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Oct 20, 2015 3:41 AM CST Women
PrimaveraSpring
PrimaveraSpringPrimaveraSpringBarcelona, Catalonia Spain10 Threads 525 Posts
unlaoised: Dumming down to make a man feel better about himself is not going to make me...or him happy


Then continue showing that you are more clever when you are sitting with friends. You will be happy and proud, for sure, but he...
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Oct 20, 2015 3:47 AM CST Women
Ladies, please don't fight. I like you both and don't want to see either of you fighting like this.
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Oct 20, 2015 3:50 AM CST Women
serena123
serena123serena123durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa44 Threads 2 Polls 2,821 Posts
PrimaveraSpring: Then continue showing that you are more clever when you are sitting with friends. You will be happy and proud, for sure, but he...

Will be proud that his woman has a few brains and is confident enough to show it??dunno
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Oct 20, 2015 3:52 AM CST Women
PrimaveraSpring
PrimaveraSpringPrimaveraSpringBarcelona, Catalonia Spain10 Threads 525 Posts
Track16: Ladies, please don't fight. I like you both and don't want to see either of you fighting like this.


I m not fighting at all! I m just telling my opinion and trying to share experience I made out of my own mistakes. I just wanted to tell all ladies to be smart enough to let men feel happy by our side. We will only win in this case. What is the use of arguing with men and trying to show them that we are better?!

Unlaoised bouquet
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Oct 20, 2015 3:53 AM CST Women
PrimaveraSpring
PrimaveraSpringPrimaveraSpringBarcelona, Catalonia Spain10 Threads 525 Posts
serena123: Will be proud that his woman has a few brains and is confident enough to show it??


Do you think this is the only way for you to show that you have brains?
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Oct 20, 2015 3:55 AM CST Women
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
PrimaveraSpring: Then continue showing that you are more clever when you are sitting with friends. You will be happy and proud, for sure, but he...


It has nothing to do with pride, IMO. If you pretend to be something you're not, what's the point of being with him? confused
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Oct 20, 2015 3:56 AM CST Women
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
Track16: Ladies, please don't fight. I like you both and don't want to see either of you fighting like this.


Nobody's fighting, Track...a simple difference of opinion. It happens laugh
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Oct 20, 2015 4:00 AM CST Women
PrimaveraSpring
PrimaveraSpringPrimaveraSpringBarcelona, Catalonia Spain10 Threads 525 Posts
unlaoised: It has nothing to do with pride, IMO. If you pretend to be something you're not, what's the point of being with him?


I dont mean you have to pretend to be stupid. I just said a SMART woman will never emphasize that she is more clever than her man.
Probably it is my poor English...
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Oct 20, 2015 4:02 AM CST Women
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
PrimaveraSpring: I m not fighting at all! I m just telling my opinion and trying to share experience I made out of my own mistakes. I just wanted to tell all ladies to be smart enough to let men feel happy by our side. We will only win in this case. What is the use of arguing with men and trying to show them that we are better?!

Unlaoised


Sorry Primavera, I missed this.

Back atcha bouquet smile
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Oct 20, 2015 4:04 AM CST Women
PrimaveraSpring: I m not fighting at all! I m just telling my opinion and trying to share experience I made out of my own mistakes. I just wanted to tell all ladies to be smart enough to let men feel happy by our side. We will only win in this case. What is the use of arguing with men and trying to show them that we are better?!

Unlaoised


No one is better than the other, we are all equal.
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Oct 20, 2015 4:06 AM CST Women
PrimaveraSpring: I dont mean you have to pretend to be stupid. I just said a SMART woman will never emphasize that she is more clever than her man.
Probably it is my poor English...


I think I understand what you are saying, you don't want to purposely try to one up him. Thats respectable.

But don't ever feel that you have to be less than he is because your not, you are just as good as any man and don't ever forget that.
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Oct 20, 2015 4:06 AM CST Women
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
PrimaveraSpring: I dont mean you have to pretend to be stupid. I just said a SMART woman will never emphasize that she is more clever than her man.
Probably it is my poor English...


I get what you're saying and your english is very good.

I wouldn't be with someone who was threatened anything about me, including my brain. It's not my job to fix his insecurities. Been there, done that.
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Oct 20, 2015 4:08 AM CST Women
serena123
serena123serena123durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa44 Threads 2 Polls 2,821 Posts
PrimaveraSpring: Do you think this is the only way for you to show that you have brains?

If the conversation is about a subject I am passionate about.. I'm certainly not Gonna sit there and say nothing!..there ARE other ways to make my man feel superiorwink
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Oct 20, 2015 4:10 AM CST Women
PrimaveraSpring
PrimaveraSpringPrimaveraSpringBarcelona, Catalonia Spain10 Threads 525 Posts
Track16: I think I understand what you are saying, you don't want to purposely try to one up him. Thats respectable.

But don't ever feel that you have to be less than he is because your not, you are just as good as any man and don't ever forget that.


Better and clever is something very different!
I might have an excellent knowleges in Psycology and he might not. That doesnt mean I m better.
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Oct 20, 2015 4:34 AM CST Women
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
PrimaveraSpring: With this I agree. I mean something different. But I guess, I will not be able to explain better that I tried


Ok, maybe I misunderstood.

The thing is, nobody ever suggests to men that they dum down for a woman. I wonder why ....
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Oct 20, 2015 5:11 AM CST Women
thoughout time.it
been the mens role...to provide...and to protect....his woman. this doesent mean that she is less clever....then a man....if the woman of today ...feel this is a threat....then i feel sorry for you........some times being to clever...can have its disavantage.s..in as much. being ..to self centred.....jmo.
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Oct 20, 2015 5:43 AM CST Women
serena123
serena123serena123durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa44 Threads 2 Polls 2,821 Posts
truheart1941: thoughout time.it
been the mens role...to provide...and to protect....his woman. this doesent mean that she is less clever....then a man....if the woman of today ...feel this is a threat....then i feel sorry for you........some times being to clever...can have its disavantage.s..in as much. being ..to self centred.....jmo.

Exactly!.. A real man is not intimidated by any woman..smitten heart wings
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Oct 20, 2015 9:13 AM CST Women
Ocee102
Ocee102Ocee102unkown, California USA10 Threads 1,399 Posts
PrimaveraSpring: A wise woman will never show that she is smarter than her man, especially in presence of his friends!


That's not really a gender thing.


We don't look too highly on men who need to show off they're

smarter than their partner in front of her friends either.


I don' think it's a healthy thing to make a habit of in a relationship anyway. If everyone's always trying to one up the other, every conversation or attempt to share what you think and how you feel turns into a debate.

If every time your partner shares a thought or idea with you, you have to challenge it to show how smart you are eventually they're going to get guarded and share less and less or just shut down entirely.


Life isn't highschool debate club.
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Oct 20, 2015 2:00 PM CST Women
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Oct 20, 2015 2:31 PM CST Women
skippyguy
skippyguyskippyguyAshburton, Canterbury New Zealand26 Threads 3,825 Posts
serena123: Exactly!.. A real man is not intimidated by any woman..


Question is, ....What to make of a women who tries to intimidate ???
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