peachmelba: So md you never played spin the bottle again, Good chap.
Well there was 1 or 2 2fm + 1me with the same characters over a very short space of time. lol I wrote about it here ages ago. It ended in disaster. Broken friendship, muted Houseshares etc. In hindsight, a very bitter-sweet experience.
MADDOG69: Well there was 1 or 2 2fm + 1me with the same characters over a very short space of time. lol I wrote about it here ages ago. It ended in disaster. Broken friendship, muted Houseshares etc. In hindsight, a very bitter-sweet experience.
Like a lemon sherbet sweet or a lemon dipped in sugar ,it's a nice combination tho.,,love and hate is the same thing I think.
peachmelba: Like a lemon sherbet sweet or a lemon dipped in sugar ,it's a nice combination tho.,,love and hate is the same thing I think.
Complex twisted thwarted on the outside but sweet in the middle like a luxury chocolate you just have to enjoy the whole experience to appreciate it in its entirety .
The only way that would interest me would be if the guys were into each other also, other than that it would be to much work and not enough pleasure :)
peachmelba: Ah that's lovely KNenagh .. I had that for a long time with my ex hubby ,,but atlas moved on now so as he,,that door on us is well and truely closed and ebpven when we both decided to split up we made that decision there and then and was no going back.time gives us space to heal and grow,,,some people have the chance a second time round some do not but I have loved and loved deeply so I've had that experience and now I'm content in myself and what will be be will be or not to be.
That happened with me and my ex-wife Peachmelba the Love turned to hate,that thin line,thankfully we both have moved on now, I've met someone really nice just lately(3 months).I never thought i would be so lucky again. Contentment in yourself is the first step back or it was for me anyway.I think you may find the same. I'm sure you might find the same
peachmelba: Ah that's lovely KNenagh .. I had that for a long time with my ex hubby ,,but atlas moved on now so as he,,that door on us is well and truely closed and ebpven when we both decided to split up we made that decision there and then and was no going back.time gives us space to heal and grow,,,some people have the chance a second time round some do not but I have loved and loved deeply so I've had that experience and now I'm content in myself and what will be be will be or not to be.
I would never go back, too. It takes time to get over it, but there is only one way to go.
Having had something like that, it does show when you don't "have it" with someone new and it is a factor in deciding if you want to continue something or just pack it in. I would never compare guys as everyone is different, but I can compare my own level of happiness I have when I'm with someone (same goes for the guy I'm sure).
Jaymack: That happened with me and my ex-wife Peachmelba the Love turned to hate,that thin line,thankfully we both have moved on now, I've met someone really nice just lately(3 months).I never thought i would be so lucky again. Contentment in yourself is the first step back or it was for me anyway.I think you may find the same. I'm sure you might find the same
I'm really pleased for you jaymack Did it happen for you when you least expected it thats usually the way and when one is more relaxed in themself ,the flow of energy is more positive,ah enjoy I wish you both lots happiness together and fun.
peachmelba: I'm really pleased for you jaymack Did it happen for you when you least expected it thats usually the way and when one is more relaxed in themself ,the flow of energy is more positive,ah enjoy I wish you both lots happiness together and fun.
Thank you Peachmelba,i am really fairly new to dating sites so in reality i didn't know what to expect. Anyway we met on a dating site and we really do get on great together,we met on plenty of fish and we have had a great few months together. But yes "least expected" for sure as i have met someone who seems to take me for who i am completely,which really is great as i am not the most conventional of person,I'm alternative not to everyone cup of tea at all really. But she is really the sweetest/honest and beautiful of persons,i'm very fortunate. Dating sites really can work,even for me I've been very lucky,
I think it is such an advantage to talk to people on line before meeting them,we almost new each other before we met,which helped
KNenagh: I would never go back, too. It takes time to get over it, but there is only one way to go.
Having had something like that, it does show when you don't "have it" with someone new and it is a factor in deciding if you want to continue something or just pack it in. I would never compare guys as everyone is different, but I can compare my own level of happiness I have when I'm with someone (same goes for the guy I'm sure).
Yes you are right KN . I know for certain it could never be as strong as I had,how could it when I shared the early years of my life and went through everything with that person,good and bad times,,, I just don't think ill find that again after sharing home,kids, youth,,,it will be just different if I meet someone nice but I would never live with that person or he with me,I had a boyfriend 3 years ago and he was too much too soon,, he turned out to be someone I never thought or wanted,,,
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