What do Men/Women look for these days in a relationship (22)

Jul 29, 2018 2:52 AM CST What do Men/Women look for these days in a relationship
justme165
justme165justme165London, Inner London, England UK70 Threads 2 Polls 420 Posts
I believe these days
times has changed more & more men & women feel being single is right for them

Your View ?????

What do you seek in a relationship ??
Jul 29, 2018 3:04 AM CST What do Men/Women look for these days in a relationship
Rachie14
Rachie14Rachie14Stafford, Staffordshire UK1 Threads 3,289 Posts
justme165: I believe these days
times has changed more & more men & women feel being single is right for them

Your View ?????

What do you seek in a relationship ??
I think often some people say it because they're just not ready to get into a relationship.

I think both men and women want the same things when they connect and are both on the same page.
Jul 29, 2018 3:12 AM CST What do Men/Women look for these days in a relationship
justme165: I believe these days
times has changed more & more men & women feel being single is right for them

Your View ?????

What do you seek in a relationship ??
Depends on many factors
personality ,character, emotional state

What do I seek ?
A blond with a black bush
grin
Jul 29, 2018 3:17 AM CST What do Men/Women look for these days in a relationship
justme165
justme165justme165London, Inner London, England UK70 Threads 2 Polls 420 Posts
I agree


Sametime
More & more I say guys not into commitent
Jul 29, 2018 3:21 AM CST What do Men/Women look for these days in a relationship
Rachie14
Rachie14Rachie14Stafford, Staffordshire UK1 Threads 3,289 Posts
justme165: I agree


Sametime
More & more I say guys not into commitent
And they will lose good women for it. That's their choice.

But you also have women who don't want commitment either. They will lose good men.
Jul 29, 2018 3:26 AM CST What do Men/Women look for these days in a relationship
justme165: I agree


Sametime
More & more I say guys not into commitent
Nah, it's not the guy only...
Responsibility of a cohabiting isn't appealing... "Your stuff" and "my stuff" is better for them...
Less and less are the brave ones who believe people should create a family because this is how it should be if you want to give your children a good example in life... Many don't even want children...
Disposable, that's what we became, easily disposable...
People look for comfort and convenience the most...
Jul 29, 2018 3:34 AM CST What do Men/Women look for these days in a relationship
justme165
justme165justme165London, Inner London, England UK70 Threads 2 Polls 420 Posts
Some what you say I agree with ...

In my case if I could live my life over I would have children in my late 30s


We have a choice
I believe to often people don't really openly talk about the important topics
Jul 29, 2018 3:36 AM CST What do Men/Women look for these days in a relationship
Rachie14
Rachie14Rachie14Stafford, Staffordshire UK1 Threads 3,289 Posts
What topics would they actually be that you feel are not discussed? Sex? No thanks, I'm British.
Jul 29, 2018 3:38 AM CST What do Men/Women look for these days in a relationship
justme165: Some what you say I agree with ...

In my case if I could live my life over I would have children in my late 30s


We have a choice
I believe to often people don't really openly talk about the important topics
I had my kid in late 30's...and it felt like the perfect time...
Yes, we have a choice...
And yes, we don't talk enough about the things that matter and we don't do enough too...
Jul 29, 2018 3:41 AM CST What do Men/Women look for these days in a relationship
justme165
justme165justme165London, Inner London, England UK70 Threads 2 Polls 420 Posts
Rachie

Being British Mean ????
Jul 29, 2018 7:18 AM CST What do Men/Women look for these days in a relationship
ChesneyChristonline now!
ChesneyChristonline now!ChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK4,269 Posts
justme165: I believe these days
times has changed more & more men & women feel being single is right for them

Your View ?????

What do you seek in a relationship ??
Market forces. You make your own choices and you go your own way independent from other people and dependent on insurance. Insurance doesn’t tell you it loves you and then runs off with a buddy.
Jul 29, 2018 4:13 PM CST What do Men/Women look for these days in a relationship
I don't seek.

But if I happened to meet a man that was of sound mind I'd like him to be kind caring and fun.
Jul 29, 2018 4:31 PM CST What do Men/Women look for these days in a relationship
quantum23
quantum23quantum23dublin, Dublin Ireland5 Threads 5 Polls 144 Posts
Women look for something meaningful that may or may not lead to something physical while men look for something physical that may or may not lead to something meaningful
Jul 29, 2018 4:32 PM CST What do Men/Women look for these days in a relationship
janie1305
janie1305janie1305murcia and alicante, Murcia Spain20 Threads 1,220 Posts
justme165: I believe these days
times has changed more & more men & women feel being single is right for them

Your View ?????

What do you seek in a relationship ??
I have been single for many years after having a long marriage and two fabulous children I did a silly thing , forgave and remarried my ex husband, we both thought it was a good idea at the time ,but as someone advised me , which I did not heed,.....you cannot reheat a cold cup of coffee...... so true.

I am very happy being single only until I feel lousy with flu for example and nobody brings me a cup of something, or when I think about the consequences of an accident being alone in my home. In reality I suppose anyone can be alone if they suffer a heart attack regardless as to whether they have a family living with them.
Jul 29, 2018 4:37 PM CST What do Men/Women look for these days in a relationship
AlecSmart
AlecSmartAlecSmartAcademia, Shetland Islands, Scotland UK10 Threads 9 Polls 254 Posts
quantum23: Women look for something meaningful
If only you'd known that before you opted for pitiful. comfort
Jul 29, 2018 5:15 PM CST What do Men/Women look for these days in a relationship
quantum23
quantum23quantum23dublin, Dublin Ireland5 Threads 5 Polls 144 Posts
AlecSmart: If only you'd known that before you opted for pitiful.
I have always known these things, I am not quite sure what your trying to say. Has it got something to do with a a Cleveland hot waffle ?
Jul 29, 2018 5:18 PM CST What do Men/Women look for these days in a relationship
AlecSmart
AlecSmartAlecSmartAcademia, Shetland Islands, Scotland UK10 Threads 9 Polls 254 Posts
quantum23: I am not quite sure what your trying to say. Has it got something to do with a a Cleveland hot waffle ?
I would say more to do with Dublin dipstick.
Jul 29, 2018 5:19 PM CST What do Men/Women look for these days in a relationship
I want integrity, loyality, honesty and a woman who shares similar values and hobbies. Looks are important to a degree, but the real value is in the things you can't see immediately.
Jul 29, 2018 5:27 PM CST What do Men/Women look for these days in a relationship
quantum23
quantum23quantum23dublin, Dublin Ireland5 Threads 5 Polls 144 Posts
AlecSmart: I would say more to do with Dublin dipstick.
Dipstick ! You and your s*xual innuendos, I know you're thinking about me and wishing you could pull.
Do you always want what you can't have lol
BTW if I was that way inclined I would probably give you a tip just because you're so persistent.
Jul 29, 2018 11:37 PM CST What do Men/Women look for these days in a relationship
pat8lanips
pat8lanipspat8lanipsbabinda, Queensland Australia64 Threads 11 Polls 6,818 Posts
The women are looking for money, the men are looking for sex.
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