Can you keep a secret? ( Archived) (51)

Jun 15, 2015 9:20 AM CST Can you keep a secret?
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
If you saw a friend or family member on a date with someone other than their partner or spouse, what would you do? ...
Confront them....
Tell the innocent party...
Or just keep quiet?
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Jun 15, 2015 9:46 AM CST Can you keep a secret?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
I would mine my own business.
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Jun 15, 2015 9:50 AM CST Can you keep a secret?
loulou77
loulou77loulou77Vancouver, British Columbia Canada1 Threads 1,555 Posts
allthegoodnamest: If you saw a friend or family member on a date with someone other than their partner or spouse, what would you do? ...
Confront them....
Tell the innocent party...
Or just keep quiet?


I have already experienced this problem...told my friends the truth and ended up being the bad guy...she did not leave her cheating spouse...sometimes being quiet has its advantages...
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Jun 15, 2015 9:50 AM CST Can you keep a secret?
allthegoodnamest: If you saw a friend or family member on a date with someone other than their partner or spouse, what would you do? ...
Confront them....
Tell the innocent party...
Or just keep quiet?
id say youre watching too much eastenders
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Jun 15, 2015 10:11 AM CST Can you keep a secret?
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
Ccincy: I would mine my own business.

Even if it was your best friends spouse?
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Jun 15, 2015 10:14 AM CST Can you keep a secret?
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
loulou77: I have already experienced this problem...told my friends the truth and ended up being the bad guy...she did not leave her cheating spouse...sometimes being quiet has its advantages...

Obviously , some people are blinded by love but you did what you thought was best & if the roles were reversed , in sure you would want her to inform you
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Jun 15, 2015 10:15 AM CST Can you keep a secret?
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
pedro27: id say youre watching too much eastenders

Dude, I never watch that crap!
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Jun 15, 2015 10:15 AM CST Can you keep a secret?
peggy mitchel is cheating on ian bailey
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Jun 15, 2015 10:18 AM CST Can you keep a secret?
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
Pedro.
Are you going to tell on them?
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Jun 15, 2015 10:22 AM CST Can you keep a secret?
allthegoodnamest: Pedro.
Are you going to tell on them?



no maybe karma will tell down the line
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Jun 15, 2015 10:50 AM CST Can you keep a secret?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
allthegoodnamest: Even if it was your best friends spouse?






I would still mind my own business regardless.
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Jun 15, 2015 10:56 AM CST Can you keep a secret?
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
Ccincy: I would still mind my own business regardless.

But it may be your business if it was a family member, ie your son for example.
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Jun 15, 2015 10:57 AM CST Can you keep a secret?
thetindrum
thetindrumthetindrumNorth Kilkenny, Kilkenny Ireland40 Posts
allthegoodnamest: If you saw a friend or family member on a date with someone other than their partner or spouse, what would you do? ...
Confront them....
Tell the innocent party...
Or just keep quiet?

What/who is there to confront and about what?
Who is the innocent party?
Who is the guilty party?
Guilty about what?
What's a date for you?
I would do very little.
Inform myself before I jump to any conclusion.
I looked through a window and surprised what I saw
A fairy with boots and dancin' with a dwarf
Fairies wear boots and you gotta believe me
I saw it, I saw it with my own two eyes...
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Jun 15, 2015 11:01 AM CST Can you keep a secret?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
allthegoodnamest: But it may be your business if it was a family member, ie your son for example.





It would still be none of my business regardless of who it was.
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Jun 15, 2015 11:02 AM CST Can you keep a secret?
Lolette
LoletteLoletteLe Mans, Pays de la Loire France15 Threads 1,691 Posts
allthegoodnamest: If you saw a friend or family member on a date with someone other than their partner or spouse, what would you do? ...
Confront them....
Tell the innocent party...
Or just keep quiet?



If it's a close family member, i'll confront them, not so close or a friend, i don't mingle on their affair, the fact that they are on public, they don't want to keep it secret, or else they just can do in a place wherein only them could know.doh
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Jun 15, 2015 11:11 AM CST Can you keep a secret?
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
thetindrum: What/who is there to confront and about what?
Who is the innocent party?
Who is the guilty party?
Guilty about what?
What's a date for you?
I would do very little.
Inform myself before I jump to any conclusion.
I looked through a window and surprised what I saw
A fairy with boots and dancin' with a dwarf
Fairies wear boots and you gotta believe me
I saw it, I saw it with my own two eyes...

Ok, I'm going to be more specific.... While I was out Friday night, I spotted a family friend (male) holding hands with a lady , not his wife, while drinking in a bar.. I'm sure they never saw me because when I spotted them I quickly moved on & they only had eyes for each other.. The wife of the man in question is a close relative. What would you do in my situation?
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Jun 15, 2015 11:21 AM CST Can you keep a secret?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
allthegoodnamest: Ok, I'm going to be more specific.... While I was out Friday night, I spotted a family friend (male) holding hands with a lady , not his wife, while drinking in a bar.. I'm sure they never saw me because when I spotted them I quickly moved on & they only had eyes for each other.. The wife of the man in question is a close relative. What would you do in my situation?





All why didn't you post that before instead of playing cat and mouse?laugh



I would still mind my own business.
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Jun 15, 2015 11:21 AM CST Can you keep a secret?
secretagent09
secretagent09secretagent09New Jersey Girl in, North Carolina USA198 Threads 4 Polls 7,230 Posts
allthegoodnamest: Ok, I'm going to be more specific.... While I was out Friday night, I spotted a family friend (male) holding hands with a lady , not his wife, while drinking in a bar.. I'm sure they never saw me because when I spotted them I quickly moved on & they only had eyes for each other.. The wife of the man in question is a close relative. What would you do in my situation?



If he was my son-in-law I would tell him that I know what he's doing and that he should tell his wife (my daughter) before I tell her.
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Jun 15, 2015 11:36 AM CST Can you keep a secret?
Dreamcatcher99
Dreamcatcher99Dreamcatcher99Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia5 Threads 1 Polls 1,074 Posts
secretagent09: If he was my son-in-law I would tell him that I know what he's doing and that he should tell his wife (my daughter) before I tell her.
thumbs up
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Jun 15, 2015 11:40 AM CST Can you keep a secret?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
"When you mind your business,life is less stressful."

~Kushandwizdon~
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