allthegoodnamestOPLondon, Essex, England UK4,697 posts
If you saw a friend or family member on a date with someone other than their partner or spouse, what would you do? ... Confront them.... Tell the innocent party... Or just keep quiet?
allthegoodnamest: If you saw a friend or family member on a date with someone other than their partner or spouse, what would you do? ... Confront them.... Tell the innocent party... Or just keep quiet?
I have already experienced this problem...told my friends the truth and ended up being the bad guy...she did not leave her cheating spouse...sometimes being quiet has its advantages...
allthegoodnamest: If you saw a friend or family member on a date with someone other than their partner or spouse, what would you do? ... Confront them.... Tell the innocent party... Or just keep quiet?
allthegoodnamestOPLondon, Essex, England UK4,697 posts
loulou77: I have already experienced this problem...told my friends the truth and ended up being the bad guy...she did not leave her cheating spouse...sometimes being quiet has its advantages...
Obviously , some people are blinded by love but you did what you thought was best & if the roles were reversed , in sure you would want her to inform you
allthegoodnamest: If you saw a friend or family member on a date with someone other than their partner or spouse, what would you do? ... Confront them.... Tell the innocent party... Or just keep quiet?
What/who is there to confront and about what? Who is the innocent party? Who is the guilty party? Guilty about what? What's a date for you? I would do very little. Inform myself before I jump to any conclusion. I looked through a window and surprised what I saw A fairy with boots and dancin' with a dwarf Fairies wear boots and you gotta believe me I saw it, I saw it with my own two eyes...
LoletteLe Mans, Pays de la Loire France1,691 posts
allthegoodnamest: If you saw a friend or family member on a date with someone other than their partner or spouse, what would you do? ... Confront them.... Tell the innocent party... Or just keep quiet?
If it's a close family member, i'll confront them, not so close or a friend, i don't mingle on their affair, the fact that they are on public, they don't want to keep it secret, or else they just can do in a place wherein only them could know.
allthegoodnamestOPLondon, Essex, England UK4,697 posts
thetindrum: What/who is there to confront and about what? Who is the innocent party? Who is the guilty party? Guilty about what? What's a date for you? I would do very little. Inform myself before I jump to any conclusion. I looked through a window and surprised what I saw A fairy with boots and dancin' with a dwarf Fairies wear boots and you gotta believe me I saw it, I saw it with my own two eyes...
Ok, I'm going to be more specific.... While I was out Friday night, I spotted a family friend (male) holding hands with a lady , not his wife, while drinking in a bar.. I'm sure they never saw me because when I spotted them I quickly moved on & they only had eyes for each other.. The wife of the man in question is a close relative. What would you do in my situation?
allthegoodnamest: Ok, I'm going to be more specific.... While I was out Friday night, I spotted a family friend (male) holding hands with a lady , not his wife, while drinking in a bar.. I'm sure they never saw me because when I spotted them I quickly moved on & they only had eyes for each other.. The wife of the man in question is a close relative. What would you do in my situation?
All why didn't you post that before instead of playing cat and mouse?
allthegoodnamest: Ok, I'm going to be more specific.... While I was out Friday night, I spotted a family friend (male) holding hands with a lady , not his wife, while drinking in a bar.. I'm sure they never saw me because when I spotted them I quickly moved on & they only had eyes for each other.. The wife of the man in question is a close relative. What would you do in my situation?
If he was my son-in-law I would tell him that I know what he's doing and that he should tell his wife (my daughter) before I tell her.
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Confront them....
Tell the innocent party...
Or just keep quiet?