Antjo39: I have always been interested in the following thing happening here: someone saying that she is open-minded, here to talk and learn from people blah blah... but...it is always about the looks when they decide to answer, otherwise... forget it. I mean, there is nothting wrong with that. In the end, attraction between two human beings is defined mostly by the looks. The only interesting (and bizarre) thing is that some people think that is wrong therefore they try hard to disguise their instincts. And instincts are the most marvelous thing we have.
This leaves me with so many questions There have been men I have found physically extremely attractive yet something in their behavior keeps me from feeling that extra umph feeling. The feeling that will allow me not to just look but to want. I really believe beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. Some woman are attracted to power....therefor what I might see as an old over worked tired doctor another might see as an Adonis. I once thought I had fallen for a mans words. Met him and he was extremely handsome. Sadly there were other differences that I knew would not fair well with me. I think in the end attraction is a combination of things. Mostly just chemistry. When you think about it how many animals (and yes humans are animals) do you see approach another when wanting to mate and look her or him in the face? It is usually the odor that attracts them first. Chemistry
Oh almost forgot I have mailed those without pics. Sooner or later you want a pic tho. Not for the decision but to give you a face to associate with whom you are emailing. It gets to the point of feeling like you are emailing the winds. You do need some sort of visual connection. It is just an email not a promise of love or marriage. A saying of hello I would like to know you. That is why I answer.
rebel2: I rely heavily on my instincts and my experience, and so far so good.
I see you are right here with me. Free and single. Maybe we should throw caution to the wind? If we are both here in twenty years lets give each other a whirl
I don't know what is wrong with me people. I just ain't right!
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