exoticasianOPvaasa, Western Finland Finland16 posts
Need advice please or openion...don't really know if I'm already moving on ,on my 15 yrs of marriage .because I have this mixed emotion....:( .its been two years but still hoping for something from my x as he is the father of my two good looking boys.he is always there when I need him the most,we're friends but what's holding me on ! Please advice thanks and merry Christmas .
exoticasian: Need advice please or openion...don't really know if I'm already moving on ,on my 15 yrs of marriage .because I have this mixed emotion....:( .its been two years but still hoping for something from my x as he is the father of my two good looking boys.he is always there when I need him the most,we're friends but what's holding me on ! Please advice thanks and merry Christmas .
What are you doing here on a dating site, if you don't want to let your ex go?
You have two boys, which means you have lived long enough in Finland to know which city you're living in!
Next time you're making a profile, make sure you're placing the city in the right county!
Vaasa is on the West coast and you've chosen the Eastern county (neighbour county of Russia)! There's only 5 counties in Finland and not that hard to pick the wrong one!
abcWOMAN: What are you doing here on a dating site, if you don't want to let your ex go?
You have two boys, which means you have lived long enough in Finland to know which city you're living in!
Next time you're making a profile, make sure you're placing the city in the right county!
Vaasa is on the West coast and you've chosen the Eastern county (neighbour county of Russia)! There's only 5 counties in Finland and not that hard to pick the wrong one!
search2014: That must be helping exoticasian relationship
Perhaps I stumbled into things that mismatched! (I've seen too much of that. Well, I know I shouldn't care, since after all this is an International dating site and people are free to "live" wherever they want to!)
I guess I've been here for too long time! Perhaps it's time for me to "move" on now.
exoticasian: Need advice please or openion...don't really know if I'm already moving on ,on my 15 yrs of marriage .because I have this mixed emotion....:( .its been two years but still hoping for something from my x as he is the father of my two good looking boys.he is always there when I need him the most,we're friends but what's holding me on ! Please advice thanks and merry Christmas .
abcWOMAN: Perhaps I stumbled into things that mismatched! (I've seen too much of that. Well, I know I shouldn't care, since after all this is an International dating site and people are free to "live" wherever they want to!)
I guess I've been here for too long time! Perhaps it's time for me to "move" on now.
haha It has been only two weeks I am into online dating so yeahh, may be I still need to get my way into virtual world. thanks for the heads up :)) but I won't be rude to people even if I dont care them!
exoticasian: Need advice please or openion...don't really know if I'm already moving on ,on my 15 yrs of marriage .because I have this mixed emotion....:( .its been two years but still hoping for something from my x as he is the father of my two good looking boys.he is always there when I need him the most,we're friends but what's holding me on ! Please advice thanks and merry Christmas .
It didn't felt too pleasant to be attacked the other day! After all, this is an international dating site and you don't expect that kind of posts on a dating site!
Life is a lot more interesting than that!
I've been here since 2009 but I've had enough now. Swedes are more nicer to me! I felt like this is just a dating site for a certain group of people!
hmm NOT surprised, why are you still single after this much experience and writing in your introduction.. Q. Why do women get periods? A. Because they deserve them!
search2014: hmm NOT surprised, why are you still single after this much experience and writing in your introduction.. Q. Why do women get periods? A. Because they deserve them!
Great sense of humor pal !
I bet it works better than your profile. Some women do actually have a sense of humour.
Mei82686Cimahi, Bandung, West Java Indonesia22 posts
In response to: Need advice please or openion...don't really know if I'm already moving on ,on my 15 yrs of marriage .because I have this mixed emotion....:( .its been two years but still hoping for something from my x as he is the father of my two good looking boys.he is always there when I need him the most,we're friends but what's holding me on ! Please advice thanks and merry Christmas .
I'm agree with rizlared
In my opinion, you can not keep stay and stuck with your last marriage, life must goes on. You have 2 lovely sons that need to be raised and taken care. Do whatever you could for them. Make them proud of you. Focus on your job, get a better position on it,that will be a good healing and solution for your situation now. Someday, when you think you are ready for a further relationship, then you may try it on.
rizlared: So guilty until proven innocent, great ideology.
I would rather see the good in a person until they say or do something that positively shows they are truly false, than suspect every person is false and miss the chance to gain a good friend.
But I guess it works for you
well there you go , would you fell better if CS came on deck and pointed out inaccuracies ? I sure would like the site to play a active role .
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