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Jan 7, 2007 10:22 AM CST Ever afraid to
IrishLass1
IrishLass1IrishLass1Metairie, USA71 Threads 1,998 Posts
Ever afraid to wear out your welcome? Meet someone new, start talking, having alot in common. Talked so much one day, afraid to talk again thinking you might not click as well as before, and not be welcomed by them.
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Jan 7, 2007 10:27 AM CST Ever afraid to
nuala
nualanualadublin, Dublin Ireland12 Threads 6,456 Posts
yes i have had that feeling too but i felt i need to overcome my fear as i would miss out on a good thing.

You just need to boost your courage and go for it......wave


Anyway what have you to lose by the sounds of it you have a lot to gain.....applause hug
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Jan 7, 2007 10:33 AM CST Ever afraid to
IrishLass1
IrishLass1IrishLass1Metairie, USA71 Threads 1,998 Posts
Just asking a general question and would like to hear people's opinions. Comunication is something we all need to get to know each other a little better.
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Jan 7, 2007 10:34 AM CST Ever afraid to
longingformyluv
longingformyluvlongingformyluvPittsburgh, USA39 Threads 3,355 Posts
I think after first good encounter, both know the chemistry is there, the rest will flow....
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Jan 7, 2007 10:37 AM CST Ever afraid to
Kopperslip
KopperslipKopperslipLakeville, Connecticut USA7 Threads 444 Posts
You are not alone on that one, as long as you are truly welcomed in the first place... dancing
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Jan 7, 2007 10:40 AM CST Ever afraid to
cardsfan23
cardsfan23cardsfan23somewhere, USA23 Threads 4,228 Posts
well, i have felt if before but now i believe that after you meet and click really well the rest will take care of itself...if that makes any sensedoh
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Jan 7, 2007 10:45 AM CST Ever afraid to
Sadeyes044
Sadeyes044Sadeyes044Tonawanda, New York USA4 Threads 416 Posts
Yes and I thought that attraction was enough, if you're meant to be together and click on all levels then it works out. I have been chatting with a man for a month now, he knew we were Soul mates before I did. I was scared for the first couple weeks that he would go away like the rest did that were attracted. So far so good we click on all levels and as soon as he is better he is flying here to meet me. yay cheering applause
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Jan 7, 2007 10:46 AM CST Ever afraid to
Tumpa
TumpaTumpaottawa, Ontario Canada88 Threads 7,091 Posts
If the connection was truly there, the click will be too...
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Jan 7, 2007 1:16 PM CST Ever afraid to
red386
red386red386daytona, Florida USA13 Threads 360 Posts
Oh yeah. Been there, still there at times, but well worth it.banana
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Jan 7, 2007 1:19 PM CST Ever afraid to
adj4u
adj4uadj4unorth central, USA4,943 Posts
yes very much so

i hope it did not happen recently

smitten smitten
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Jan 7, 2007 1:22 PM CST Ever afraid to
Konigsberg
KonigsbergKonigsbergJurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada57 Threads 3 Polls 8,448 Posts
Never ... but consider to re-think this kind of attitude. Just for now At least, will give it a try ...

Good question handshake
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Jan 7, 2007 1:26 PM CST Ever afraid to
Wildness
WildnessWildnessMesa, USA92 Threads 1,549 Posts
I have never felt that but can understand it none the same.......

A first meeting can be so very intense and filled with generalations
and one liner questions but after that it should go deeper into who and what and where LOL type questions at that point you should have a feeling if not then you have not warn out you welcome cuz you still need more to make the connection.

Take the second chance to be sure is what i say cuz you will never know the answer to your question if you dont hug


just my .02 cents worthhug
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Jan 7, 2007 2:13 PM CST Ever afraid to
adj4u
adj4uadj4unorth central, USA4,943 Posts
hhhhhhhhhmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
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Jan 7, 2007 2:41 PM CST Ever afraid to
starliteisbrite
starliteisbritestarliteisbriteThe planet earth....:), Ontario Canada56 Threads 7,327 Posts
Fear is not apart of my make-up....not always a good thing,but not intirerly a bad thing.

Nothing venetured,nothing gained,and being bold/blunt helps determine much for me....
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Jan 7, 2007 4:08 PM CST Ever afraid to
bl8ant
bl8antbl8antAmsterdam, North Holland Netherlands3 Threads 1,000 Posts
trust your intuition..... when we give up so much information it sometimes needs to set up , to breathe, the other one needs to digest....


just as we do when someone does that with us...
the impulse is to enthusiastically explore, but the wisdom of a journey is in the pace
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