SO many young men attracted to older women! ( Archived) (147)

May 31, 2014 3:52 AM CST SO many young men attracted to older women!
Smiles_afr
Smiles_afrSmiles_afrAL Wakrah, Al Wakrah Qatar5 Posts
Nidifugous: Exactly and I thank you for your honesty.

I spent time in some poor countries and I have been approached in person. Men will make a deal with the wife to divorce so they can marry the foreign woman, then when the time is right, divorce the woman and then remarry the first wife. This happens many times. The wives stick their head in the sand and just agree.



Thanks
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May 31, 2014 4:33 AM CST SO many young men attracted to older women!
equiya
equiyaequiyaunknown, Ontario Canada2 Threads 4,055 Posts
Nidifugous: Exactly and I thank you for your honesty.

I spent time in some poor countries and I have been approached in person. Men will make a deal with the wife to divorce so they can marry the foreign woman, then when the time is right, divorce the woman and then remarry the first wife. This happens many times. The wives stick their head in the sand and just agree.


yes this happens a lot more often than people realize. my neighbour's girlfriend found out the hardway when she married some foreign student here 5 years ago.
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May 31, 2014 5:06 AM CST SO many young men attracted to older women!
equiya
equiyaequiyaunknown, Ontario Canada2 Threads 4,055 Posts
Nidifugous: ... and the irony of it all is that life isn't necessarily better or easier here, but the media do a hell of a job to portray it as if it were.


AMEN
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May 31, 2014 5:14 AM CST SO many young men attracted to older women!
LadyLori: I belong to a few different dating sites. I am 51 years old, and am truly perplexed by the number of young men who contact me for a date!
I am preferring someone closer to my own age, however, the average age range of those who contact me is: 38-47.
Do you think many are caught up with the "cougar" fantasy, or do you think they desire a more mature woman, thinking there will be less drama, more focus, maturity?

*(In my defense, I was married for 30 years and A LOT has changed from the dating world I knew as a girl of 17!!)*

I hope to get some insight, opinions & thoughts from you all.
Thank you!


do you think because a lot of men lie about their age and they are not 38 - 47 but add 5 to 10 years to that. I know my friend on another dating site, when she met them they were a "little bit" older than they put in their profile.
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May 31, 2014 6:56 AM CST SO many young men attracted to older women!
JeanKimberley: do you think because a lot of men lie about their age and they are not 38 - 47 but add 5 to 10 years to that. I know my friend on another dating site, when she met them they were a "little bit" older than they put in their profile.


Oh, I'm sure many do...probably some ladies too!! However, I was thinking the other way! A lot of the "younger" men who contact me look far older than the age they have on their profiles!! If they aren't lying, then they sure lived fast/hard lives! One guy who asked me out, (profile showed 44 years old), looked older than me!!
I guess we all just need to be careful/picky with our choices!
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May 31, 2014 7:26 AM CST SO many young men attracted to older women!
danieljosh
danieljoshdanieljoshtelford, West Midlands, England UK21 Threads 1 Polls 1,364 Posts
LadyLori: I belong to a few different dating sites. I am 51 years old, and am truly perplexed by the number of young men who contact me for a date!
I am preferring someone closer to my own age, however, the average age range of those who contact me is: 38-47.
Do you think many are caught up with the "cougar" fantasy, or do you think they desire a more mature woman, thinking there will be less drama, more focus, maturity?

*(In my defense, I was married for 30 years and A LOT has changed from the dating world I knew as a girl of 17!!)*

I hope to get some insight, opinions & thoughts from you all.
Thank you!



can totally understand the dating seeming different after being in a long relationship
reading your profile and looking at your nice pics the reason you may be attracting younger men is
1/ you look younger than you are
2/ you seem to have a younger outlook on life
don't see why you shouldn't go with the flow as long as your careful and happy about things good luck bouquet
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May 31, 2014 12:08 PM CST SO many young men attracted to older women!
danieljosh: can totally understand the dating seeming different after being in a long relationship
reading your profile and looking at your nice pics the reason you may be attracting younger men is
1/ you look younger than you are
2/ you seem to have a younger outlook on life
don't see why you shouldn't go with the flow as long as your careful and happy about things good luck


