That Awkward Moment (164)
2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 PostsAwkward and embarrassing to walk out of the ladies room with the back of your skirt tucked into the top of your pantyhose. 
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secretagent09: Okay, I didn't realize you were talking about people who you always hugged.
Actually, Ro, if that happened to me I would take it as a sign that something is wrong with the relationship. They might be angry and don't want to hurt your feelings by talking about it. If that person means a lot to you, get them to talk why they aren't being friendly.
If you don't mind me saying this, I would suggest you work more on WHY they don't want to hug you. There is probably an underlying reason. It might all change once it is talked out.
If you don't mind my saying this: I adamantly loathe having to walk on eggshells around someone. Just don't have the time or energy. And, if I try to figure out "why" (personalize it to self) then I become too self-analyzing, and just way too many complexities arise. I hope you understand that what I am saying is that I only want to absorb relationships that are easy-going, down-to-earth, and upfront. If a friend who normally hugs stops abruptly, it is THEIR responsibility to readily offer the why and the wherefore, not mine to try and figure it out. It's called honesty. Usually when asked, as I have in the past, they are insistent that all is well, so it is NOT me, and if it was, they aren't being truthful, which I have no time for as well. Just don't have the time for baloney.....Actually, Ro, if that happened to me I would take it as a sign that something is wrong with the relationship. They might be angry and don't want to hurt your feelings by talking about it. If that person means a lot to you, get them to talk why they aren't being friendly.
If you don't mind me saying this, I would suggest you work more on WHY they don't want to hug you. There is probably an underlying reason. It might all change once it is talked out.
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rohaan: If you don't mind my saying this: I adamantly loathe having to walk on eggshells around someone. Just don't have the time or energy. And, if I try to figure out "why" (personalize it to self) then I become too self-analyzing, and just way too many complexities arise. I hope you understand that what I am saying is that I only want to absorb relationships that are easy-going, down-to-earth, and upfront. If a friend who normally hugs stops abruptly, it is THEIR responsibility to readily offer the why and the wherefore, not mine to try and figure it out. It's called honesty. Usually when asked, as I have in the past, they are insistent that all is well, so it is NOT me, and if it was, they aren't being truthful, which I have no time for as well. Just don't have the time for baloney.....
you come across as a really sensitive guy.
i think you could do for some toughening up.
just a little, and
i mean this in the most thoughtful way.
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purr4mance: you come across as a really sensitive guy.
i think you could do for some toughening up.
just a little, and
i mean this in the most thoughtful way.
could be....I'm grown up enough to realize this. Thanks for the input. i think you could do for some toughening up.
just a little, and
i mean this in the most thoughtful way.
(how should it come about that I get "toughened up"?)
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