peachmelba: Yes I think that too,,,in America they have loads meets in a week ,meet them a second time if they like some then choose which one they like when they dated them all,god it would exhaust me,lol ,nite Emmy,what's for us won't pass us by, lol. . ,
Sweet dreams,
Yes peach, pains me to say it. We do need to think like the yanks when it comes to dating. Nighty
peachmelba: You know what Emmy I felt good after telling him no,,,,,go for a a spin in the car yea haha,
Went on his motorbike last year,,we were supposed to go on the bike yesterday but the weather wasn't good,,,,, I was just going to go on the bike with him drop in for a glass of orange and say have to be going home now but I know I wouldn't have and then I'd be sorry I went with him in the first place,,so now I'm glad I said no today, .
I would rather be alone, than be the wrong person because I'm lonely.
Good for you, given him alot to think about. Go asleep
peachmelba: Then when I say to him you only want to go for a drive for a snog and the rest he says ah no it's not like that,, I say what is it like then because every time I do meet up with you it leads to that ,,,he says you know I love meeting up with you,,I don't want any girlfriend I say don't flatter yourself,,okay he says I won't text you anymore then,then I say well there no need to be like that its okay to txt me to say helo,,,because I have known him a long time,,he says I don't mean to upset you,I tell him no you don't upset me,,,have a good evening I say,,he says yes you too txt you another time and leaves loads kisses,. .
Don't hang onto something like that peach.
I prefer meeting someone when I'm out and about, be open, have a friendly smile and make someone's day with a compliment, smile or cheeky comment - I mean males and females here. Make chatting and laughing with someone simply a habit then you are not stuck when you stand in front of someone interesting.
Yesterday I got stuck with some people on a show in a small tent, just chatted with someone next to me and well, let's just say it worked.
See what works for you - not only which type of guy you like, but also how to simply meet people to increase your pool to choose from.
I prefer meeting someone when I'm out and about, be open, have a friendly smile and make someone's day with a compliment, smile or cheeky comment - I mean males and females here. Make chatting and laughing with someone simply a habit then you are not stuck when you stand in front of someone interesting.
Yesterday I got stuck with some people on a show in a small tent, just chatted with someone next to me and well, let's just say it worked.
See what works for you - not only which type of guy you like, but also how to simply meet people to increase your pool to choose from.[/quote
Thanks KN, Yes I've known him for a long time and his ex wife used to go to the same school as me and his son was actually in my daughters class,,,.its all good he is a nice man he is a paramedic one of the best in his field,,,I do like him alot but I've stepped back as in I asked him not to text me anymore,,,he will understand the reason why not,,he lives close by and there is one thing for certain that if like now I've given him a clear message not to txt he won't he respect that so now he not getting mixed messages from me,,like no I don't want to meet up and then yes lets go for a Ryde on your bike and meet up for chat,,,so at least now ive given a clear message and he will respect that,,,..yes thanks KN.. I do get out to chat to people on a friendly basis and on here too,it's just that I've drawn a line with this one for meeting up with but I've known him ages its just we can't be just platonic friends so I'm leaving it.
peachmelba: Don't hang onto something like that peach.
I prefer meeting someone when I'm out and about, be open, have a friendly smile and make someone's day with a compliment, smile or cheeky comment - I mean males and females here. Make chatting and laughing with someone simply a habit then you are not stuck when you stand in front of someone interesting.
Yesterday I got stuck with some people on a show in a small tent, just chatted with someone next to me and well, let's just say it worked.
See what works for you - not only which type of guy you like, but also how to simply meet people to increase your pool to choose from.[/quote
Thanks KN, Yes I've known him for a long time and his ex wife used to go to the same school as me and his son was actually in my daughters class,,,.its all good he is a nice man he is a paramedic one of the best in his field,,,I do like him alot but I've stepped back as in I asked him not to text me anymore,,,he will understand the reason why not,,he lives close by and there is one thing for certain that if like now I've given him a clear message not to txt he won't he respect that so now he not getting mixed messages from me,,like no I don't want to meet up and then yes lets go for a Ryde on your bike and meet up for chat,,,so at least now ive given a clear message and he will respect that,,,..yes thanks KN.. I do get out to chat to people on a friendly basis and on here too,it's just that I've drawn a line with this one for meeting up with but I've known him ages its just we can't be just platonic friends so I'm leaving it.
It just sounds messy peach, good for you to decide what to do about it. I have a good few male friends, just never having anything going on there keeps the thing fairly simple.
BerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand4,733 posts
peachmelba: Well I have to say good on you ,, .. Felt right at the time,.......more than one double the work, More than one double the pleasure,,,.haha,...just joking, Yes the love of one good man means more...thankyou for sharing that . . ..have an awsume day berry smooth.
You're welcome.
I have no regrets with it. Experienced it.
A loving man is what I would like now.....on all levels....not just the physical.
peachmelba: Did you wake up then Leo and realise it was just a dream or maybe you were in a surreal dream like Tom cruise in vanilla sky,......lol.....no I believe you,,I wouldn't blame you for leaving bet that hubby of hers put you off your burger,,and just when you thought you get off with your language teacher she had to invite her boyfriend too,, was too good to be true for you,poor Leo.
why would i be dreaming?i m sure this kind of things happenned to many ok looking young men.those offers r nothing to me.i had much better things in my life.just a felt sharing the experience cos it stayed in my memory as an odd offers .but now i regret sharing it,when someone would think that i could make up such a losy story.
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Sweet dreams,
Yes peach, pains me to say it. We do need to think like the yanks when it comes to dating. Nighty