Rejection ( Archived) (126)

Anyone can say anything on here but I think we are wise enough to differentiate the genuine from the fake.

Absolutely

But it is our words determines if we ever get as far as meeting people in real life.

I made one comment about a train journey & suddenly everyone's on my back.. You've mocked me several times but I never reacted.. Maybe I'm not as sensitive as others & take it in the way it was intended.

I would make the effort if I thought that person was the one I want to spend the rest of my life with.

I think you should go to a neurologist. You are getting forgetful

But don't you see, you would have lost them before you even began, if they read your threads.

It's better to see my bad points before I can reveal my good ones.. If they still like me after reading my posts, they are either nuts or are intelligent to see a side to me that other , less socially active women , can see.

and how is that strategy working out for you?

At some point in our life we all experienced what is to felt rejected and the best index to a person character is how one treats people...oltrough I understand there's many good people who experienced love lose disappointment in brake down of marriage and carry on their life with deep grief that reflects how he/she treats other gender but that's not balancing racional thinking in judging everyone the same as one may see ex partner in fault...Also we all done some mistakes in our life to regret it ...Maybe taking partner for granted or being workaholics and not giving enough time to family and partner or being stubborn to push for our wanting or what ever...but each of us needs to look at ourselves before judging anyone else...so that we don't ruin potential chances in life by caring heavy burden of past failure...as we will if we don't free ourselves from grief...
and therefore I wish to speak to anyone by making us both feel a little bit better, lighter,richer, to learn how to unlock the lock to our minds,my mind so that I can still listen and understand where things coming from when someone view don't match up with mine...and go on well in a natural peacful state of mind.
No one is perfect,we all have our moments when we go a bit out of balance but it's important to be aware of our own gaps and try to treat people right way in rejection...

Oh All,I see good person in you but for your own good, let go of mocking women...It's not part of attracting love to put on the rod hook alligator to catch beautiful fish on two legs....