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Dec 14, 2013 5:32 PM CST This is it!
exoticasian
exoticasianexoticasianvaasa, Western Finland Finland3 Threads 16 Posts
Need advice please or openion...don't really know if I'm already moving on ,on my 15 yrs of marriage .because I have this mixed emotion....:( .its been two years but still hoping for something from my x as he is the father of my two good looking boys.he is always there when I need him the most,we're friends but what's holding me on ! Please advice thanks and merry Christmas .
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Dec 15, 2013 12:03 AM CST This is it!
abcWOMAN
abcWOMANabcWOMANLuleå, Norrbotten Sweden20 Threads 2 Polls 1,583 Posts
exoticasian: Need advice please or openion...don't really know if I'm already moving on ,on my 15 yrs of marriage .because I have this mixed emotion....:( .its been two years but still hoping for something from my x as he is the father of my two good looking boys.he is always there when I need him the most,we're friends but what's holding me on ! Please advice thanks and merry Christmas .



What are you doing here on a dating site, if you don't want to let your ex go?

You have two boys, which means you have lived long enough in Finland to know which city you're living in!dunno

Next time you're making a profile, make sure you're placing the city in the right county!laugh

Vaasa is on the West coast and you've chosen the Eastern county (neighbour county of Russia)! There's only 5 counties in Finland and not that hard to pick the wrong one! confused
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Dec 15, 2013 12:17 AM CST This is it!
search2014
search2014search2014Turin, Piedmont Italy9 Threads 4 Polls 83 Posts
abcWOMAN: What are you doing here on a dating site, if you don't want to let your ex go?

You have two boys, which means you have lived long enough in Finland to know which city you're living in!

Next time you're making a profile, make sure you're placing the city in the right county!

Vaasa is on the West coast and you've chosen the Eastern county (neighbour county of Russia)! There's only 5 counties in Finland and not that hard to pick the wrong one!


That must be helping exoticasian relationship thumbs up rolling on the floor laughing
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Dec 15, 2013 12:28 AM CST This is it!
abcWOMAN
abcWOMANabcWOMANLuleå, Norrbotten Sweden20 Threads 2 Polls 1,583 Posts
search2014: That must be helping exoticasian relationship
thumbs up wink laugh


Perhaps I stumbled into things that mismatched! laugh
(I've seen too much of that. Well, I know I shouldn't care, since after all this is an International dating site and people are free to "live" wherever they want to!wink)

I guess I've been here for too long time!laugh
Perhaps it's time for me to "move" on now.


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Dec 15, 2013 12:30 AM CST This is it!
abcWOMAN
abcWOMANabcWOMANLuleå, Norrbotten Sweden20 Threads 2 Polls 1,583 Posts
exoticasian: Need advice please or openion...don't really know if I'm already moving on ,on my 15 yrs of marriage .because I have this mixed emotion....:( .its been two years but still hoping for something from my x as he is the father of my two good looking boys.he is always there when I need him the most,we're friends but what's holding me on ! Please advice thanks and merry Christmas .



Sorry and welcome to CS!handshake


cswelcome
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Dec 15, 2013 12:30 AM CST This is it!
abcWOMAN:
I guess I've been here for too long time!
Perhaps it's time for me to "move" on now.

No please don't. grin grin
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Dec 15, 2013 12:34 AM CST This is it!
search2014
search2014search2014Turin, Piedmont Italy9 Threads 4 Polls 83 Posts
abcWOMAN: Perhaps I stumbled into things that mismatched!
(I've seen too much of that. Well, I know I shouldn't care, since after all this is an International dating site and people are free to "live" wherever they want to!)

I guess I've been here for too long time!
Perhaps it's time for me to "move" on now.


haha It has been only two weeks I am into online dating so yeahh, may be I still need to get my way into virtual world. laugh thanks for the heads up :)) but I won't be rude to people even if I dont care them! peace
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Dec 15, 2013 12:34 AM CST This is it!
exoticasian: Need advice please or openion...don't really know if I'm already moving on ,on my 15 yrs of marriage .because I have this mixed emotion....:( .its been two years but still hoping for something from my x as he is the father of my two good looking boys.he is always there when I need him the most,we're friends but what's holding me on ! Please advice thanks and merry Christmas .


"
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian "


thumbs up Sure thing.
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Dec 15, 2013 12:38 AM CST This is it!
abcWOMAN
abcWOMANabcWOMANLuleå, Norrbotten Sweden20 Threads 2 Polls 1,583 Posts
MADDOG69: No please don't.