Well, thank you very much-how nice of you to say and perhaps I do need to take your advice, and just go with the flow!
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Jun 2, 2014 12:13 PM CST SO many young men attracted to older women!
Mrinal12
Mrinal12Mrinal12Fairfax, Virginia USA3 Threads 1 Polls 6 Posts
LadyLori: I belong to a few different dating sites. I am 51 years old, and am truly perplexed by the number of young men who contact me for a date!
I am preferring someone closer to my own age, however, the average age range of those who contact me is: 38-47.
Do you think many are caught up with the "cougar" fantasy, or do you think they desire a more mature woman, thinking there will be less drama, more focus, maturity?

*(In my defense, I was married for 30 years and A LOT has changed from the dating world I knew as a girl of 17!!)*

I hope to get some insight, opinions & thoughts from you all.
Thank you!



It's because older women storm these sites and they are all they see, pushed to have no choice really. TOugh to find women our age,it seldom happens
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Jun 2, 2014 12:17 PM CST SO many young men attracted to older women!
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
I'm trying very hard not to storm.
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Jun 2, 2014 12:19 PM CST SO many young men attracted to older women!
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
Mrinal12: It's because older women storm these sites and they are all they see, pushed to have no choice really. TOugh to find women our age,it seldom happens


Oh really? Who told you that? laugh
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Jun 2, 2014 12:20 PM CST SO many young men attracted to older women!
uptall
uptalluptallQuiet village..., Durham, England UK57 Threads 1 Polls 12,860 Posts
jac379: I'm trying very hard not to storm.


Yeah I can see it, it's in your eyes ..

laugh
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Jun 2, 2014 12:21 PM CST SO many young men attracted to older women!
uptall
uptalluptallQuiet village..., Durham, England UK57 Threads 1 Polls 12,860 Posts
unlaoised: Oh really? Who told you that?



It wasn't medunno
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Jun 2, 2014 12:22 PM CST SO many young men attracted to older women!
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
uptall: It wasn't me


I'm sure not, you're better informed laugh
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Jun 2, 2014 12:25 PM CST SO many young men attracted to older women!
uptall
uptalluptallQuiet village..., Durham, England UK57 Threads 1 Polls 12,860 Posts
unlaoised: I'm sure not, you're better informed


I don't know the man either..mumbling did he say it was meuh oh


laugh
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Jun 2, 2014 12:31 PM CST SO many young men attracted to older women!
Seriously, I would not think, it has to with age.... Uh I checked out your profile, Girlfriend, You are beautiful. Like seriously, You do not see that.... Come on... PEACE HH
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Jun 2, 2014 12:32 PM CST SO many young men attracted to older women!
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
uptall: I don't know the man either.. did he say it was me


Dunno, waiting for a response dunno
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Jun 2, 2014 12:36 PM CST SO many young men attracted to older women!
uptall
uptalluptallQuiet village..., Durham, England UK57 Threads 1 Polls 12,860 Posts
unlaoised: Dunno, waiting for a response



What, no response? I get one as soon as I touch it ..giggle





laugh
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Jun 2, 2014 12:37 PM CST SO many young men attracted to older women!
LadyDiz2
LadyDiz2LadyDiz2Jhb, Gauteng South Africa1,740 Posts
Mrinal12: It's because older women storm these sites and they are all they see, pushed to have no choice really. TOugh to find women our age,it seldom happens


Storm?! shock Gosh,something needs to be done. Can't have all this storming going on when it frightens the wee ones. professor laugh
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Jun 2, 2014 8:35 PM CST SO many young men attracted to older women!
heatherhuntsman: Seriously, I would not think, it has to with age.... Uh I checked out your profile, Girlfriend, You are beautiful. Like seriously, You do not see that.... Come on... PEACE HH


You're very sweet and right back at you! wave
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Jun 3, 2014 6:17 AM CST SO many young men attracted to older women!
epicure
epicureepicureAlanya/Antalya, Mediterranean Turkey401 Threads 10 Polls 5,224 Posts
Is it really ATTRACTED to?
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