Are we obliged,to look after,our elderly parents,when incapable looking after themselves?? ( Archived) (201)

Oct 30, 2014 3:44 PM CST Are we obliged,to look after,our elderly parents,when incapable looking after themselves??
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
Yes ???

No. ???

Its the state's obligation.???
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Oct 30, 2014 3:53 PM CST Are we obliged,to look after,our elderly parents,when incapable looking after themselves??
Harryonline
HarryonlineHarryonlineLondon, Greater London, England UK4 Threads 639 Posts
chris27292729: Yes ???

No. ???

Its the state's obligation.???


Fantastic question...one which we all will face

I think

YES

Because its better than a stranger doing it.

Also, its a big resource for the govt to cater for.

Most importantly...they look after you when you was younger....you look after them when they are old...then your children carries on the tradition with out breaking the chain.

Basically...our parents hold on to our hand, we hold on to theirs

I looked after my dad and will be looking after my mother when the time arises.
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Oct 30, 2014 3:59 PM CST Are we obliged,to look after,our elderly parents,when incapable looking after themselves??
Obstinance_Works
Obstinance_WorksObstinance_WorksManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 3,514 Posts
chris27292729: Yes ???

No. ???

Its the state's obligation.???


I will for my own parents, and there are 4 of us kids to share the burden so it won't be too bad. Plus I actually like my parents despite all the constant criticism I aim at the Baby Boomers.

Talking of which what will become of the greying Babies seen as they've had so few children and left the economy in such a bankrupt state? Politically I will push to provide for them through the state although many of my generation will be wholly prepared to let them all starve.

However, I vow here and now to lord it over you. I will make it my business to remind of how much debt they've left us in, what a shambles they made of the economy, to thank them for sending all the real jobs to china and for flooding the country with hostiles whilst denigrating every single wholesome aspect of our society from the church, to education to the community itself. I will make them dream of being euthanised!
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Oct 30, 2014 4:03 PM CST Are we obliged,to look after,our elderly parents,when incapable looking after themselves??
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
I took care of my mother up until she passed away which was over 30 years ago.
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Oct 30, 2014 4:06 PM CST Are we obliged,to look after,our elderly parents,when incapable looking after themselves??
...if the children can.....they should.......I did. and don't regret a single moment.......
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Oct 30, 2014 4:44 PM CST Are we obliged,to look after,our elderly parents,when incapable looking after themselves??
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
Years ago I worked in two different nursing homes and would hear from the nurses on how some adult children would just dump their parents there and never return to see them.
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Oct 30, 2014 4:52 PM CST Are we obliged,to look after,our elderly parents,when incapable looking after themselves??
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
The irreponsible,responsibility by their children..

And when asked,the reply is. "I have my parents in good hands in the nursing home"", Failing to admit,that,haven't got to visit them for years.-
Ccincy: Years ago I worked in two different nursing homes and would hear from the nurses on how some adult children would just dump their parents there and never return to see them.
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Oct 30, 2014 4:55 PM CST Are we obliged,to look after,our elderly parents,when incapable looking after themselves??
abcWOMAN
abcWOMANabcWOMANLuleå, Norrbotten Sweden20 Threads 2 Polls 1,583 Posts
My mother is at a (good) nursing home and as long as she lives, I try to visit her as often as I can. I think she gets a better care (with skilled staff) there, than I'd be able to provide.
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Oct 30, 2014 4:59 PM CST Are we obliged,to look after,our elderly parents,when incapable looking after themselves??
My daughter can't wait to look after me..........she's always looking for signs of me slowing down. Don't think she'll think quite the same if I do go ga-ga though. Ah well.......if I do, I won't even realise........see...there's a blessing in everything!!!!
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Oct 30, 2014 5:06 PM CST Are we obliged,to look after,our elderly parents,when incapable looking after themselves??
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
chris27292729: The irreponsible,responsibility by their children..

And when asked,the reply is. "I have my parents in good hands in the nursing home"", Failing to admit,that,haven't got to visit them for years.-




Most of the time they get rid of their parents so they can get a hold of their stuff.I've witnessed this before.

On my days off I used to sit with most of those parents who had been dumped by their adult children reading to them etc.
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Oct 30, 2014 5:09 PM CST Are we obliged,to look after,our elderly parents,when incapable looking after themselves??
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
Have you ever tried to asked her,if she needs to see you and talk to you,"""more often than you can"""????
abcWOMAN: My mother is at a (good) nursing home and as long as she lives, I try to visit her as often as I can. I think she gets a better care (with skilled staff) there, than I'd be able to provide.
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Oct 30, 2014 5:32 PM CST Are we obliged,to look after,our elderly parents,when incapable looking after themselves??
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
truheart1941: ...if the children can.....they should.......I did. and don't regret a single moment.......
thumbs up handshake
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Oct 30, 2014 5:39 PM CST Are we obliged,to look after,our elderly parents,when incapable looking after themselves??
............@Galrads.......hi mate....when your older....i.ll come and feed you......and combe your fluffy white...beard.....thumbs up grin rolling on the floor laughing laugh
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Oct 30, 2014 5:49 PM CST Are we obliged,to look after,our elderly parents,when incapable looking after themselves??
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
The younger generation,in general,now day, doesn't be taught.
""Love and care for your parents,when older,an incapable looking
after themselves.""
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Oct 30, 2014 5:56 PM CST Are we obliged,to look after,our elderly parents,when incapable looking after themselves??
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
truheart1941: ............@Galrads.......hi mate....when your older....i.ll come and feed you......and combe your fluffy white...beard.....


Hmm, laugh But you'd have to suffer through watching a lot of real football with me too. handshake laugh
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Oct 30, 2014 6:00 PM CST Are we obliged,to look after,our elderly parents,when incapable looking after themselves??
rebel2
rebel2rebel2Alicante, Valencia Spain8 Threads 6,354 Posts
Their is no way in this world I would want any family member to look after me.
They have there life to lead.
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Oct 30, 2014 6:04 PM CST Are we obliged,to look after,our elderly parents,when incapable looking after themselves??
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
rebel2: Their is no way in this world I would want any family member to look after me.
They have there life to lead.



What about a gorgeous nurse?laugh
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Oct 30, 2014 6:05 PM CST Are we obliged,to look after,our elderly parents,when incapable looking after themselves??
rebel2
rebel2rebel2Alicante, Valencia Spain8 Threads 6,354 Posts
Ccincy: What about a gorgeous nurse?
I cannot fool you can I? blushing
Hello CC wave bouquet
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Oct 30, 2014 6:05 PM CST Are we obliged,to look after,our elderly parents,when incapable looking after themselves??
galrads: Hmm, But you'd have to suffer through watching a lot of real football with me too.
....FOOTBALL....that's not foot.ball you watch.....that's handball.....*crash.helmets/tight white....long johns....../...and shoulders 5 feet across.....tongue rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing super laugh
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Oct 30, 2014 6:06 PM CST Are we obliged,to look after,our elderly parents,when incapable looking after themselves??
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
rebel2: Their is no way in this world I would want any family member to look after me.
They have there life to lead.

Does it means,that family members,especially our children,have NO obligations at all,towards their incapable parents??
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