We don't choose who we fall in love with. (97)
I do not believe that we choose who we fall in love with
.....just happens
.....after a time of genuinely liking another, who they are and what they aspire to be, how they fit into our lives, how they make us feel and what we are prepared to do to be together with this person
guess I am saying..the whole 9 yards!!!
just saying
love rocks...if you find it and can share with another!!!!
.....just happens
.....after a time of genuinely liking another, who they are and what they aspire to be, how they fit into our lives, how they make us feel and what we are prepared to do to be together with this person
guess I am saying..the whole 9 yards!!!
just saying
love rocks...if you find it and can share with another!!!!
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Obstinance_Works: You and me both. I'm starting to feel like I'm dating a sprout now actually. Not that I don't love her, but she is wanting to make me do something I don't want to do(or, more importantly, when I don't want to do it)which is move in with her some 100 miles away nowhere near my family or where my customer base is.
My desire(or part of it)is to stay around Manchester making money, establishing myself, and gallivanting around like a lothario. My conscious, however, believes as she does in settling down and having kids at a healthy age and being respectable. My modern, degenerate self-interested half is warring with my noble and traditional pro-civilisation half and it's put me in a bad mood for about two weeks. I don't know, am I just refusing to grow up if I finish with her?
My desire(or part of it)is to stay around Manchester making money, establishing myself, and gallivanting around like a lothario. My conscious, however, believes as she does in settling down and having kids at a healthy age and being respectable. My modern, degenerate self-interested half is warring with my noble and traditional pro-civilisation half and it's put me in a bad mood for about two weeks. I don't know, am I just refusing to grow up if I finish with her?
conscience*
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Obstinance_Works: You and me both. I'm starting to feel like I'm dating a sprout now actually. Not that I don't love her, but she is wanting to make me do something I don't want to do(or, more importantly, when I don't want to do it)which is move in with her some 100 miles away nowhere near my family or where my customer base is.
My desire(or part of it)is to stay around Manchester making money, establishing myself, and gallivanting around like a lothario. My conscious, however, believes as she does in settling down and having kids at a healthy age and being respectable. My modern, degenerate self-interested half is warring with my noble and traditional pro-civilisation half and it's put me in a bad mood for about two weeks. I don't know, am I just refusing to grow up if I finish with her?
My desire(or part of it)is to stay around Manchester making money, establishing myself, and gallivanting around like a lothario. My conscious, however, believes as she does in settling down and having kids at a healthy age and being respectable. My modern, degenerate self-interested half is warring with my noble and traditional pro-civilisation half and it's put me in a bad mood for about two weeks. I don't know, am I just refusing to grow up if I finish with her?
I can't answer that for you.
The mere fact you've been in a foul mood is because of indecision probably....this inner turmoil....but I won't go into the psycho mumbo jumbo of it.
This alfalfa sprout is telling you bean sprout to get back to the basics with it.
Get a piece of paper. Write down the pros and cons of it all.
...and then you need to ask yourself can you live without her, should you decide to end the relationship.
The decision ultimately is yours alone to make. You know how you feel about her. Is it enough? to forgo the plans for your business? Is this the woman you want to start a family with?
Only you have the answer to that.
The mere fact that you're questioning it, is not great for continuing on.
....and that will cost you a return flight to New Zealand to thank me personally. I won't serve you brussel sprouts....
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Count_Me_In: I do not believe that we choose who we fall in love with
.....just happens
.....after a time of genuinely liking another, who they are and what they aspire to be, how they fit into our lives, how they make us feel and what we are prepared to do to be together with this person
guess I am saying..the whole 9 yards!!!
just saying
love rocks...if you find it and can share with another!!!!
.....just happens
.....after a time of genuinely liking another, who they are and what they aspire to be, how they fit into our lives, how they make us feel and what we are prepared to do to be together with this person
guess I am saying..the whole 9 yards!!!
just saying
love rocks...if you find it and can share with another!!!!
