Why argue?...Why raise voices? (33)
sergio09: Just an opinion here. I refuse to argue with people, esp. the ones that I am in a relationship with. I try not to raise my voice...I just shut down. I HATE arguing. We may not talk for days, I am fine with that.
This is not to say...I haven't failed at this occasionally. One relationship I was in, every time we disagreed on something her voice continued to get louder and louder. Every other word was "F" this and "F" that. So, I would just go to a different part of the house or out to rearrange things in the shed.
Bottom line...why argue and raise voices?
This is not to say...I haven't failed at this occasionally. One relationship I was in, every time we disagreed on something her voice continued to get louder and louder. Every other word was "F" this and "F" that. So, I would just go to a different part of the house or out to rearrange things in the shed.
Bottom line...why argue and raise voices?
ar·gue
1. give reasons or cite evidence in support of an idea, action, or theory, typically with the aim of persuading others to share one's view.
2. exchange or express diverging or opposite views, typically in a heated or angry way.
I would prefer to go with the first option.
I do not see problem arguing but not need to raise voices (in a relationship or not) yet there has to be point where either agree or agree to disagree and move on, not sense to waste anyone's time.
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lifeisadream: Nice hair color Boban!
which number is that?
hi dearest....that's not his real hair......which number is that?
..its a wig....just like yours....
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sergio09: Just an opinion here. I refuse to argue with people, esp. the ones that I am in a relationship with. I try not to raise my voice...I just shut down. I HATE arguing. We may not talk for days, I am fine with that.
This is not to say...I haven't failed at this occasionally. One relationship I was in, every time we disagreed on something her voice continued to get louder and louder. Every other word was "F" this and "F" that. So, I would just go to a different part of the house or out to rearrange things in the shed.
Bottom line...why argue and raise voices?
This is not to say...I haven't failed at this occasionally. One relationship I was in, every time we disagreed on something her voice continued to get louder and louder. Every other word was "F" this and "F" that. So, I would just go to a different part of the house or out to rearrange things in the shed.
Bottom line...why argue and raise voices?
An argument as in a discussion is my preference but some folks don't have enough self control so they yell, insult, swear, throw stuff around or at you....basically a temper tantrum and a need to "win". I was married to that and never, ever again.
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Never do, no necessity to.
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truheart1941: hi dearest....that's not his real hair...... ..its a wig....just like yours....
Who has told you that Mr. Bean?
Your boyfriend!
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2intrigued: An argument as in a discussion is my preference but some folks don't have enough self control so they yell, insult, swear, throw stuff around or at you....basically a temper tantrum and a need to "win". I was married to that and never, ever again.
On my side it was the other extreme, the Father of my children would ever argue (with no one) rather boring at times.
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lifeisadream: On my side it was the other extreme, the Father of my children would ever argue (with no one) rather boring at times.
Seems we can't win for losing eh?
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2intrigued: Seems we can't win for losing eh?
There has to be a healthy balance of arguing and perhaps find new angles to see life.
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I DONT LIKE YELLING AND ARGUING EITHER.........
I prefer to have a quiet discussion, and like others say, agree to disagree
I prefer to have a quiet discussion, and like others say, agree to disagree
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Jenny5IA: Do you fancy a fight on the grass Lil?
What are we fighting for?grasssssss
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sergio09: Just an opinion here. I refuse to argue with people, esp. the ones that I am in a relationship with. I try not to raise my voice...I just shut down. I HATE arguing. We may not talk for days, I am fine with that.
This is not to say...I haven't failed at this occasionally. One relationship I was in, every time we disagreed on something her voice continued to get louder and louder. Every other word was "F" this and "F" that. So, I would just go to a different part of the house or out to rearrange things in the shed.
Bottom line...why argue and raise voices?
..I never argued with my wife.....This is not to say...I haven't failed at this occasionally. One relationship I was in, every time we disagreed on something her voice continued to get louder and louder. Every other word was "F" this and "F" that. So, I would just go to a different part of the house or out to rearrange things in the shed.
Bottom line...why argue and raise voices?
I,d drop my pant turn round . and give her a big juicey fart.....she would shout out....*YOU DIRTY...BAR**********before she fainted.......that sorted that out.....tell yer.....
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Nice hair color Boban!
which number is that?