Why shouldn't I?

It didn't felt too pleasant to be attacked the other day!
After all, this is an international dating site and you don't expect that kind of posts on a dating site!

Life is a lot more interesting than that!

I've been here since 2009 but I've had enough now.
Swedes are more nicer to me!
I felt like this is just a dating site for a certain group of people!

grin
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Dec 15, 2013 12:38 AM CST This is it!
search2014
search2014search2014Turin, Piedmont Italy9 Threads 4 Polls 83 Posts
MADDOG69: "
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian "

Sure thing.



She came for advice and seems like men aren't nice to give free advice to White/Caucasian Asian women!
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Dec 15, 2013 12:38 AM CST This is it!
search2014
search2014search2014Turin, Piedmont Italy9 Threads 4 Polls 83 Posts
MADDOG69: "
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian "

Sure thing.



She came for advice and seems like men aren't nice to give free advice to White/Caucasian Asian women!
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Dec 15, 2013 12:50 AM CST This is it!
search2014: not surprised, why your username is MADDOG69

Not surprised you had to ask the Profile Review section why women said you were a creep. grin grin



grin grin popcorn
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Dec 15, 2013 12:54 AM CST This is it!
search2014
search2014search2014Turin, Piedmont Italy9 Threads 4 Polls 83 Posts
MADDOG69: Not surprised you had to ask the Profile Review section why women said you were a creep.



hmm NOT surprised, why are you still single after this much experience and writing in your introduction..
Q. Why do women get periods?
A. Because they deserve them!


Great sense of humor pal !rolling on the floor laughing professor
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Dec 15, 2013 12:57 AM CST This is it!
search2014: hmm NOT surprised, why are you still single after this much experience and writing in your introduction..
Q. Why do women get periods?
A. Because they deserve them!

Great sense of humor pal !

I bet it works better than your profile. Some women do actually have a sense of humour.

No ones called me a creep, that's for sure.

Creepy! grin grin
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Dec 15, 2013 12:58 AM CST This is it!
search2014
search2014search2014Turin, Piedmont Italy9 Threads 4 Polls 83 Posts
MADDOG69: I bet it works better than your profile. Some women do actually have a sense of humour.

No ones called me a creep, that's for sure.

Creepy!


I have heard many women like dogs..dont you think they are nice to you because of your cool username? dunno
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Dec 15, 2013 12:59 AM CST This is it!
search2014
search2014search2014Turin, Piedmont Italy9 Threads 4 Polls 83 Posts
search2014: I have heard many women like dogs..dont you think they are nice to you because of your cool username?



wait noo..may be you are one of them in human shape devil
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Dec 15, 2013 1:03 AM CST This is it!
search2014: wait noo..may be you are one of them in human shape


dancing dog
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Dec 15, 2013 1:35 AM CST This is it!
Leo_7
Leo_7Leo_7Baku, Azerbaijan87 Threads 16 Polls 2,514 Posts
search2014: wait noo..may be you are one of them in human shape
u see mate, dogs deserve more respect than most humans.grin
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Dec 15, 2013 2:05 AM CST This is it!
Mei82686
Mei82686Mei82686Cimahi, Bandung, West Java Indonesia2 Threads 22 Posts
In response to: Need advice please or openion...don't really know if I'm already moving on ,on my 15 yrs of marriage .because I have this mixed emotion....:( .its been two years but still hoping for something from my x as he is the father of my two good looking boys.he is always there when I need him the most,we're friends but what's holding me on ! Please advice thanks and merry Christmas .


I'm agree with rizlaredthumbs up

In my opinion, you can not keep stay and stuck with your last marriage, life must goes on. You have 2 lovely sons that need to be raised and taken care. Do whatever you could for them. Make them proud of you. Focus on your job, get a better position on it,that will be a good healing and solution for your situation now.
Someday, when you think you are ready for a further relationship, then you may try it on.

Good luck for you.teddybear
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Dec 15, 2013 2:42 AM CST This is it!
epirb
epirbepirbDannevirke, Hawke's Bay New Zealand32 Threads 2 Polls 7,379 Posts
rizlared: So guilty until proven innocent, great ideology.

I would rather see the good in a person until they say or do something that positively shows they are truly false, than suspect every person is false and miss the chance to gain a good friend.

But I guess it works for you
well there you go , would you fell better if CS came on deck and pointed out inaccuracies ? I sure would like the site to play a active role .
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