Sannu: Because they made the choice to do so. As regards why, perhaps you should actually ask them, the answer just might be exactly what you want to hear.
this is perhaps leaning toward jaded, but I can't say I'd believe the answer. (that would depend upon the sender & those are generally deleted). that is why I am asking if anyone on the threads has an insight.
felixis99: Can anyone explain why men wear sunglasses in so many of their profile pictures? It seems a little off putting. Like, I wonder why you won't show your eyes? I don;t see it so much in the threads but a lot of the private messages I get the men are wearing (often oversized) sunglasses???? weird.
I know you are talking about men but I have shades on in my pic. The reason being that I have been here ohh soooooo long and that those who know me know me, I felt it didn't really matter.
You do raise an important point though. To be fair, people should have clear faces on their pics.
xxDandelionxx: I know you are talking about men but I have shades on in my pic. The reason being that I have been here ohh soooooo long and that those who know me know me, I felt it didn't really matter.
You do raise an important point though. To be fair, people should have clear faces on their pics.
well I was really thinking more of how it might come across in private messages. I also had one on here ages ago with sunglasses from a hiking trip I was on but it was not my main picture
felixis99: Can anyone explain why men wear sunglasses in so many of their profile pictures? It seems a little off putting. Like, I wonder why you won't show your eyes? I don;t see it so much in the threads but a lot of the private messages I get the men are wearing (often oversized) sunglasses???? weird.
that's what my concern is......because as the next poster says ..." the eyes have it," or they are married Lanna, or do not wish to be ID'ed.
There could be a legitimate reason for not wanting to be identified, but then where is the good judgement to choose online as ones dating venue...lol ????
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this is perhaps leaning toward jaded, but I can't say I'd believe the answer. (that would depend upon the sender & those are generally deleted). that is why I am asking if anyone on the threads has an insight.
I will Pedro looks right smexy in his "shades"