Sametime More & more I say guys not into commitent
Nah, it's not the guy only... Responsibility of a cohabiting isn't appealing... "Your stuff" and "my stuff" is better for them... Less and less are the brave ones who believe people should create a family because this is how it should be if you want to give your children a good example in life... Many don't even want children... Disposable, that's what we became, easily disposable... People look for comfort and convenience the most...
In my case if I could live my life over I would have children in my late 30s
We have a choice I believe to often people don't really openly talk about the important topics
I had my kid in late 30's...and it felt like the perfect time... Yes, we have a choice... And yes, we don't talk enough about the things that matter and we don't do enough too...
justme165: I believe these days times has changed more & more men & women feel being single is right for them
Your View ?????
What do you seek in a relationship ??
Market forces. You make your own choices and you go your own way independent from other people and dependent on insurance. Insurance doesn’t tell you it loves you and then runs off with a buddy.
Women look for something meaningful that may or may not lead to something physical while men look for something physical that may or may not lead to something meaningful
janie1305Southampton, Hampshire, England UK916 posts
justme165: I believe these days times has changed more & more men & women feel being single is right for them
Your View ?????
What do you seek in a relationship ??
I have been single for many years after having a long marriage and two fabulous children I did a silly thing , forgave and remarried my ex husband, we both thought it was a good idea at the time ,but as someone advised me , which I did not heed,.....you cannot reheat a cold cup of coffee...... so true.
I am very happy being single only until I feel lousy with flu for example and nobody brings me a cup of something, or when I think about the consequences of an accident being alone in my home. In reality I suppose anyone can be alone if they suffer a heart attack regardless as to whether they have a family living with them.
I want integrity, loyality, honesty and a woman who shares similar values and hobbies. Looks are important to a degree, but the real value is in the things you can't see immediately.
justme165: I believe these days times has changed more & more men & women feel being single is right for them
Your View ?????
What do you seek in a relationship ??
Someone who is fun and trustworthy, who can take a joke and not go screaming into the street...oh wait that's me. No, really I like a guy with a great sense of humor because I hate being serious so if he's so dang serious all the time, it is not what I want - go see your mother. Life is too short to be angry, getting off on someone's misery, playing stupid games like they are in high school. And no snoring!! That's just wrong!!
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times has changed more & more men & women feel being single is right for them
Your View ?????
What do you seek in a relationship ??