Nidifugous: Exactly and I thank you for your honesty.
I spent time in some poor countries and I have been approached in person. Men will make a deal with the wife to divorce so they can marry the foreign woman, then when the time is right, divorce the woman and then remarry the first wife. This happens many times. The wives stick their head in the sand and just agree.
Nidifugous: Exactly and I thank you for your honesty.
I spent time in some poor countries and I have been approached in person. Men will make a deal with the wife to divorce so they can marry the foreign woman, then when the time is right, divorce the woman and then remarry the first wife. This happens many times. The wives stick their head in the sand and just agree.
yes this happens a lot more often than people realize. my neighbour's girlfriend found out the hardway when she married some foreign student here 5 years ago.
Nidifugous: ... and the irony of it all is that life isn't necessarily better or easier here, but the media do a hell of a job to portray it as if it were.
LadyLori: I belong to a few different dating sites. I am 51 years old, and am truly perplexed by the number of young men who contact me for a date! I am preferring someone closer to my own age, however, the average age range of those who contact me is: 38-47. Do you think many are caught up with the "cougar" fantasy, or do you think they desire a more mature woman, thinking there will be less drama, more focus, maturity?
*(In my defense, I was married for 30 years and A LOT has changed from the dating world I knew as a girl of 17!!)*
I hope to get some insight, opinions & thoughts from you all. Thank you!
do you think because a lot of men lie about their age and they are not 38 - 47 but add 5 to 10 years to that. I know my friend on another dating site, when she met them they were a "little bit" older than they put in their profile.
JeanKimberley: do you think because a lot of men lie about their age and they are not 38 - 47 but add 5 to 10 years to that. I know my friend on another dating site, when she met them they were a "little bit" older than they put in their profile.
Oh, I'm sure many do...probably some ladies too!! However, I was thinking the other way! A lot of the "younger" men who contact me look far older than the age they have on their profiles!! If they aren't lying, then they sure lived fast/hard lives! One guy who asked me out, (profile showed 44 years old), looked older than me!! I guess we all just need to be careful/picky with our choices!
danieljoshtelford, West Midlands, England UK1,364 posts
LadyLori: I belong to a few different dating sites. I am 51 years old, and am truly perplexed by the number of young men who contact me for a date! I am preferring someone closer to my own age, however, the average age range of those who contact me is: 38-47. Do you think many are caught up with the "cougar" fantasy, or do you think they desire a more mature woman, thinking there will be less drama, more focus, maturity?
*(In my defense, I was married for 30 years and A LOT has changed from the dating world I knew as a girl of 17!!)*
I hope to get some insight, opinions & thoughts from you all. Thank you!
can totally understand the dating seeming different after being in a long relationship reading your profile and looking at your nice pics the reason you may be attracting younger men is 1/ you look younger than you are 2/ you seem to have a younger outlook on life don't see why you shouldn't go with the flow as long as your careful and happy about things good luck
danieljosh: can totally understand the dating seeming different after being in a long relationship reading your profile and looking at your nice pics the reason you may be attracting younger men is 1/ you look younger than you are 2/ you seem to have a younger outlook on life don't see why you shouldn't go with the flow as long as your careful and happy about things good luck
Well, thank you very much-how nice of you to say and perhaps I do need to take your advice, and just go with the flow!
LadyLori: I belong to a few different dating sites. I am 51 years old, and am truly perplexed by the number of young men who contact me for a date! I am preferring someone closer to my own age, however, the average age range of those who contact me is: 38-47. Do you think many are caught up with the "cougar" fantasy, or do you think they desire a more mature woman, thinking there will be less drama, more focus, maturity?
*(In my defense, I was married for 30 years and A LOT has changed from the dating world I knew as a girl of 17!!)*
I hope to get some insight, opinions & thoughts from you all. Thank you!
It's because older women storm these sites and they are all they see, pushed to have no choice really. TOugh to find women our age,it seldom happens
Mrinal12: It's because older women storm these sites and they are all they see, pushed to have no choice really. TOugh to find women our age,it seldom happens
Seriously, I would not think, it has to with age.... Uh I checked out your profile, Girlfriend, You are beautiful. Like seriously, You do not see that.... Come on... PEACE HH
Mrinal12: It's because older women storm these sites and they are all they see, pushed to have no choice really. TOugh to find women our age,it seldom happens
Storm?! Gosh,something needs to be done. Can't have all this storming going on when it frightens the wee ones.
heatherhuntsman: Seriously, I would not think, it has to with age.... Uh I checked out your profile, Girlfriend, You are beautiful. Like seriously, You do not see that.... Come on... PEACE HH
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I spent time in some poor countries and I have been approached in person. Men will make a deal with the wife to divorce so they can marry the foreign woman, then when the time is right, divorce the woman and then remarry the first wife. This happens many times. The wives stick their head in the sand and just agree.
Thanks