Count me in...where you been?
last time we supposed to meet somewhere in Germany
and have some beer
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Obstinance_Works: You and me both. I'm starting to feel like I'm dating a sprout now actually. Not that I don't love her, but she is wanting to make me do something I don't want to do(or, more importantly, when I don't want to do it)which is move in with her some 100 miles away nowhere near my family or where my customer base is.
My desire(or part of it)is to stay around Manchester making money, establishing myself, and gallivanting around like a lothario. My conscious, however, believes as she does in settling down and having kids at a healthy age and being respectable. My modern, degenerate self-interested half is warring with my noble and traditional pro-civilisation half and it's put me in a bad mood for about two weeks. I don't know, am I just refusing to grow up if I finish with her?
My desire(or part of it)is to stay around Manchester making money, establishing myself, and gallivanting around like a lothario. My conscious, however, believes as she does in settling down and having kids at a healthy age and being respectable. My modern, degenerate self-interested half is warring with my noble and traditional pro-civilisation half and it's put me in a bad mood for about two weeks. I don't know, am I just refusing to grow up if I finish with her?
Are you having a laugh finish with her..
.That is abit drastic ,,my brother moved frm London to sanfransisco because that's where it's best for his business,
His wife went with him but they are lucky because it suits her as her sis lives there and her patents in Canada ,plus she can work from there better,
We his family miss him but his work is there they both love it there,
Think you going to have a real deep talk to your woman,
Good luck.
Don't throw love away.
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BerrySmoothie: I can't answer that for you.
The mere fact you've been in a foul mood is because of indecision probably....this inner turmoil....but I won't go into the psycho mumbo jumbo of it.
This alfalfa sprout is telling you bean sprout to get back to the basics with it.
Get a piece of paper. Write down the pros and cons of it all.
...and then you need to ask yourself can you live without her, should you decide to end the relationship.
The decision ultimately is yours alone to make. You know how you feel about her. Is it enough? to forgo the plans for your business? Is this the woman you want to start a family with?
Only you have the answer to that.
The mere fact that you're questioning it, is not great for continuing on.
....and that will cost you a return flight to New Zealand to thank me personally. I won't serve you brussel sprouts....
The mere fact you've been in a foul mood is because of indecision probably....this inner turmoil....but I won't go into the psycho mumbo jumbo of it.
This alfalfa sprout is telling you bean sprout to get back to the basics with it.
Get a piece of paper. Write down the pros and cons of it all.
...and then you need to ask yourself can you live without her, should you decide to end the relationship.
The decision ultimately is yours alone to make. You know how you feel about her. Is it enough? to forgo the plans for your business? Is this the woman you want to start a family with?
Only you have the answer to that.
The mere fact that you're questioning it, is not great for continuing on.
....and that will cost you a return flight to New Zealand to thank me personally. I won't serve you brussel sprouts....
.Good advise .
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bungallow55: Count me in...where you been?
last time we supposed to meet somewhere in Germany
and have some beer
last time we supposed to meet somewhere in Germany
and have some beer
hi you Bungallow..and we will....this is my mother's country
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peachmelba: Are you having a laugh finish with her..
.That is abit drastic ,,my brother moved frm London to sanfransisco because that's where it's best for his business,
His wife went with him but they are lucky because it suits her as her sis lives there and her patents in Canada ,plus she can work from there better,We his family miss him but his work is there they both love it there,Think you going to have a real deep talk to your woman,
Good luck.
Don't throw love away.
Love the one you with.That is abit drastic ,,my brother moved frm London to sanfransisco because that's where it's best for his business,
His wife went with him but they are lucky because it suits her as her sis lives there and her patents in Canada ,plus she can work from there better,We his family miss him but his work is there they both love it there,Think you going to have a real deep talk to your woman,
Good luck.
Don't throw love away.
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Count_Me_In: hi you Bungallow..and we will....this is my mother's country
Oh what part of Germany she is, do you speak German?
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Count_Me_In: hi you Bungallow..and we will....this is my mother's country
Welcome back count me in,
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Count_Me_In: I have 3 bloodlines to Germany.....I speak German the best I can
oooh! dast ist gut
I love Southern part of Germanyis warmer...hey, do you like my plastic surgery?
