A guy punched and pushed an older guy yesterday so he fell and hit his head in a metalpole. He instantly passed out and the guy that pushed him was about to continue beating him when I reacted with my instincts and got in between them making it impossible for the beating to continue. The guy said something about that the man that was passed out deserved it and that I had no idea what he had said to his girlfriend. I answered that I didn´t know what had happened before but that the man was allready passed out and that he could kill him if he continued. Some bouncers from a nightclub arrived after about a minute and called the police that arrived 5min later. The man was awake then but didn´t want to press any charges so i don´t have to testify in court.
When reading about people getting beaten to death in front of bystanders I have often thought about how I´d react in a situation like that. Mainly because one time some years ago when I interfered I got hit in the head with a bottle and had to go stitch it up at the hospital. Now I know that I still react the same way and I´m kind of proud of that.
I tried to help somebody years and years ago that was getting beaten up pretty badly on the street. I ended up being shoved indirectly through a store-front window and was hurt pretty badly. I would call 911 if I saw the same today. People are crazy and you never know what they are capable of.
I also praise you for possibly stopping a senseless beating,yes there are chances you take when you get involved but I would've reacted the same way,it's a shame how there are some people who use it to their advantage when they meet up with someone with more of a diadvantage.Granted the guy should've never said anything about the other guys girl(if true) but it is'nt cause for a severe beating!
The last 15 years here in Sweden it has gotten worse when it comes to violence in the streets. You never know if they are on drugs and have any weapons, so stopping fights on the street may not be the smartest thing to do, but I didn´t think, it was my instinct that took over. If there´s anything that I can´t stand it´s people thats abusing and/or being mean to others. I just hope that someone will do the same and interfere if it´s me or someone I care about that´s getting a beating.
Yeah it´s the feelings that makes the choice as one act on instinct and really don´t have time to think it through. I first laughed at your story before I realised how sad it really was. I don´t really want to think about what that womans life is like if it was her husband.
I think this is why domestic violence situations are so dangerous for the police. But, I don't think I could ever look the other way if anyone was getting beaten. At least call the police to deal with it. I think you were very brave and helped someone when they were incapable of helping themselves.
I have personally witnessed women who were being beaten, begging for help and everyone turns the other way or just doesn't do anything to help.
I have helped people if they need help. And, I hope that others would do the same!
The last (and one of the few) altercation I got in, some guy was smacking around his girlfriend.
Usually trying to avoid this type of thing I was surprised to actually be controlling this coward when felt someone jump on my back.............. Yep, it was the girlfriend.
Still, I would do the same again and kudos to you for being a proponent of peace.
However, I think if it were that coward and another Meathead going at it, I think these days I'd just roll my eyes and leave for a book store to cleanse them.
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When reading about people getting beaten to death in front of bystanders I have often thought about how I´d react in a situation like that. Mainly because one time some years ago when I interfered I got hit in the head with a bottle and had to go stitch it up at the hospital. Now I know that I still react the same way and I´m kind of proud of that.