magnet with a profile like that.

Reading this bring to mind someone who is looking for a FWB or a quicky, but it should be free.

Maybe she should also pay you for the pleasure of your company.

Try to be serious, will you.




CS is getting interesting!laugh popcorn popcorn
------ This thread is Archived ------
Dec 18, 2013 12:28 AM CST money
Upon seeing the thread title, I was expecting to get a chance of listening to a Pink Floyd tune via YouTube. blues
------ This thread is Archived ------
Dec 18, 2013 12:33 AM CST money
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
YouMeUs: Upon seeing the thread title, I was expecting to get a chance of listening to a Pink Floyd tune via YouTube.


I think everyone has gone back to bed for an hour, where I will be going soon.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Post Comment - Post a comment on this Forum Thread

This Thread is Archived

This Thread is archived, so you will no longer be able to post to it. Threads get archived automatically when they are older than 3 months.

« Go back to All Threads
Message #318

Share this Thread

We use cookies to ensure that you have the best experience possible on our website. Read Our Privacy Policy Here