I did it just for you
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Thanks for the advice girls. The thing is I know that if I don't move in or finish with her she will wait for me and put her own plans on hold. She's a lawyer so she's well-paid - we both are, money is not really an issue and materially I could move in - she just wants to knock out a couple of kids before she's 30 and then go back to work when the youngest is 3 or 4. I like this idea.
But our missions are clashing. She will put my mission first if I force it but it'll cost her and then there's no guarantee that I'll ever return the favour. Finishing with her would seem cruel but also the kindest thing to do(unless I move in).
But our missions are clashing. She will put my mission first if I force it but it'll cost her and then there's no guarantee that I'll ever return the favour. Finishing with her would seem cruel but also the kindest thing to do(unless I move in).
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Obstinance_Works: Thanks for the advice girls. The thing is I know that if I don't move in or finish with her she will wait for me and put her own plans on hold. She's a lawyer so she's well-paid - we both are, money is not really an issue and materially I could move in - she just wants to knock out a couple of kids before she's 30 and then go back to work when the youngest is 3 or 4. I like this idea.
But our missions are clashing. She will put my mission first if I force it but it'll cost her and then there's no guarantee that I'll ever return the favour. Finishing with her would seem cruel but also the kindest thing to do(unless I move in).
But our missions are clashing. She will put my mission first if I force it but it'll cost her and then there's no guarantee that I'll ever return the favour. Finishing with her would seem cruel but also the kindest thing to do(unless I move in).
Is there something like a commuting distance for both of you?
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Obstinance_Works: Thanks for the advice girls. The thing is I know that if I don't move in or finish with her she will wait for me and put her own plans on hold. She's a lawyer so she's well-paid - we both are, money is not really an issue and materially I could move in - she just wants to knock out a couple of kids before she's 30 and then go back to work when the youngest is 3 or 4. I like this idea.
But our missions are clashing. She will put my mission first if I force it but it'll cost her and then there's no guarantee that I'll ever return the favour. Finishing with her would seem cruel but also the kindest thing to do(unless I move in).
But our missions are clashing. She will put my mission first if I force it but it'll cost her and then there's no guarantee that I'll ever return the favour. Finishing with her would seem cruel but also the kindest thing to do(unless I move in).
you're a lawyer? I need one, want to file lawsuit against Russia
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bungallow55: oooh! dast ist gut I love Southern part of Germany
is warmer...hey, do you like my plastic surgery?
I did it just for you
is warmer...hey, do you like my plastic surgery?
I did it just for you
always good!!...You need to look smokin' hot for yourself and no-one else
just saying
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Count_Me_In: always good!!...You need to look smokin' hot for yourself and no-one else
just saying
Ok, Ich bin ein kakarachajust saying
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KNenagh: Is there something like a commuting distance for both of you?
Yea, it's about 100 miles. And I'm much more able to move than she is because she's tied to her employer for the foreseeable whereas I can setup wherever(within reason). But it's still not beneficial for me to move.
Ideally I'd like to keep it long distance for the next couple of years, but her biological clock ticks faster than mine and it'd be more of a loss to her career to leave her job 3 years from now instead of in the next 12 months.
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As for love. I feel love in many ways. I love my friends in varying degrees. I have male friends I love, but distinctly not in love with.
...and then there is infatuation. Not being "in love"....but a desire nonetheless...usually lustful.
...but then what do I know? I haven't been in a relationship since the end of 2009...I completely suck at them...
You and me both. I'm starting to feel like I'm dating a sprout now actually. Not that I don't love her, but she is wanting to make me do something I don't want to do(or, more importantly, when I don't want to do it)which is move in with her some 100 miles away nowhere near my family or where my customer base is.
My desire(or part of it)is to stay around Manchester making money, establishing myself, and gallivanting around like a lothario. My conscious, however, believes as she does in settling down and having kids at a healthy age and being respectable. My modern, degenerate self-interested half is warring with my noble and traditional pro-civilisation half and it's put me in a bad mood for about two weeks. I don't know, am I just refusing to grow up if I finish with her?